WoW 124: On transformation through suffering, Psychotherapy Series, Part 3

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Transformation Through Suffering: Embracing Spiritual Rebirth

In this episode of the psychotherapy series, part three delves into the concept of transformation through suffering. Josh explores the idea that true transformation requires a change in thinking, feeling, and actions, but also emphasizes the spiritual and mysterious nature of change, likened to a 'spiritual rebirth' that originates from a divine source beyond the material world. Despite the efficacy of evidence-based treatment modalities in therapy, this episode underscores the indispensable role of spiritual awakening and relational processes in healing. It argues against solely focusing on ceasing specific behaviors or quieting suffering, advocating instead for drawing closer to Christ in times of suffering to see the world and oneself anew. The episode includes powerful quotes from St. John of the Cross as well as Richard Rohr about the radical mind shift ('metanoia') necessary for personal and social transformation, framing suffering not as an obstacle but as a pathway to deep spiritual growth and connection. The episode concludes with reflective questions to encourage listeners to surrender to God's control and embrace suffering as part of their transformation journey.

00:00 Introduction to Transformation through Suffering

00:22 The Mysterious Nature of Transformation

01:30 The Role of Love in Transformation

02:03 Suffering as a Path to Transformation

02:43 Inspirational Quotes on Transformation

03:14 Understanding Metanoia: A Fundamental Transformation

05:21 Reflection Questions for Personal Transformation

05:43 Conclusion: Embracing Suffering for Transformation

About Josh Kalsbeek, LMFT

• As a Psychoherapist Josh helps people overcome their greatest struggles.

•Founder and CEO of Great Oaks Collective, and it's flagship program Overcome, a 10-Week virtual Intensive Outpatient Program for Christian couples experiencing sexual betrayal and addiction. www.greatoakscollective.com.

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Links

St. John of the Cross, The Dark Night, in The Collected Works of St. John of the Cross

Richard Rohr, The Wisdom Pattern

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