16 | When Helping Hurts: Avoiding the Mistakes of Job's Friends
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Have you ever been in deep pain, only to have someone’s words make it worse?
- Maybe they meant well, but their advice felt more like an accusation.
- Maybe they came to comfort you, but instead, they left you feeling more alone.
- Maybe their presence felt more like pressure than peace.
Job knew that feeling.
His life had crumbled—his wealth, his children, and his health, all gone in an instant.
When his friends arrived, they got it right at first.
They sat with him in silence, grieving beside him.
But then they started talking… and their words became another source of suffering.
In this episode, we’re diving into what Job’s friends got wrong—and how we can get it right. Because when someone around us is hurting, we have a choice:
Will we bring healing, or will we make the pain worse?
In This Episode, You’ll Discover:
✅ The right and wrong way to comfort someone in pain—and how Job’s friends got it disastrously wrong
✅ Why silence can sometimes be the most powerful support—and when words do more harm than good
✅ How to be a friend who lifts burdens instead of adding to them—practical ways to show up with grace, wisdom, and compassion
If you’ve ever been hurt by someone’s words in your pain—or if you want to learn how to better comfort those who are hurting—this message is for you.
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