050 - Love At First Sight? Vetting For Healthy Relationships, Polarity, Intuition Vs. Impulse With Taylor Burrowes PhD

Ashley Taylor Wellness Podcast

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2:11 - Taylor’s story
4:00 - How common is sexual trauma?
4:49 - Trauma could have been normalized
6:00 - Ashley’s story
6:43 - Identity & how we see ourselves after trauma or even being a single mom
9:00 - Amazing story of Ashley’s grandmother finding love at 78, traveling the world
11:00 - Influenced by the media
13:00 - Age gaps
17:50 - Vetting
20:11 - What to look for when vetting
23:50 - Interests are not indicative to compatibility
24:30 - Intuition vs. Impulse (gut feeling vs. being triggered)
25:30 - Stockholm syndrome (going back to an abuser because it feels safe)
30:00 - Love at first sight
31:40 - Masculine role vs. feminine role
32:30 - Pacing
34:30 - Enthusiasm often comes from the feminine, and pacing often comes from the masculine
36:00 - Boundaries when dating
38:15 - Polarity
40:40 - 80/20 rule works for Taylor personally
43:33 - Date planning, leave it for the masculine?
45:30 - Love is not control
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