Stop Ignoring Relationship Red Flags: 30 Important Things to Look Out For

The Root and Rise Podcast | Personal Growth, Breaking Cycles, & Healing Trauma

If you are dating, you NEED to keep an eye out for these relationship red flags. They can save you a lot of precious time, energy, money, and most importantly - HEARTACHE. You deserve to be with someone who is worthy of these parts of you - and who treats you well. Learn from my (many, many) dating mistakes and stop ignoring these relationship red flags.
Content warning: Discussion of abuse in romantic relationships

We will discuss:

• Exceptions to the rules in dating and relationships
• What are relationship red flags?
• How to identify dating red flags
• Important safety tips for the first date, dating, and relationships
• How to spot controlling partners
• When your partner is trying to change you
• How not to lose yourself in relationships
• Early signs of abuse
• Abuse red flags
• Different types of abuse
• What to do when you can't trust your partner
• Jealous and possessive partners
• How to tell if they are actually over their ex
• How to spot gaslighting in a relationship
• When your partner doesn't get along with your friends or family (or when your friends and family don't like your partner)
• Name-calling in arguments
• Finding out if you are compatible on a date
• Dating emotionally unavailable men
• Dating men with a fear of commitment
• What is "love bombing"?
• How to tell if you are being love-bombed
• When your date or partner doesn't respect your boundaries
• Healthy boundaries in relationships
• When you feel like you are "too much" or not good enough for someone
• Unsupportive partners
• Relationship and dating deal-breakers
• Dating advice and first date tips
• Plus more red flags to watch out for while dating!

Episodes and Articles Mentioned:

• How to Stop Playing Small (And Start Living Authentically)
• How to Deal with Triggers

If you believe you might be in an abusive relationship, I urge you to contact the National Domestic Violence Hotline. You can call 1-800-799-SAFE or (7233) or text START to 88788

And if any of this is triggering to you, go check out my episode on How to Deal with Triggers.

Resources:

• https://www.thehotline.org/identify-abuse/
• https://www.loveisrespect.org/resources/types-of-abuse/
• https://www.healthline.com/health/signs-of-mental-abuse#control-and-shame
  
  

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