She is asking for more commitment in the relationship

From Jackals To Lions - The Path to Healthy Masculinity: Guiding Conscious Men towards Self-Transformation

The way how someone makes a request does not always match how that request is perceived or even understood. She might be telling you over and over again that she does not feel that you are committed to the relationship. She says that she is the only one investing in this and that you are like a ghost in this relationship. You do not understand her, or you believe you do but she is still coming back to this subject so you have not really solved anything.
In this episode, you will understand what is behind her request, and you will know how to manage the situation with more consciousness.

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