EP 1:44: Sober Fetish and Kink: Healing the Sexual Template with Ralf

The AfterMeth: Gay Men Recovering from Crystal Methamphetamine Addiction

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In this episode of the Aftermeth Podcast, Dr. Dallas Bragg engages in a candid conversation with Ralf, a recovering chemsex addict, podcast host, and sober HERO, about the intersection of sobriety, kink, and mental health. They explore the challenges of enjoying sex and kink in recovery, the importance of community, and the therapeutic aspects of reclaiming power through kink. The discussion also touches on navigating triggers, the role of creativity in recovery, and the significance of boundaries in kink dynamics.

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Takeaways

• You can enjoy sex even more after recovery.
• The sober fetish scene offers connection and acceptance.
• Empowerment comes from rewriting the rules of recovery.
• Kink can be a path to healing and self-discovery.
• Navigating triggers is a crucial part of recovery.
• Creativity plays a vital role in the recovery journey.
• Community support is essential for healing.
• Exploring fetishes can be a trial and error process.
• Reclaiming power through kink can be therapeutic.
• Consent and boundaries are fundamental in kink. Consent is crucial in kink dynamics, even in non-consent scenes.
• Sober sex can be rewarding but may feel awkward initially.
• Intimacy in kink involves trust and vulnerability.
• Establishing boundaries is essential for safe play.
• Mindful exploration of kinks can enhance self-awareness.
• Communication is key to navigating recovery and kink.
• Finding trustworthy partners is vital for a positive experience.
• Kink can provide a sense of community and connection.
• It's important to allow oneself to be awkward in new experiences.
• Sex should be fun and playful, not serious or anxiety-inducing.

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