#247 Master Unshakable Confidence: Transform Self-Doubt into Empowerment with Proven Strategies

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"Confidence is not an inherent trait but rather a skill that can be cultivated through practice and faith." ~Tami Imlay

When I talk to people about what they need to make things happen…they typically say motivation and confidence. I have spoken of motivation being a by-product of action…it’s a by-product of the progress we see as we take action. Today, I wanted to dive into today is how confidence is good- but UNSHAKABLE confidence is even better. The cool thing is that we can have unshakable confidence right now! We can dive into it and build that muscle like building a bicep! Ready to see what’s possible?

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Let's dive into three essential steps to make any dream come true:

1. Step Outside Your Comfort Zone: Life doesn’t happen in your comfort zone. It’s where growth gets stunted. Embrace the discomfort, the “what did I just do” moments. You’re not alone in this; many women are navigating this zone too. Share your journey with a friend for support and encouragement.
2. Make Sacrifices: Sacrifice today’s comfort for tomorrow’s success. This might mean less Netflix and more time reading or working on your goals. I did it as a single mom with toddlers, balancing school, work, and an internship. Know what you’re not willing to sacrifice too—like your core values or essential self-care.
3. Persist Through Failure: Setbacks aren’t the end; they’re part of the journey. I had to embrace being an entrepreneur, learning from failures and pushing through. Know yourself, your purpose, and let God guide you. Success comes when you align your actions with who God created you to be.

Key Takeaways:

• Confidence as a Skill: Confidence is not an inherent trait but a skill that can be cultivated through practice and faith.
• Faith-Based Confidence: For those who follow Christ, confidence is bolstered by divine support and guidance, providing a spiritual foundation for their actions.
• Resting in God: Confidence is rooted in faith, supported by biblical passages that encourage strength, courage, and self-discipline.
• Positive Self-Talk: Positive self-talk is crucial in building confidence. Focusing on strengths and past achievements can help overcome self-doubt.
• Indicators of Low Confidence:
  • Seeking approval from others can erode self-confidence.
  • Avoiding challenges stifles personal growth.
  • Negative self-talk fosters self-doubt.
• Characteristics of Unshakable Confidence:
  • Willingness to take risks.
  • Handling criticism constructively.
  • Consistency in actions and decisions.
• Strategies for Building Confidence:
  • Embrace small steps for gradual confidence growth.
  • Maintain an evidence list of past successes.
  • Surround yourself with confident people for inspiration and motivation.
• Vision and Purpose: Having a vision for one’s life and aligning it with purpose is integral to building unshakable confidence.

Journal Question:

Reflect on a recent challenge you faced. How did your self-talk influence your approach to this challenge, and what steps can you take to ensure your self-talk supports your confidence in future situations?

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