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Being your Authentic Self

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محتوای ارائه شده توسط S Aschenbrenner. تمام محتوای پادکست شامل قسمت‌ها، گرافیک‌ها و توضیحات پادکست مستقیماً توسط S Aschenbrenner یا شریک پلتفرم پادکست آن‌ها آپلود و ارائه می‌شوند. اگر فکر می‌کنید شخصی بدون اجازه شما از اثر دارای حق نسخه‌برداری شما استفاده می‌کند، می‌توانید روندی که در اینجا شرح داده شده است را دنبال کنید.https://fa.player.fm/legal

How we trust ourselves and show up fully we have to be aware of what our authentic self is. Being your most authentic self takes a level of knowing and appreciating who we are, all of our parts, at the same time. We have core values that stay static. Trusting yourself and being securely attached to you is being attached to those core values. #authenticity #lovingbetter #corevalues #betruetoyou

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محتوای ارائه شده توسط S Aschenbrenner. تمام محتوای پادکست شامل قسمت‌ها، گرافیک‌ها و توضیحات پادکست مستقیماً توسط S Aschenbrenner یا شریک پلتفرم پادکست آن‌ها آپلود و ارائه می‌شوند. اگر فکر می‌کنید شخصی بدون اجازه شما از اثر دارای حق نسخه‌برداری شما استفاده می‌کند، می‌توانید روندی که در اینجا شرح داده شده است را دنبال کنید.https://fa.player.fm/legal

How we trust ourselves and show up fully we have to be aware of what our authentic self is. Being your most authentic self takes a level of knowing and appreciating who we are, all of our parts, at the same time. We have core values that stay static. Trusting yourself and being securely attached to you is being attached to those core values. #authenticity #lovingbetter #corevalues #betruetoyou

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