Advice for smart men on how to succeed with women in sex, dating, relationships, and marriages. Beautiful women give you a peek behind the curtain into what the feminine really craves from the masculine ... and how to give it to us. If you want deep dating advice, help with relationships, or tips on how to have sex with women in a way they'll swoon over, c'mon in. Personal growth is sexy, haven't you heard? And if you're ready to do the work, come work with us -- we'd love to have you: www.e ...
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She Cums First: Promoting equitable pleasure and sexuality education. Good day, Dr. Nick Myers here. This podcast is focused on sexual health and all of the pleasure that comes with it. In the education section of my Facebook group, there are sessions called Selfless Sex where you think about viewing your entire body as a sexual playground. Above all, lets start a movement where we introduce "sexual chivalry," and guys are gentlemen. Who is with me? #SheCumsFirst #SCF
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The Podcast for Producers Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCijzViDaoVljjDXyEPTIwyQ?sub_confirmation=1 Poducer is a journey into the heart of music creation. We bring you closer to the stories, techniques, and personalities shaping today's music industry. Whether you're an aspiring producer, a seasoned audio engineer, or a music lover, Poducer offers you a unique perspective on the art and science of music production. Our episodes feature in-depth interviews with top music p ...
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”There was a dysregulation in my nervous system if something wasn’t going the way I wanted to." So says Jason about what life was like when he was more needy. Are you needy? Is your partner? How do you navigate difference? Here, we explore the themes around sex, dating, relationships, needs, desires, and the nervous system. — Memorable quotes from …
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Do you ever feel ashamed of your porn use, or wish you could stop or cut down? Ever had trouble getting it up and wondered if that's connected to porn use? Ever compared dating partners to women you see in porn, and wondered if that was negatively impacting your sex or love life? Over 10% of men are addicted to porn, according to a 2019 study in th…
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Alex Kislov: Dream Sequence, Burning Man, Self Defense, Chicago Dance Scene
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Watch the video: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCijzViDaoVljjDXyEPTIwyQ?sub_confirmation=1DJ and producer Alex Kislov dives into the creative journey behind his new album Dream Sequence, a project inspired by daydreams, precognition and déjà vu. Alex explores how he crafted dream-like, atmospheric sounds to evoke different states of consciousness…
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332: Ever gone into freeze? Here’s what’s actually going on. (ft. Stacy Matulis)
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If you've ever felt anxious around a woman you were attracted to, gone rigid when you tried to flirt, or completely shut down during a fight with your partner, you know what it is to go into freeze. When we're overwhelmed, we can lock up. This is inconvenient if what you really want to do in that moment is to move, get someone's number, or speak up…
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331: GirlTalk: Relationship lessons, growth work, and memorable men
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Ever wondered what different women say when they get really real about their last relationship? How about why they do growth work — and what it looks like for them? Here, I take you behind the curtain to give you a peek at exactly that. This is an amalgam episode with responses from over over ten women who answered three questions: What’s the bigge…
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Nimda: Tearout, US Visa Process, Kai Wachi, Music Mentoring
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Watch the video: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCijzViDaoVljjDXyEPTIwyQ?sub_confirmation=1UK-based Tearout producer Nimda discusses his musical journey and distinctive heavy sound. He shares anecdotes about engaging live performances, including interactive crowd moments and his signature shirtless sets due to the intense energy and heat. Nimda de…
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330: GirlTalk: How to go down on her so she loves it!
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If you love having sex with women and want to be known as a great lover, being good at going down is an important part of your repertoire. ;) But it’s not easy to talk about this with anyone, so here we’re laying it bare. Four of us ladies share openly about what really works for us in oral sex -- what we desire, long for, and what holds us back in…
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CoryaYo: Sound Healing, Introspection, Plant Medicine, Visionary Art
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Watch the video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xiOSmsCsEmw&ab_channel=PoducerCoryaYo, a multifaceted music producer, sound healer, and visionary artist from Chicago. They explore his artistic journey in music production, touching on genres like hip-hop, ambient music, and meditation music. The conversation delves into spirituality, mindfulness, a…
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329: How do you stay grounded when she's dysregulated (upset, stressed, anxious, angry, etc.)? (ft. Jason Lange)
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When your partner gets anxious or upset, do you feel like it's your fault or that you have to fix it immediately? How able are you to stay grounded and feel your own self, even amidst her storm/upset? Ever found yourself doing anything to calm her down -- because your sense of being OK was contingent upon her feeling OK? (We find this common in the…
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DJ Mochi: Amapiano, Everyday People, Global Currency, DJ Etiquette
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DJ Mochi, a Chicago-based DJ, producer, and event curator. DJ Mochi shares insights into his career, musical influences, and the cultural significance of the genres he plays. Contrary to popular belief, his name is not derived from the Japanese rice cake dessert. The nickname "Mochi" originated in Argentina, where friends called him "Mochi," short …
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328: Betrayal trauma. How do you recover? (ft. Rosanne Delaney)
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"For so long I felt like, ‘this is only happening in my marriage.’" If you've ever experienced something dark, difficult, or deeply challenging in your love relationship, *and didn't feel like you could talk about it with others,* you'll relate to this episode. Few topics bring up wounds as deep as betrayal. Whether you've experienced a partner che…
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327: Transforming shame into power. Yes, it’s possible. (ft. Jason Lange & Luke Adler)
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What are you most ashamed of? Is it your sexuality -- how much you want and need sex, or your deep-down cravings that you fear others would judge if they knew about? Is it your yearning for love, your desire to be held or seen or known in some fundamental way? Many of the biggest breakthroughs we've witnessed in clients have come when they've heade…
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Ever experienced porn addiction (and had that affect your love relationship), contended with erectile dysfunction or premature ejaculation, or been worried about what your cock looks like? Then you'll feel right at home with this episode. Here, several men in our community share their unvarnished truth with their own voices. They forthrightly and v…
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325: What if *every* woman had a self-pleasure practice? (ft. Violet Lange)
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Do you wish your woman was more open to sex? Not just intercourse, but the fun of the whole sex thing -- kissing, making out, foreplay, getting hot and heavy, doing the dirty. Ever longed for more from your wife/girlfriend/partner when it comes to sexuality -- and not just "from her" but with her? Ever wished she had more fun when it came to sex, t…
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324: What does it mean to open a woman? (ft. Jason Lange)
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Ever been around a woman who was closed down, shut off, or emotionally unavailable? Ever felt like your partner wanted to say something but was holding back, and if you'd somehow shown up in a different way, maybe she'd have let you in? Perhaps you've felt some version of, "I can’t handle that anger right now so I need to remove that anger from her…
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323: How do 12-step programs connect to healthy relationships? (ft. Mark Wilde)
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"When I was at my worst, I didn’t know there was a way out." Sometimes in life we get stuck. We don't know how to deal with big feelings, so we self-medicate -- with alcohol, or porn, or weed, or food. But often the self-medication gets in the way of things we really want -- love; intimacy; healthy, connected sex; joy. You may think of 12-step prog…
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In this episode of Poducer, we sit down with Colin from GoodSex during the GoodBus takeover at Fulton Market in Chicago. Colin shares the story of his first concert, reflects on the origins of GoodSex with his partner Joe, and dives into his upcoming move to LA for a Master's in music composition. We also explore what GoodSex really means and the s…
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322: 5 ways to polarize a powerful woman (ft. Jason Lange) [Replay]
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Has your woman ever been in her masculine, and you wished she was in her feminine? Here's something that doesn't work: "Hey, could you drop into your feminine already?" ;) So how do you polarize your woman well? Polarity is one of those mysteries in life like electricity: We don't fully grasp why it works, but we can harness its power to make our l…
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Have you ever been concerned about getting involved with a woman because you didn't want to hurt her feelings if it didn't work out? Ever felt like you shouldn't go deeper emotionally with a woman you were dating because you weren't sure you wanted to put a ring on it? Does it ever feel like all women want a long-term, committed relationship, so if…
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If you’ve become aware that you experienced developmental trauma (and/or attachment wounding), you may wonder how to heal from it. Where do you go to move through stuck parts of yourself that are holding you back? How do you get things moving and release blocks so you can finally get what you want in sex, dating, and relationships? Jason was a self…
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Ever felt like when it comes to your relationship, you're constantly waiting for the other shoe to drop? Or that when you come home, you don't know what (or who) you're going to get? Or that every moment is, "Are they OK?" "Are they OK?" "Are they OK?" Reality check: It is not normal to be constantly on guard or anxious in your relationship. That k…
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Watch the video interview on YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCijzViDaoVljjDXyEPTIwyQ?sub_confirmation=1In this episode, we're thrilled to have Joe from the GoodBus and GoodSex join us. Joe shares the inspiring story of how the Good Bus came to be, born from a vision at Burning Man to create a mobile stage that supports emerging artists. Jo…
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318: GirlTalk: Role play in sex. What's it like!?
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Ever wanted to explore role-play in sex? If so, you're not alone! According to research, one in three people in North America alone wants to try some kind of role-play in the bedroom, whether that's doctor/patient, professor/student, cop/detainee, pirate/wench or some other sexy dynamic. Why is sexual role-play so intriguing? Is it different from k…
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Watch the video interview on YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCijzViDaoVljjDXyEPTIwyQ?sub_confirmation=1Today, we're excited to have Jason from EVOL join us. In this episode, we dive into the heart of EVOL, a vibrant clothing and merchandise brand that embodies love and creativity in the EDM community.Jason shares his journey with EVOL, sta…
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Watch the video interview on YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCijzViDaoVljjDXyEPTIwyQ?sub_confirmation=1In this episode, we sit down with Gene, also known as the Yummy Trucker, from EVOL Afters. Gene shares the captivating origin story of the EVOL Afters party at Electric Forest, a beloved event that has grown into a sensation since its acc…
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317: What exactly IS codependency? (How do you know if you’re codependent?) (ft. Jason Lange)
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"It felt kind of like a trap, but at the same time felt like a soothing warm blanket to feel safe and ruminate within." "The codependent relationship is filled with drama. There is blaming, a victim and the rescuer/protector. That rescuer is filled with needing to be needed. That’s where it began for me." "It was years of trying as hard as I could …
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Cozycole.g: Quiet Storm, Sunday Music Sessions, Anime Inspirations, Gaming, Detroit to Chicago
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Watch the video interview on YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCijzViDaoVljjDXyEPTIwyQ?sub_confirmation=1In this episode of Poducer, we sit down with Cozycole.g, a talented music producer with a passion for beat making and the Chicago music scene. He discusses his unique approach to music production, drawing inspiration from genres like Quie…
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316: Where do you find quality masculine role models? (ft. Jason Lange) [replay]
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Did you have a deeply present, emotionally aware father who took the time to attune to you and teach you how to be a trustworthy, integrated man? If so, you're in the minority. ;) Most of our clients had far-less-than-ideal role models when it came to the masculine -- which makes becoming a trustable adult man challenging. For example, do you feel …
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HerShe: Beatboxing, Techniques, Signature Sounds, Craigslist Gigs, Competitions, Future Music
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Watch the video interview on YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCijzViDaoVljjDXyEPTIwyQ?sub_confirmation=1HerShe is a multifaceted artist with a rich background in DJing and beatboxing. Starting as a young DJ at Sweet 16s and bar mitzvahs, HerShe quickly developed a unique style, blending genres and incorporating beatboxing into live sets. Kn…
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315: What happens once you’ve recovered from Nice Guy Syndrome? (ft. Dr. Robert Glover)
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There's a lot out there about Nice Guy Syndrome. But what happens after? What is the magical land of Boundaries, for example? If you’ve figured out you’re a Nice Guy, you’ve likely been in a love relationship or two (or five) where you felt like your partner walked all over you, or where you developed resentment after overextending yourself. Or per…
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314: Can microdosing help you develop better relationships? (ft. David Romero)
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Ever contended with anxiety, depression, chronic pain, ADHD, or OCD ... and had that affect your sex or love life? Ever suspected that you have generational trauma, or thought you were broken? Ever felt like there was something wrong with you because you just can't seem to get it together when it comes to relationships? Spoiler alert: There is noth…
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Watch the video interview on YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCijzViDaoVljjDXyEPTIwyQ?sub_confirmation=1In this episode of Poducer, we are joined by the Lake Effect crew, a collective of DJs and music enthusiasts in Chicago. They share their unique journey, starting from spontaneous outdoor pop-up events to establishing a community-driven m…
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313: GuyTalk: Life after being with a BPD partner (Borderline Personality Disorder)
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"I took responsibility for things that wasn’t mine to take." So begins the brave stories of four men who share their personal experiences of what it was like being in relationship with a woman with Borderline Personality Disorder (or with traits of it). If you've ever been unsure about whether your partner may have traits of BPD, this is a good one…
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Wolf'd: War Dubs, The Middle Finger, Seth Drake, Phase Management, Acting Background, Festival Crews
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Watch the video interview on YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCijzViDaoVljjDXyEPTIwyQ?sub_confirmation=1Welcome to Poducer, the podcast for producers! In this episode, we sit down with the talented producer and DJ, Wolf'd. We delve into his journey from stage acting to music production, exploring his love for dubstep, liquid drum and bass, …
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312: GirlTalk: How much money do you make, and how much does that matter?
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Have you ever felt like you needed to make a lot of money to impress women? Ever had a dynamic shift around money in a relationship, and not known how to deal with it (for example, she starts making more than you, and you have unexpected feelings about that)? Have you wondered who should pay on a date (do you offer to? Is that considered sexist now…
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Watch the video interview on YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCijzViDaoVljjDXyEPTIwyQ?sub_confirmation=1We sat down with DISTINCT MOTIVE, a prominent figure in the dubstep scene at Solar Tide. We dive into his musical journey, starting from his early days with simple setups like a single KRK monitor and a subpac, to playing on massive sound…
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Ever chased emotionally unavailable women? Ever dropped a connection because you felt overwhelmed, or like something was "off" but you couldn't quite name what it was? Ever been uncomfortable with the "mess" of dealing with someone else's emotions, or been hesitant to share your own out of a fear of rocking the boat? Then this episode will resonate…
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Watch the video interview on YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCijzViDaoVljjDXyEPTIwyQ?sub_confirmation=1We sat down with Nic Baker at Solar Tide to dive deep into their musical journey. Join us as we discuss the origins of the Nic Baker name, their unique sound, and their experiences in the music industry.Sponsorships:QUAKE EarplugsUse code…
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Sexy time, pickers, and dating, oh my! Here I answer the following three common client or listener questions: "I’ve heard women say it’s a red flag if the man has not had relationship experience. What do you say?" "One issue I've had is selecting the right female partner. What is a good way to guide myself to go about doing this?" (My picker is off…
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Fess Grandiose: Origin of Open Beats, Modular Synthesis, Overhyped Brands, WFXR, NAMM vs. Superbooth
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Welcome to another episode of Poducer, the podcast for producers! In this episode, we dive deep into the Chicago beat-making scene and the world of modular synthesis with our special guest, Fess Grandiose.Watch the video interview on YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCijzViDaoVljjDXyEPTIwyQ?sub_confirmation=1Support Us by Buying a Hathttps:/…
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309: How do you know when it's time to get a divorce? (ft. Jason Lange)
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When is it time to stay and work on things in your marriage, and when is it time to let things go? Perhaps you can relate to scenarios like these: You're worn out and exhausted because you're always the one reaching out to your wife and never getting anything back You're great co-parents but your sex life is DOA As a couple you rarely or never open…
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Ghost Lotus & SWAMPZ: Denver Bass Scene, G-Step, Skrillex, TubShroom, Ketamine
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Join us as we dive deep into the world of music production, live performances, and the vibrant bass music scene in Denver. Ghost Lotus shares his incredible experiences with top-notch sound systems, his journey through various music genres, and the importance of branding and manifestation in his career. SWAMPZ joins the conversation, adding his ins…
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308: Are you staying together for the kids? There may be another way to go. (ft. Jason Lange)
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If your marriage isn't working, you're suffering. Maybe you're fighting all the time (whether aloud or not). Maybe you're great co-parents, but you don't connect in an intimate way anymore. And when I say "intimate" I'm not just talking about sex; I'm talking about warmth, closeness, and connection. Should you automatically stay in a relationship b…
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Ashton: Grim, Life Insurance, Moving to Florida, Back of the Crowd
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Dive into Ashton's journey from impromptu DJ sets to professional music production, and his exciting future projects under his new alias, Grim. Tune in for an insightful look into the evolving landscape of EDM through Ashton's unique experiences and storiesWatch the video interview on YouTube:www.youtube.com/channel/UCijzViDa…ub_confirmation=1Follo…
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Have you ever been scared of your wife / woman partner? Ever been harmed by her? If yes, it's likely you never felt like you could talk to anyone about it because you were afraid of what they would say, or whether they would shame you. In polarity work, we often talk about feminine storm. But where's the line between feminine storm, feminine rage, …
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Today's guest is me. hi 👋😊Watch the video interview on YouTube:www.youtube.com/channel/UCijzViDa…ub_confirmation=1Follow Jerry:https://linktr.ee/jerryvalakasFollow Poducer:https://linktr.ee/poducerpodcastتوسط Jerry Valakas
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"I’m getting a boner — what’s she going to think??" So begins the conflict for a lot of boys and men have around their cock. From a young age -- basically from the time boners start to be a thing, "It’s like a lot of men are constantly tracking, ‘Am I having an erection and if I do, how do I hide it?’" The thing is, hiding and secrets go hand-in-ha…
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Star Monster: Alien, Burning Man, Visionary Art, Twilight Zone, Smart Studios, Cartoon, Howlin' Wolf
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Today's guest is Star Monster.Watch the video interview on YouTube:www.youtube.com/channel/UCijzViDa…ub_confirmation=1This episode of Star Monster delves deeply into the intersection of personal history, music, and art, as the guest shares his multifaceted journey. Central to the discussion is the guest's experience owning the legendary Smart Studi…
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305: GuyTalk: Overcoming religious programming
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Did you grow up with a religious background? Then congrats, you likely experienced sexual shame! Perhaps you still do to this day. The truth is, it's deeply confusing to grow up having completely natural sexual urges, but be told you're bad or wrong for having them. In the words of the panelists: "For a long time I thought, 'What’s wrong with me? W…
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CLB: Drum & Bass, Jersey/Philly Cub, Vegas Pool Parties, Hard-Clipping, Minecraft Pig, Call/Response
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