192. Stop Feeling Behind In Life, Quit Comparing Yourself & Build Unshakable Self Worth (Even If You're At Rock Bottom)

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محتوای ارائه شده توسط Cassandra Anderson, Emma Norman, and Cass Anderson. تمام محتوای پادکست شامل قسمت‌ها، گرافیک‌ها و توضیحات پادکست مستقیماً توسط Cassandra Anderson, Emma Norman, and Cass Anderson یا شریک پلتفرم پادکست آن‌ها آپلود و ارائه می‌شوند. اگر فکر می‌کنید شخصی بدون اجازه شما از اثر دارای حق نسخه‌برداری شما استفاده می‌کند، می‌توانید روندی که در اینجا شرح داده شده است را دنبال کنید.https://fa.player.fm/legal

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Jay Ruderman - How to Find Your Fight & Drive Social Change 32:17

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Jay is more than just the host of All About Change podcast. He is a lawyer and international activist, who has focused his life’s work on seeking social justice by advocating for the rights of people with disabilities worldwide. On the special episode of All About Change, Mijon Zulu, the managing producer of the "All About Change" podcast, is taking over hosting duties to interview Jay Ruderman about his new book, his activist journey, and why activism is even more important today. Episode Chapters (0:00) intro (02:38) How does one choose a cause to go after? (03:33) Jay’s path to activism (07:50) Practical steps a new activist can take (09:24) Confrontation vs trolling (17:36) Learning from activists operating in different sectors (19:20) Resilience in activism (22:24) Reflections on Find Your Fight and goodbye For video episodes, watch on www.youtube.com/@therudermanfamilyfoundation Stay in touch: X: @JayRuderman | @RudermanFdn LinkedIn: Jay Ruderman | Ruderman Family Foundation Instagram: All About Change Podcast | Ruderman Family Foundation To learn more about the podcast, visit https://allaboutchangepodcast.com/ Looking for more insights into the world of activism? Be sure to check out Jay’s brand new book, Find Your Fight , in which Jay teaches the next generation of activists and advocates how to step up and bring about lasting change. You can find Find Your Fight wherever you buy your books, and you can learn more about it at www.jayruderman.com .…

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We're talking with Anna Kai, the creator of maybe both, your favorite internet hype woman, and our GO TO for the brutally honest advice we need in our 20s. We unpack how to find self worth, what we're often getting wrong in our 20s and how to step off the comparison train. We also cover:

What we should ACTUALLY be focusing on in our 20s vs. what we're taught we should be doing
How to fully embrace the freedom of your 20s (whether your single or partnered)
What to do if you're struggling with self worth
How to navigate hitting "rock bottom"
Things to tell yourself when you start to compare or feel "behind" in life
Letting go of the need to be liked
Finding YOUR person aka someone who doesn't have to "leave you to love you"

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192. Stop Feeling Behind In Life, Quit Comparing Yourself & Build Unshakable Self Worth (Even If You're At Rock Bottom)

Honeydew Me

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What we should ACTUALLY be focusing on in our 20s vs. what we're taught we should be doing
How to fully embrace the freedom of your 20s (whether your single or partnered)
What to do if you're struggling with self worth
How to navigate hitting "rock bottom"
Things to tell yourself when you start to compare or feel "behind" in life
Letting go of the need to be liked
Finding YOUR person aka someone who doesn't have to "leave you to love you"

Connect with Anna:

Listen to Brutally Anna

Connect on TikTok

Visit her website HERE!

Watch Honeydew Me On YouTube

Keep up with Honeydew Me:

On Instagram
On TikTok

Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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209. Honey Archive: Entitled & Indulgent Foreplay 1:00:04

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We're revisiting the juiciest lesson on foreplay and initiation with none other than Haylin Belay. Haylin is a sexual health educator, bodyworker, and pleasure witch who is ready to CHANGE YOUR DAMN LIFE. We cover: Expanding your definition of foreplay How to turn yourself ON Understanding the phases of sexual arousal and USING that to your advantage How to feel ENTITLED to your needs How to make communication feel ✨sexy✨ Low-stakes ways to initiate sex How to engage in foreplay ALL DAY Connect with Haylin: On Instagram On her website Subscribe to our Patreon HERE for exclusive content! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices…

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208. Q+A: "My best friend and I are in different life stages... how do we stay close while growing in different directions?" 45:53

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In this week's episode we're answering one of YOUR questions with a combination of expert tips, personal experience, and a whole lot of vulnerability. The Question: "My best friend and I have been inseparable for years, but now we’re in different life stages—she’s focused on her career and dating and I’m starting a family. It’s hard to stay as close as we were. How can we keep this friendship strong while growing in different directions?" We cover: • Expert tips for navigating change within a friendship • Questions you need to ask yourself • Conversations you need to be having with your friend • Ways to support one another • Permission to just be sad... because honestly change sucks sometimes (even when it's a good thing) For more episodes like this, SUBSCRIBE TO OUR PATREON HERE! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices…

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207. Why You Need To Stop Prioritizing P in V Sex + What To Do Instead 50:39

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If the sex you're having is overly focused on penetration, you're missing out on a WORLD of pleasure. Treating P in V as the main event is keeping us from exploring the endless buffet of sexual options, which is why we're learning to broaden our menu with Claire Perelman, a Certified Sex Therapist. In this episode we dive into: WHY you need to start decentering P in V sex The BENEFITS of focusing on sexual acts outside of penetration How to tell your partner you want to stop prioritizing penetrative sex What to try instead of penetration Connect with Claire: On her website On Instagram Subscribe to our Patreon HERE to watch this episode and access exclusive content! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices…

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206. Expectations vs Reality: When Sex Doesn’t Go As Planned 48:57

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Ever had sex that didn't live up to your expectations? Maybe you didn't feel the way you thought you "should" or things didn't turn out the way you imagined. Moments like these can lead to some serious negative feelings, making you want to avoid sex altogether. Luckily, Sex Therapist Jessa Zimmerman is equipping us with all the tips, tools and knowledge to navigate these tricky times. We cover: What sexual avoidance is, how it can feel, and WHY it happens Redefining all the "shoulds" that come with sex Tools for navigating sexual avoidance Understanding low libido Rethinking the belief that "the low desire partner needs to change" Connect with Jessa HERE! Subscribe to our Patreon HERE to access exclusive content! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices…

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205. You, But Better: A How-To Guide For Changing The Parts Of Your Personality That Are Holding You Back 58:21

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Ever wish you could hit refresh on a few of your personality traits? Maybe you want to be less nervous, more outgoing, or become a little more organized. Olga Khazan, author of the new book "Me, But Better: The Science and Promise of Personality Change" is chatting us through the HOW TO's of all that and more, so grab a pen and buckle up. We cover: The "Big 5" personality traits-- emotional stability, extraversion, openness, agreeableness & conscientiousness How to figure out where you rank on each of the Big 5 traits Are you still being "authentic" if you try to change your personality? Olga's tips (based on years of research and personal experience) for changing your personality Action steps you can take to become more extroverted, less neurotic, more open and/or more conscientious Take the personality test Olga took HERE! Get Olga's Book HERE! Read Olga's other work at The Atlantic HERE! Connect with Olga on her Substack HERE! Subscribe to our Patreon HERE to access exclusive content! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices…

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204. Your Guide To Crafting The Perfect Masturbation Practice 52:49

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Chances are your masturbation practice could use a little *refresh*. That's why we're giving you a step by step guide to crafting your PERFECT solo play ritual. We cover: What our current masturbation practices look like (HINT: not ideal lol) WHY you should be prioritizing masturbation The MANY physical, emotional, mental, AND relationship benefits of masturbating How to set up your space for a peaceful practice Extra steps you can take to make yourself feel special 3 example masturbation practices Subscribe to our Patreon HERE to access our Masturbation Menu Downloadable and so much more! References In the Episode: Passion Fruit Fizz Mocktail Recipe Liz Moody's Creamy Strawberry Cinnamon Aphrodisiac Mocktail Silk Sheets Playlist BB Outlet by Bellesa Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices…

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203. How To Embrace Your Inner Dominatrix + An Inside Look At What It’s Like To Be A Lifestyle Dom 1:09:29

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Whether you're looking to take charge in the bedroom, feel more confident in your everyday life, or learn wtf it means to be a lifestyle dom, then this episode is FOR YOU. We're talking with Mistress Damiana Chi, a legendary Dominatrix with over 25 years of experience and a Ph.D. in clinical psychology who uses BDSM as a healing modality. We cover: A refresher on what BDSM is and what it means to be a Dominatrix What it's like to be a lifestyle dom and a deep dive into the master/slave dynamic within BDSM The 4 Dominatrix Archetypes and how YOU can start embodying each one How BDSM can be used as a healing modality for both the giver and receiver Simple strategies you can use to come across as more confident (in and outside the bedroom) How to be more dominant in the bedroom as a beginner PLUS Damiana walks us through what a session with her looks like! Connect with Mistress Damiana Chi HERE! JOIN OUR PATREON HERE to watch this episode, access exclusive content, and so much more! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices…

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202. Tools For Navigating Life’s Big Transitions Together 1:07:29

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BIG transitions are a part of life. Whether you're moving in together, getting married, having a baby or experiencing some other form of change, your relationship is bound to feel a little (or a lot) different. Cue Tarah & EJ Kerwin, two therapists on a mission to provide couples with the tools they need to GET THROUGH these transitions without giving up on one another. In this episode, we cover: The most common transitions couples go through and WHY they're so f*cking hard (even if they're "supposed" to be good) Habits to start incorporating NOW so you can navigate big transitions with ease A weekly check in you can do with your partner to feel seen, heard & supported Simple tools to help keep you on track during a fight Questions you can ask to reignite the intimacy in your relationship And at what point you should consider WALKING AWAY Connect with EJ and Tarah: Listen Relationship Renovation HERE! Check out their website HERE! Follow them on Instagram HERE! Watch their YouTube HERE! JOIN OUR PATREON HERE to watch this episode, access exclusive content, and so much more! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices…

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201. The History of Porn 1:21:22

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We're diving DEEP into the history of PORN with our friends over at Right Answers Mostly, Claire and Tess. From the dawn of time to the creation of the internet, porn has captivated us horny little humans for basically EVER. So in this episode we're covering: Ancient porn (because, again, humans have been horny from the start) Porn in the 1800's (including erotic novels, naughty nudes & Stag Films) The Golden Age of Porn Porn & Pop Culture A lesson on ethical porn (what is it, why it's cool & how to know if YOUR porn is ethical) The types of porn people are actually watching (in 2016, 2021 & 2024) PLUS a few benefits of watching porn! Listen to Right Answers Mostly HERE! JOIN OUR PATREON HERE to access exclusive content, the video for this episode and so much more! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices…

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200. Try These Sex Games To Build Intimacy, Shake Up Your Routine & Have FUN In The Bedroom 48:14

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SEX IS SUPPOSED TO BE FUN! Which is why we're introducing you to a BUTTLOAD of games you can start playing in the bedroom and beyond. We cover: WHY you need to start playing sex games and their MANY benefits Games to help you and your partner get to know each other Teasing games to help build the (sexual) tension Orgasm denial games Food games Games to play with sex toys Timed games & actual board games (including a special Honeydew Me game you can get if you subscribe to our Patreon!) JOIN OUR PATREON HERE to access exclusive content, the game downloadable from this episode and so much more! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices…

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199. Tools To Strengthen Your Long Term Relationship + The Common (But Toxic) Mistakes We Make 55:00

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We're diving into long term relationships with Dr. Frankie Bashan, a sex therapist and founder of Little Gay Book, an LGBTQIA+ matchmaking service! We cover: Whether or not long term relationships should feel EASY + other common misconceptions about LTRs The tools you NEED to build a strong relationship The common (and toxic) mistakes we're making in our relationships How to navigate with dreaded "roommate phase" What being "clingy" actually means and what you can do to address it Daily + weekly habits you can start incorporating into your life to benefit your relationship Connect with Dr. Frankie: On YouTube Through Little Gay Book or Little Black Book Watch Her Ted Talk HERE! JOIN OUR PATREON HERE to access exclusive content, the video for this episode and so much more! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices…

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198. Q + A: "HELP! The Sex Is Bad..." 39:36

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In this week's episode we're answering one of YOUR questions with a combination of expert tips, personal experience, and a much needed pep talk. The Question: "I’ve been with my boyfriend for a while now, and the sex... it’s just not great. It’s not that we don’t like each other, but it just feels off. I want to be honest, I just don't know how to approach it, so please HELP!" We cover: Questions to ask yourself Expert tips for talking about sex with a partner How to give critical feedback KINDLY How to give feedback *in the moment* Why it's actually TOTALLY OKAY (and very normal) to be bad at sex Permission to break up with someone if the sex is bad For more episodes like this, SUBSCRIBE TO OUR PATREON HERE! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices…

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197. How To Navigate Mismatched Sexual Desire + The #1 Question You Need To Be Asking Your Partner 56:21

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We're exploring how to navigate mismatched sexual desire with Susan Morgan Taylor, MA, a Somatic Sex Therapist and Relationship Coach. Did you know it's completely normal for sexual fulfillment and desire to waiver over the course of a relationship? Luckily Susan has a buttload of tools to help get through these tricky times. We cover: WHY these discrepancies happen (even if it used to feel like you were on the same page) What the research says about HOW LONG couples struggle with intimacy issues before getting help + tips for navigating any shame associated with these issues Steps you can take to address desire discrepancy Questions you can ask yourself or your partner to COMPLETELY CHANGE your sex life The skills you need to build (or rebuild) a FULFILLING sex life Connect with Susan: On her website On Instagram JOIN OUR PATREON HERE to access exclusive content, the video for this episode and so much more! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices…

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196. 50 Sex Acts To Try In 2025 (Pt. 2) 53:11

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The journey continues as we give you OVER 50 SEX ACTS to try in 2025. From foreplay, to masturbation, to positions, to kink, we're helping you build your sexual tool kit and feel confident AF anytime you step into the bedroom. In Part 2, we're covering: Spicy and adventurous places to get it on Refresher on how to give amazing oral and hand sex Kinky ideas for adding spice to your routine Aftercare and how it enhances your intimacy Plus BTS stories on unaired episodes JOIN OUR PATREON HERE to access exclusive content, the resource list for this episode and so much more! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices…

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195. 50 Sex Acts To Try In 2025 (Part 1) 41:49

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We're giving you OVER 50 SEX ACTS to try in 2025. From foreplay, to masturbation, to positions, to kink, we're helping you build your sexual tool kit and feel confident AF anytime you step into the bedroom. In Part 1, we're covering: Our favorite foreplay techniques Tips for dirty talk & sexting How to actually feel SEXY Exciting ways to spice up your masturbation practice 10 different sex positions and tips for making them PLEASURABLE AF JOIN OUR PATREON HERE to access exclusive content, the resource list for this episode and so much more! Tune in next week for the other 25+ sex acts worth trying this year! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices…

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