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There’s only so much you can do in a week – or, according to Oliver Burkeman, in the roughly 4,000 weeks the average human lives. Oliver is a journalist and author of the books Four Thousand Weeks: Time Management for Mortals, Meditations for Mortals, and the newsletter “The Imperfectionist.” Chris and Oliver discuss the paradox of why change can only occur once we accept that we might not be able to change. Oliver also shares how life’s mishaps can become our most treasured memories and why sharing your imperfections is an act of generosity. For the full text transcript, visit go.ted.com/BHTranscripts For the full text transcript, visit go.ted.com/BHTranscripts For a chance to give your own TED Talk, fill out the Idea Search Application: ted.com/ideasearch . Interested in learning more about upcoming TED events? Follow these links: TEDNext: ted.com/futureyou Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.…
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محتوای ارائه شده توسط S Aschenbrenner. تمام محتوای پادکست شامل قسمتها، گرافیکها و توضیحات پادکست مستقیماً توسط S Aschenbrenner یا شریک پلتفرم پادکست آنها آپلود و ارائه میشوند. اگر فکر میکنید شخصی بدون اجازه شما از اثر دارای حق نسخهبرداری شما استفاده میکند، میتوانید روندی که در اینجا شرح داده شده است را دنبال کنید.https://fa.player.fm/legal
Today we are talking about having needs and who we are rely on to meet them. #needs #chosenfamily #mentalhealth #rhainacohen #lx2codependencycoachingpodcast #friendship
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Manage episode 417534494 series 3466480
محتوای ارائه شده توسط S Aschenbrenner. تمام محتوای پادکست شامل قسمتها، گرافیکها و توضیحات پادکست مستقیماً توسط S Aschenbrenner یا شریک پلتفرم پادکست آنها آپلود و ارائه میشوند. اگر فکر میکنید شخصی بدون اجازه شما از اثر دارای حق نسخهبرداری شما استفاده میکند، میتوانید روندی که در اینجا شرح داده شده است را دنبال کنید.https://fa.player.fm/legal
Today we are talking about having needs and who we are rely on to meet them. #needs #chosenfamily #mentalhealth #rhainacohen #lx2codependencycoachingpodcast #friendship
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Today, we are talking about the alignment between your head, your heart, and your intuition. We often will try to logic our way into or out of things, even when our heart wants something different. It is helpful to allow space for your feelings so we can process our way to a fuller picture of what are dealing with. It might also be helpful to clean up our head, shifting our internal voice to something a little kinder. Doing so will create a path to trusting ourselves. This piler of alignment creates a safer way move throughout the world. #trustyourself #feelyourfeelings #manageanxiety #bekind #mentalhealth…
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Today, we are talking about positivity versus reality. There are times we work hard to "stay positive" in the face of challenges. It might be a better use of energy to be realistic about our capacity for engagement, choosing consciously who we can be real with. #realist #authenticity #ominouspositivity #toxicpositivity…
Today, we are talking about feeling accepted in our relationships. Are we being seen and understood, all of our parts at the same time? Are we seeing and accepting ourselves. It can ben challenging to be aware of how we show up in relationship when we are too busy criticizing ourselves. Take an opportunity to see who shows in your life if we appreciate all of who we are. #acceptance #relationships #beinghuman #selflove…
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LX2 Codependency Coaching

Today, we are talking about the concept of proving love or earning love. Often, we start in one place in relationship and can get off course as life happens. When we feel like love is transactional, it makes the whole point of connection and acceptance more challenging. #proveyourlove #connection #relationships #receivinglove…
Today, we are talking about hook up culture and dating on the apps for connection. It is helpful to consider how our brain and endorphins play into connection. Thinking about what the goals are when engaging in dating, in which ever you choose to do it. #hookup #mentalhealth #dating #connection
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LX2 Codependency Coaching

Today, is hard podcast. I want to acknowledge this is different from my other content. We are experiencing so many weird things including human rights violations. Protect your mental health. Protest peacefully, mindfully, and stay safe. Curate a feed social media that doesn’t further your anxiety. Talk to people. Reach out to your friends. “Let not any one pacify his conscience by the delusion that he can do no harm if he takes no part, and forms no opinion. Bad men need nothing more to compass their ends, than that good men should look on and do nothing. He is not a good man who, without a protest, allows wrong to be committed in his name, and with the means which he helps to supply, because he will not trouble himself to use his mind on the subject.” John Steuart Mill Protest safely…
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LX2 Codependency Coaching

Today, we are talking about dysfunctional families. I think all families function to the level of awareness. There are helpful and unhelpful parts of these systems. As we increase and change our awareness, we can add tool and skill to create better systems and better functional families. #dysfunctionalfamlies #familysystems #mentalhealth #skillbuilding #changingpatterns…
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Today, we are talking about men's mental health. Men are struggling, and consequently, woman are feeling those effects. With marriage rates down and social media movements of men bashing, I wanted to add a different perspective to the conversation. Check in with the partners, friends, dads, brothers and others. Help create a space for their vulnerability. #mensmentalhealth #boyshavefeelingstoo #healthypartners #strongindependentwomen #mensemotions…
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LX2 Codependency Coaching

Today, we are talking about the myth of perfection. So often we have an idea of what something should feel like, look like, of be and we lose sight of what it is. I was inspired by listening to "The Gift 14 lessons to save your life" by Dr. Edith Eger who is a holocaust survivor, mother, and psychotherapist. She has been through really challenging horrible things and continues to live a beautiful life. #notperfect #existentialtherapy #controlwhatyoucan #mentalhealth #wdnc…
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LX2 Codependency Coaching

Today, we are talking about self-awareness. Part of healing, growing, and changing behavior is being aware of who we are and how we show up in the world. Not with criticism and judgement, but with compassion and patience. #selfawareness #mentalhealth #howdidigethere #skillbuilding #getcurious
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LX2 Codependency Coaching

Today, we are talking about rebuilding and repairing. As we evolve in our human experience we get so many opportunities to evaluate the different parts of ourselves. Part of doing that is repairing old thoughts, beliefs, and behaviors. We can make a plan and create new parts rebuilding to the new version of who we want to be. #couplestherapy #evolving #newskills #repair #rebuild…
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LX2 Codependency Coaching

Today, we are talking about how we betray ourselves. In one's life we make decisions and choose to live in a way that is inauthentic to who we actually are. Sometimes, it a conscious choice, and other times it is several small choices over time. Pay attention to how you feel when you make those decisions. Start to create space in your life for your whole self. #betrayal #authenticself #beyourself #healingandgrowing…
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LX2 Codependency Coaching

Today, we are talking about compartmentalization experiences and emotions. It is sometimes helpful, if not necessary, to put those aside to continue carrying on through life, especially when those things are challenging. #compartmentalize #mentalhealth #gettingthrough #wholeself #feelings
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LX2 Codependency Coaching

Today, we are talking about Surrender and how helpful it is to just sit down sometimes. We are all dealing with so many things. It feels like overwhelmed, frustrated, sad, angry, afraid, and exhausted. One of the only ways to get through really hard times is to take a moment to surrender. Not give up, but slow down. Take care of your basic needs, breathe, make a plan, and then get up and keep doing. #anxiety #surrender #sitdown #takecareofyou…
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LX2 Codependency Coaching

Today, we are talking about the different mindsets. How we look at the world depending on our attitudes, beliefs, feelings, thoughts, and assumptions. We get to choose how we move through challenges by shifting our mindset or perspective. #mindsetmatters #intention #assumptions #experiences
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LX2 Codependency Coaching

Today, we are talking about generational trauma. We can look back though our family lineage and see pattern of behavior. In order to change things for the better, it is important to understand context, history, and then makes changes in our own behavior. #generationaltrauma #knowoyourhistory #makeschanges #lessonsfromyourmother…
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LX2 Codependency Coaching

Today, we are talking about judgement and how we are perceived. Sometime we need to check our own behavior and often we need to check who is doing the perceiving. We might need to change our environment to one where we can be our most authentic selves. #judgement #findyourpeople #selfawareness
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LX2 Codependency Coaching

Today, we are talking about emotional the stories we tell ourselves that keep us stuck. It is helpful to see, feel, and let go of those emotions. Healing and growing from those challenging things we have experienced. Releasing the things that no longer serve a purpose in the present version of you. #emotionalbaggage #lettinggo #movingforward #mentalhealth…
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LX2 Codependency Coaching

Today we are talking about imposter syndrome. Often when we achieve big things we can often feel undeserving. It is an opportunity to validate previous versions of ourselves who did the hard work to get to us into those spaces. #deserving #impostersyndrome #hardwork #generationalhealing
Today we are talking about resilience; the space from now knowing to knowing It can be uncomfortable and create anxiety. It can also create an opportunity to learn new skills and building trust in ourselves. #resilience #nowknowing #trustyourself #skillbuilding
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LX2 Codependency Coaching

Today we are talking about getting though. Because right now, that's all we can manage. Make sure to do the big three: sleep, diet, and moving your body around. Taking care of you takes grace and compassion. #gettingthrough #giveyourselfgrace #roadtrips #goingthoughhell
Today we are talking about conflict. Understanding how you fight and what you're feeling. Also, coming back to the conversation is necessary. #conflict #redlipstick #communication #understanding #rulesofengagement
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LX2 Codependency Coaching

Today we are talking about anger. It is often said that anger is a secondary emotion. What is under the anger is usually fear, sadness, feeling disregarded, or not enough. Allow space to figure out what the feeling is. #anger #selfawareness, #70skid #genx #unhelpfulreactions #parenting
Today we talking about validating and accepting our whole self. The phrase hay comida en la casa , meaning we have food at home. When we love our whole self first, we don't need to work as hard to get love from other people. #bridgetjones #haycomidaenlacasa #loveyourselffirst #lx2codependencycoachingpodcast…
Today, we are talking about seeing our struggles as character flaws. We often assume when we are struggling that something is wrong with us. It's not but that is how it feels. Shift the perspective to trusting yourself. You have gotten this far and you will get past this too. You are not broken. #characterflaw #mentalhealth #trustyourself #greatness…
Today, we are talking about intellectualizing versus feeling in the process of growth. We process lots of information through out thoughts before allowing ourselves to feel it. It is important to be aware of the old narratives and stories we are using when we process. Growth and healing comes from allowing the stories to change. #newyear #change #feelings #thoughts #anxiety…
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LX2 Codependency Coaching

Today we are talking about being wrong. How being wrong is a good place to be because it gives us a different perspective. We can learn a lot when we are wrong. #beingwrong #scientific method #relationships #bestintentionsthebook The podcast I was listening to was 10% Happier with Dan Harris and Sharon McMahon…
Today we are talking about plans and adjusting to those plans. Addressing the anxiety and discomfort that comes from changes to our plans. #planning #anxiety #controlwhatyoucan #attachments #trustyourself.
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LX2 Codependency Coaching

Today we are talking about perception. How we are perceived in the world around us and how we perceive the world around us. #change #perception #bestintentionsthebook #socialmedia #concretekulture https://www.etsy.com/shop/ConcreteKulture
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LX2 Codependency Coaching

Today we are talking about experiencing the world through our emotional perspective. Giving yourself grace and patience while you are having your emotions. Getting through tough experiences. #trustyourself #emotionalawareness #emotioalperspective #mentalhealth Get your copy of Best Intentions: The things we do for love https://bookstore.dorrancepublishing.com/products/best-intentions-the-things-we-do-for-love…
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LX2 Codependency Coaching

Today we are talking about nurturing relationships. Attending to the relationships you want to grow and evolve, especially the relationship with yourself. #growth #nurturing #relationships #bestintentionsthebook
Today we are talking about controlling what you can in the moment, checking your facts, and keep going. This past week was rough. Lots of emotions. We still have to do things. #postelection2024 #bigfeelings #bestintentionsthebook #mentalhealth #politicsaside
Today we are talking about when helping is not helpful. There are times we think we are helping and it makes things worse. It can be disempowering the person we are trying support. #nothelpful #resentment #needs #rescuing #helping #bestintentionsthethingswedoforlove https://bookstore.dorrancepublishing.com/products/best-intentions-the-things-we-do-for-love?_pos=1&_psq=best+int&_ss=e&_v=1.0…
Today we are talking about relationship communication. I go over a tool I use often to help clients build helpful communication skills. I use the 6 Steps to Great Communication by Cynthia Hansen https://lifeandbeautyweekly.com/2010/10/communication_skills/ #communication #relationships #skillbuilding #connection #lx2codependencycoachingpodcast…
Today we are talking about being able to access and process our own emotions. Emotional intelligence is about being aware of what we are feeling, authentically showing up, and have compassion for our emotional selves. #emotionalvulnerability #feelyourfeelings #emotionalawareness #newbook #bestintentions #greece #somaticemotions…
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LX2 Codependency Coaching

Today we are talking about denial and the things we refuse to look at. Often we avoid addressing things head on because we don't know what to do to change them. We don't know where to start. We start by acknowledging they exist. #denial #makingchanges #smallsteps #mentalhealth #elephantintheroom
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LX2 Codependency Coaching

Today we are talking about distraction vs detachment. Often, when we are feeling tough emotions we want to distract ourselves in order not to feel. Whereas detachment might be a better move. Unattached from the outcomes but working through the feelings. #emotions #detachment #distractions #dothework #mentalhealth #lx2codependencypodcast…
Today we are talking about satisfaction, suffering, and satisfaction. We get to choose how much of those things we endure or get from life. We can manage our resources, create goals, and set boundaries to a better experience through life. #satisfaction #sacrifices #boundaries #betterlife #mentalhealth…
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LX2 Codependency Coaching

Today we are talking about memories and how we can change the narrative. We can recall something from a different perspective. We can create a better understanding of who have been and who are becoming. #memories #rebuilding #resilience #childhood
Today we are talking about forgiveness, bridges, and napalm. We get to determine the relationships that warrant forgiveness as it relates to our peace and access to our resources. Boundaries and bridges help keep us safe and maintain connection. #maintainpeace #forgiveness #burnorbuild #bridges #connection #lx2codependencypodcast…
Today we are talking about the big three things I talk to clients about often often to evaluate how they are feeling: Food, exercise, and sleep. All of these things have an effect on our mood and energy. #sleephygiene #foodmatters #moveyourbody #mentalhealth
Today are talking about motivation and fuel we use to get there. We can use lots of different things to drive us to change, healing, and growth. What fuel are you using and is it sustainable? #motivation #growth #change #beingnew
Today we are talking about using routines and rituals to help us regulate our anxiety. Our brains strive for order. When we can consciously create routine, things we do in a habitual way, we make our brain feels better. The meaning and intentions behind the routine can make it a ritual. #routines #habits #anxiety #mentalhealth…
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LX2 Codependency Coaching

Today we are talking about who is in your inner circle of humans. Who do you feel safe and comfortable with. What those bonds are made of. We get to determine the level of closeness and vulnerablility we share with people. #innercircle #vulnerability #boundaries #community
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LX2 Codependency Coaching

Today we are talking about the assumption of suffering as it relates to compassion and empathy. We are all going through our things; good, bad, or otherwise. If we can assume people are struggling, it is an opportunity to be kind to ourselves and others. #selfcompassion #suffering #expectations #grace #kindness…
Today we are talking about shift perspective from a zero sum absolutes mindset. It is not all or nothing, win or lose, love or hate, but something in between. When we can shift perspective and find a middle ground we are less likely to experience such distress or discomfort. #zerosumgame #detachment #5yearanniversary #x2thexennial #classof 91…
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LX2 Codependency Coaching

Today we are talking about the idea "righteous" indignation. The idea of getting angry or frustrated on behalf of someone else. When we are frustrated or irritated about someone else's choices it is an opportunity to recognize what we can control. We can consider the idea that we disrupt our own peace by taking away someone else's ability to manage their own choices. #bugged #unfair #boundaries #detachment…
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LX2 Codependency Coaching

Today we are talking raising sheep or wolves. Thinking about using the opportunity to teach our precious children how to exist the world that can be dangerous. It is our job to teach our kids skills to be safe and secure on the planet where they can get their needs met without sacrificing themselves. #parenting #raisedbywolves #otherpeopleskids #puberty…
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LX2 Codependency Coaching

Today we are talking about finding gold in your everyday rather than waiting for the "golden years" or "bucket list". Make a to do list and put gold in everyday. #findinggold #emotions #anxietyanddepression #eldorado #kintsugi
Today we are talking about detaching form the myth of being happy and shifting to the feeling of experiencing joy in moments. Sustaining happiness all the time isn't possible. What we can do it experience joy in moments of regular. #happinessmyth #experiencejoy #momentbymoment #doyourbest #beautyinthemoment…
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LX2 Codependency Coaching

Today we are talking about the importance of meaningful relationships to our longevity and quality of our lives. Our human experience is motivated by connection. We connect with people all the time, creating meaningful connection helps us live well. #meaningfulreltaionships #friendships #buildingcommunity #lx2codependencycoachingpodcast #daringgrately #vulnerabiity…
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LX2 Codependency Coaching

Today we are talking about the blessings and lessons we experience when we create the perspective of receiving. When we can start to be receiving of good things happening to us rather than waiting for negative things to happen. #blessingshappen #growthmindset #opportunity #lessons #whathappenedtoyou #trauma #mentalhealth #lx2codependencycoachingpodcast…
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LX2 Codependency Coaching

Life happens and we can get stuck in the why. We don't always know why this tough part of life is happening. It might just be the how. Controlling what we can gives a moment to take back power in the moment it can get easier. #controlwhatyoucan #wecandohardthings #lifehappens #getthroughthemoment #codependencypodcast…
Moving forward into our life can be difficult when we are feeling multiple things at the same time. Being human is allowing ourselves to feel our emotions and doing the business of living. We can get get passed the hard things. #whatareyoufeeling #mentalhealt #persistence #atlasoftheheart #growing #doitanyway…
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LX2 Codependency Coaching

Today we are talking about having needs and who we are rely on to meet them. #needs #chosenfamily #mentalhealth #rhainacohen #lx2codependencycoachingpodcast #friendship
There are so many teachers in our lives. We learn lessons through out our lives. Many of the things we learn feel random but they are all teaching us the things we need to grow into the best version of ourselves. #lessons #bestteachers #growthmindset #unintendedlessons
We can get in our own way of our growth and progress. It is helpful to be aware of when we are triggered, what is motivating that, and how are we feeling about things. In learning new skills, we might get in our own way and have to restart. #mentalhealth #growth #selfsabotage #hurtingourselves
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LX2 Codependency Coaching

Today we are talking about the default setting and shifting our perspective from our trauma to our growth setting. When we are learning new skills, we will default back to old skills. There are times when we are healing our old behaviors, its helpful to recognize old coping still exists. Integrating new skills takes time and it can be existing. We can benefit from not doing as much. #defaultsetting #oldskills #growthmindset #selflove #receiving…
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LX2 Codependency Coaching

Trust is something people struggle with. Where trust issues come from is feeling confident in who you are and secure in your ability to be vulnerable with others. We have to see who people are and whether they can hold space for you. If they are consistent in showing up with kindness, grace, and compassion. Not everyone is trust worthy but when you can trust yourself, its easier to put faith in others. #trustissues #mentalhealth #vulnerability #trustyourself…
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LX2 Codependency Coaching

Quitting things, relationships, and behaviors is challenging. Changing habits and having to engage our brain in what we do can create a lot of discomfort, and it is worth it. #quitting #doingnewthings #growth #changethebehavior #choosingyou
When we do not feel safe sharing our emotional self we can shape shift to different version of ourself contributing to the delusion. We become different versions to keep the status quo. Being our whole authentic self takes work. We have to embrace who we are, all of our parts at the same time. #authenticself #healing #shapeshifting #secrets…
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LX2 Codependency Coaching

Today we are talking about detaching from the delusions of how we see the people we want to be in relationship with. #detachment #delusion #codependency #emotionalinvestment #mentalhealth
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LX2 Codependency Coaching

Today we are talking about the loneliness that comes with growing and healing. #mentalhealth #selftalk #loneliness #boundaries
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LX2 Codependency Coaching

Today we are talking about the idea of making hard challenges. When we willing to face the challenges in our lives that are uncomfortable. We can face them with an attitude of "how hard can it be"? We can change our circumstances even when it is hard. #growpastthechallenge #howhardcanitbe #trustyourself…
Today we are talking about ways to nurture the parts of ourselves that still need some momming or dadding, nurture, and love. Part of healing and growing past unhelp coping is is by loving those parts of us that needed to be seen. #nurtureyourself #lovingbetter #mentalhealth #havingpatiencewithyou
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LX2 Codependency Coaching

Can affirmation help and influence change and growth? YES and it is helpful when we are dealing with change. We have to increase are awareness of what is happening now. We have to look at the bad so we know where to make changes. #positiveaffirmations #healing #growth #mentalhealth #socialmedia
Today we are talking about working through those hard moments and creating the life they want. #movingforward #lovingbetter #pasthismoment #mentalhealth #lettinggo
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LX2 Codependency Coaching

Today we are talking about changing how we process emotions by learning new tool and updating how we were originally programmed. We get to choose how we process emotions once we have more tools to manage the situations we are facing. #emotionalprogramming #doingthingsbetter #mentalhealth #lovingbetter #whatnowpodcast #lovingallofyourversions #changemindset…
Today we are talking about not feeling like you are enough and how that can lead to you doing too much. We can feel like we need to validate our worth by doing so much more, we get angry, tired, and overwhelmed. It is helpful to pay attention to what we actually have capacity for. #lovingbetter #doingtoomuch #youarerenough #mentalhealth #codependency…
Today we are talking about patterns, behavior, and meaning. We have the opportunity to change the pattern that happen in our lives by changing our behavior over time. We can shift the meaning we assign to things. #change #mentalhealth #shiftingpatterns #meaningandpurpose
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LX2 Codependency Coaching

In relationships we often feel like we need to fix problems for other people to keep them in our lives. A helpful thing to start to recognize is IF it is a you problem or a them problem. Then we can allow space for people to address their own problems or for them to acquire tools to fix things for themselves. #notayouproblem #skillbuilding #mentalhealth #codependencycoaching…
Today we are talking about aligning our words with our behavior especially when we are creating healthy habits and coping skills. The idea of follow through. Increasing our awareness of how we feel. Changing behavior requires action consistently. #newyear #healthhabits #goals #followthrough #mentalhealth…
Today we are talking about the end of the year. Looking back not just at 2023 but relistening to the popular episode of Anxiety Loneliness and Depression originally posted 7/25/2019 https://www.podbean.com/ew/pb-krijt-b92c2f We are all doing the best we can. You have made it through the best we you can. Proud of you! #endoftheyear #growth #mentalhealth #gettingthrough…
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LX2 Codependency Coaching

Today we are talking about parenting and detaching from the outcome. The Nurtured Heart Approach is a parenting model I endorse. #toxicparenting #detachingfromtheoutcome #lovingbetter #raisinghealthykids
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LX2 Codependency Coaching

How we trust ourselves and show up fully we have to be aware of what our authentic self is. Being your most authentic self takes a level of knowing and appreciating who we are, all of our parts, at the same time. We have core values that stay static. Trusting yourself and being securely attached to you is being attached to those core values. #authenticity #lovingbetter #corevalues #betruetoyou…
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LX2 Codependency Coaching

Often we can break our own hearts by holding on to unrealistic expectations or outcomes. We hold on so tightly and then we "should" ourselves into anxiety and depression. Once we can let go and just be present gratitude gets easier. #90scountry #unrealisticexpectations #lettinggo #shoulding #livinginthepresent…
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LX2 Codependency Coaching

What emotions are we holding on to that are keeping us stuck. When we have hard things happen we assign meaning to certain feelings. Especially this time of year we have traditions and we get to assign meaning to those traditions. The meaning we place on those traditions is up to us. We get to change the meaning and the feeling associated to those experiences. #emotionalhoarding #makingmeaning #letitgo #mentalhealth #traditions…
We are talking about secure attachment to ourselves rather than having to be securely attached to another person or outcome. When we have attachment wounds we can be reacting to an old version of who we have been when our needs didn't get met. We attach to certain outcomes of how we expect things to be. #attachment #loveyourself #mentalhealth #pivot #bestversionofyou…
Today we are talking about the ways we transform through our lifetime. How we evolve and change adapting to our current circumstances. #growthmindset #adapting #changeovertime #mentalhealth #skillbuilding #detatchment
Talking about toxic environments and how we can choose to get out of them. We get to choose who we spend our time with and how we leave what doesn't serve the people we are growing into. #toxicsystems #growth #mentalhealth #healing #resilience
Today we are talking about shifting our perspective of what is happening to us to being given an opportunity. When we can look at change as an opportunity to learn something, to do something differently. We can talk differently to ourselves. This is how we grow, how we change. #growthmindset #opportunity #learningskills #mentalhealth #neuroplasticity #selftalk…
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LX2 Codependency Coaching

Today we are talking about deadheading the roses, cutting off old behaviors that no longer serve a purpose to continue growing. We are looking at behaviors and relationships as we go into "obligation season" or the holiday season. We are increasing awareness of which relationships we can be our most authentic self in. #growingseason #boundaries #usingnewskills #mentalhealth #lx2codependencycoachingpodcast…
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LX2 Codependency Coaching

Goodbyes are so hard sometimes. When we are facing loss regularly. Part of how we grow new parts we have to say goodbye to old versions of ourselves. The detachment journey is difficult but also leaves space for appreciating the moment. #detachment #lettinggo #sayinggoodbye #griefsucks
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LX2 Codependency Coaching

When we are going through hard things, the story we tell ourselves can be jaded based on where we are emotionally. We can shift the narrative by checking out facts. Check out the episode to learn how to change our perspective. #checkyourfacts #therapyworks #lovingbetter #lunax2llc
Today we are talking about the difference between reacting versus responding. Reacting is generally emotion driven and usually based on what we are going through in the moment. Responding is more though based and happens when we have time to process out the difference of our thoughts about the situation and not just an emotional reaction. #emotionalintelligence #conflictskills #relationshipbuilding…
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LX2 Codependency Coaching

Today we are talking about the spectrum of hope. We are looking at how hope influences our relationships. What are our expectation of relationships. Hope can become toxic if our needs are not getting met consistently. Check it out and share with people you care about who might need to increase their awareness for setting up boundaries. #toxichope #relationships #lovingpotential #lx2codependencycoaching…
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LX2 Codependency Coaching

Today we are talking about friendship and who shows up consistently. What are we talking about and sharing through the seasons of our lives. Who is there just for the drama and who is showing up to be supportive. #adultfriendship #fairweatherfriends #showupforthedrama #whatyoufocusongrows #whoareyouventingto…
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LX2 Codependency Coaching

The idea of emotional credit is the time and effort we invest into relationships assessing what we are getting back. We can often put more resources into people and relationships without really recognizing what our motivation is or looking at whether that investment is reciprocal. We can build resentment or become depleted more quickly and not recognize it. We also might not be giving people enough credit to manage their own stuff because we are so used to saving or rescuing the people we love. #emotionalinvestment #reciprocalrelationships #balancedcredit #fillingyourcup…
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LX2 Codependency Coaching

Taking an opportunity to appreciate the moments that happen in a life. Life is long and life is short. There are moments we want to last forever and nothing does. Being present without holding on too tight to the expectation of how something "should" be. #liveinthemoment #staypresent #createjoy #everythingpasses…
Talking today about diagnosis and title as information. When we learn our diagnosis or more information about how or why we do the things we do, it is an opportunity to learn new skills and tools to address it. We can take power from that information and use it to change how we exist in our world.
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LX2 Codependency Coaching

How we consciously dissolve romantic parings when they are no longer working. Taking the time to honor what worked as we uncouple. Looking at how we change and grow through seasons of connection and separation. #consciousseparation #breakups #grief #whatareyourneeds #whowewere
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LX2 Codependency Coaching

Often our anxiety and discomfort comes from how we think we are being perceived. The truth is no one cares all that much. We are all just out here doing our best. Trying to be the best version of ourselves. Take a moment to give yourself grace, kindness and patience. #whatwouldpeoplethink #lovingbetter #giveyourselfgrace #thefouragreements #doyourbest…
Today we are talking with my former professor and friend Renee Valdez who has her own podcast, Visions of a blind woman. She talking about adjusting to her sudden vision loss and how she uses her new skills to rebuild herself. She is an incredible example of what resilience looks like.
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LX2 Codependency Coaching

Today we are talking about the challenges of messing it up as we move forward. As we start to use new tools and skills we won't always use them right the first time. We are supposed to fail and mess things up and we get better at it with practice. #failforward @keepgoing #healingjourney #therapyworks #mentalhealth…
Using new skills can be hard. As we increase our self-awareness of boundaries and expectations, we will raise the bar for our relationships. We teach people how to treat us. We can use skills and not do it perfectly and that is ok. We only get better at doing things with practice, grace and compassion. #doitanyway #manageyourpeace #liveyourworth #raisethebar…
Today we are talking about how being Codependent can contribute to feeling entitlement and resentment. When we love ourselves we recognize we are worthy and deserving of love simply by being. When we are doing so much for other people we start to create a sense of entitlement. We create transactional relationships that build pressure and unrealistic expectations. #entitlement #worhtyoflove #deserving #boundaries #peoplepleasing…
We can't change or grow until we get to a level of acceptance of the situation. We have to tell ourselves the truth with kindness and love. We have to see all of our parts at the same time. It can be really hard and it is worth it. #changeishard #selfacceptance #lovingbetter #therapyworks #movingforward…
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LX2 Codependency Coaching

Today we are talking about Conflict Style, expectations and emotions. When we are Codependent we can be conflict avoidant. We hold back from expressing our true emotions and expectations because we are trying to avoid discomfort. #conflictskills #emotionalawareness #askingforyourneeds #workingthroughit…
How we define success is relative to the struggle we are going through. How and who sets the benchmark informs the goals we have. Those goals we reach or don't reach can create pathways in our brain for what success is. When we shift the perspective from large goals to smaller attainable goals will help your brain receive success. #goalsetting #loweryourexpectations #changeyourbrain #thestruggleisreal…
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LX2 Codependency Coaching

Codependency can cause us deprive ourselves of our needs or create the limiting belief that we aren't deserving of getting our needs met. We are so busy taking care of other people we deprive ourselves of what we want and need for our own peace and wellbeing. #takingcareofyourneeds #livingindeprivation #createyourpeace #lx2codependencycoaching #limitingbeliefs…
Today we are talking about allowing yourself to be emotionally available and vulnerable once you start to love yourself better. Healing past your Codependency and trusting the people around you with your feeling. Breaking down your walls and creating boundaries.
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LX2 Codependency Coaching

The idea of the box is cutting off parts of ourselves to feel safe in certain relationships or environments to keep ourselves safe. We hold back our authentic big self with all of our parts to stay in relationship. #authenticity #buildingconfidence #gettinginthebox #lettinggoofrelationships #releasingoldversions…
Today we are talking about this idea of being liked and being a people pleaser. The challenge is liking yourself and pleasing you. Are you being kind and compassionate to yourself. #boundaries #lovingyoubetter #peoplepleasing #codependency #pickme #likeyoufirst
Communicating expectations with parents and adult children and setting boundaries. We are talking about establishing and communicating expectations and boundaries in adult child/parent relationships. #parentchild #adultchildren #boundaries #intergenerationalrelationships #codependencycoaching
We can't be better without making the hard changes. Doing the hard work of applying our new skills and tools will create discomfort and it will also create new ways of being in relationship. Being better at loving ourselves and appreciating the relationships in our lives that are healthy with boundaries. #hardpath #lovingbetter #changeishard #codependencyskills #doingthework…
Once we start to practice setting and maintaining boundaries, we get to choose the people we are in relationship with. Every person we allow to have access to us is a conscious choice. We are the ones who maintain the gate, drawbridge, wall or fortress around us. Approaching relationships from an abundance or infinite mindset gives us an opportunity to love ourselves and others differently. #abundancemindset #consciousrelationships #peacefulwarrior #gametheory…
We are talking about what comes next after learning how Codependency shows in relationships. Doing the communication part of your boundaries, conditions and needs. Creating more awareness of how you feel and how to set up boundaries in the relationships closest to you. #boundaries #choosingpeace #lovingbetter #doingthework #practice…
When reacting from CoD we can take an over abundance of responsibility for reactions or feelings in conflict. We are talking about the orientation of independence, interdependence and codependence. #codependencyeducation #ownershipoffeelings #takingonfeelings #healthyconflict
While we are in the process of healing, we create a disconnect between your head and your heart. Working through the feeling is important to the process. Learning new skills and then applying them can stir up lots of emotions. Working through the feelings helps you build the skill in a more concrete way. #headandheart #healingjourney #movingforward…
What does it look like to go into old spaces, relationships and environment with your new skills of boundaries, need and loving yourself better? Having compassion and patience with yourself will help you go into these old spaces with new perspectives. We are always growing, changing and adapting so this an opportunity to check in with who you are today.…
Talking about Unconditional love and having expectations. Recognizing that it is ok to have expectations, limits and boundaries in relationship. Access to your energy, time, resources and person can be conditional. Expectations can be managed to minimize disappointment. #lovingbetter #conditionalrelationships #boundaries…
The ongoing conversation the Boundary of Sex, the focus of our attractiveness and giving into situations when we are people pleasers or Codependent. The desire to connect can lend itself to difficulty creating boundaries. #sexuality #boundaries #shameandguilt #selfesteem
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LX2 Codependency Coaching

Sexuality and intimate connection is a significant part of connection. We are talking about who you share intimate space with, when/where, and how much we connect. Sexuality can be very challenging without self-awareness. Increasing your self-awareness of intimate connection and setting healthy boundaries with communication. #sexualboundaries #increasedawareness #communicatingneeds #building connection…
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LX2 Codependency Coaching

We think constantly. How we share our thoughts and with whom becomes part of our developmental process. We interalize how we see ourselves especially when we are told that other people are observing our thoughts and behaviors. Are we being met with curiosity or do we shut down? #thoughtboundary #managingourthougts #boundaries #feelingsandthoughts…
We are talking about the Physical and Material Boundaries. IT is an opportunity to increase awareness of your needs and how you feel about your physical self and your material stuff. #physicalboundaries #consent #increasedawarness #spaceboundaries #lx2codependencycoaching
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LX2 Codependency Coaching

Emotional boundaries and being emotional vulnerable. Increasing the awareness of who we can be vulnerable with, when we share our emotions and how much we share. Codependency is about managing other people's emotions and not allowing ourselves to be emotional to not be seen as a burden. #emotionalboundaries #emotionalvulnerability #havingneeds…
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LX2 Codependency Coaching

We are talking about how, with whom and what the feelings are around the resource of time. Increasing awareness about how you are spending it and how to set boundaries or limits around it. #yourtimeisvaluable #increaseawareness #communicateyourexpectations
Setting limits and access to your resources of time, space, thoughts, sex and stuff are boundaries. Recognizing where you end and someone else begins. Having needs and self-awareness is important to set what your boundaries are and be able to communicate them effectively. #boundaries #selfawareness #knowyourneeds #lovingyourbetter…
There is a dark side to being Codependent and this conversation is about how it feels when someone comes at you from their CoD. #disappointment #boundaries #lx2condependencycoaching #hardconversations
Working towards a goal is hard. It's important to honor your small goals in the middle. #lx2codependencycoaching #themiddle #goalsetting #lovingyourself #smallgoals #worldtravel
Doing the work of CoD can be uncomfortable especially when we have big feelings. Allowing yourself to feel hasn't been safe. When other people have feelings we get uncomfortable and we want to avoid them. Giving yourself space to feel is loving yourself better. #feelingsarehard #feelinglist #apologies #dontsayimsorry…
How are you coping with challenging feelings when dealing with your Codependency? We can shift from our old coping to find healthier way to keep ourself safe. It is important to evaluate the parts of yourself that need healing. #lovingbetter #lx2codependency #copingskills #healingyourinnerchild
Boundaries are for you to manage. How about setting a budget of your yes. Increase your aware of your yes capacity. Be discerning about how you spend your yes. #boundaries #lx2codependencycoaching #holidayboundaries #lovingbetter
Today we are talking about how being CoD can feel like an addiction. We are not addicted to other people but we do things to avoid feeling uncomfortable. We do things to keep the validation and acceptance from other people. #addiction #LX2codependency #boundaries #codependency
Today we are talking about abndonment wounds and how they can contribute to unhelpful thoughts, beliefs and coping skills including codependency behavior. #lx2codependencycoaching #abandonmentwounds #attachmentstyle #toxictype
Creating a conversation about how loving you better changes with time. Considering what we have controlled in our life before now. It is important to add compassion and grace for older versions of ourselves. #lovingbetter #lx2codenpendencycoaching #whatcanwecontrol #havingcompassionforyou
The holidays can be stressful for many people. It is helpful to practice your tools in these group settings. Paying attention to what your capacity is for these events. Looking at what your emotional state is when you go into these situations. #lx2codependency #fouragreements #holidaystress #emotionawareness…
Talking about where the messages about our worth comes from, either from our childhood home, school and the environments we are in. We develop how we see ourselves from how other people perceive us and treat us. We are all worthy of healthy love. #lx2codependencycoaching #assholeinyourhead #checkyourfacts #findingyourworth #middleschoolsucks #wherethecrawdadssing…
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LX2 Codependency Coaching

Flashing forward to a new timeline in Northern Ireland. Talking about how we can love ourselves better rather than loving other people in hopes that they get better. How do we meet our own needs and validate our own experience before someone else's. Working on taking care of yourself first and communicating effectively. Using skills and boundaries when navigating through relationships. #roadtrip #askingforyourneeds #lx2codependencycoaching #lovingyoubetter #loveyourself…
This episode is about how we conceive of ourselves based on internal and external perspectives. How we see ourselves as a human on the planet and how you feel about yourself in the role. Book mentioned The Magical Art of Not Giving a Fuck S. Knight (2015). #selfconcept #selfesteem #fuckbudget #timealone #selflove…
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LX2 Codependency Coaching

Starting to change the perspective about how we see and love ourselves. Coming into a relationship from a place of abundance rather than lack. Shifting our language and how we treat our sweet selves. Self-love will help to create healthy boundaries and limits.
How we are in relationship can trigger Cod coping skills. The conversation can be helpful to recognize where we compromise parts of ourselves to be in relationships. We start to teach people how to treat us when we shut down to avoid negative emotions, conflict and unwillingness to compromise. There are also some potential solutions to fix some of the challenges that come up in long term relationships.…
Its important to accept where your CoD comes from. Forgiving the people who contributed and forgiving yourself. The last piece is to work on letting go of those past experiences and starting over. Starting over everyday to be the best version of yourself. #lettinggo #acceptingyourself #lx2codependency #forgiveness…
What does it feel like to set a boundary with people? It is helpful to start to see the patterns of your relationships in your life; coworker, family members and friends. If you have always been the person people come to when they need something, that is sign a boundary. There will be grief, sadness and anger. Taking care of yourself first and managing your peace is your first priority. #lx2codependency #family #settingboundaries #limits #creatingnewhabits…
The family dynamic can trigger Codependency responses. How are you showing up in your family? What are the expectations of you and your people? What are your expectations? What would be helpful is to learn healthy awareness of how spending time with family feels. Be aware of your triggers and responses. #familymyth #lx2codenpendency #sistertime #triggers #newyou…
Special guest, my sister Juana! We are talking about how we are raised and how it effects our worth and value. Coming to you from the Greek Island of Paros. #worktrauma #ranchlife #youngersister #lx2codependency #lx2 #chicana #allsad
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LX2 Codependency Coaching

It can be challenging to trust yourself. It's important to work on identifying what you want, truly. Aligning between your head (thoughts), your heart (emotions) and your intuition (your gut) in a key piece to healing. Detach from other people's opinions. Work on figuring out what you need. #selflove #lx2codependencycoaching #trustyourself #allsad #trustyourintuition…
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LX2 Codependency Coaching

How are you taking care of yourself and love yourself? Taking time for you and improving how you talk to yourself. Asking for help is important. Improving your own market value means recognizing your own value and worth. #selflove #lx2codependencycoaching #selftalk #doyou
These are helpful tools when doing Codependency work. The core of Cod is needing validation and acceptance from others. Learning how to validate yourself and really love yourself will help you create better boundaries. #boundaries, #codependency, #selflove, #givingyourselfgrace
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LX2 Codependency Coaching

Detachment is a huge part of growth from Codependency. If you can practice letting go of outcome, you will be more able to appreciate things in the moment. #detachment, #codependency, #LX2, #bethebowl, #letgo, #Athens Reach me @luna_x2_llc on IG and Luna-x2-llc on FB or lunax2.llc2@gmail.com
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LX2 Codependency Coaching

First episode solo in Greece. Talking about the timelines of closing the business and moving to a whole new place. #detachment, #codependency, #lx2CoD, #x2thexennial
#newbegining #newpodcast #newdirection #lx2codependencycoaching #cod #codependency #transitionalpodcast #rebranding
#sex #talking #communication #physiology #doingit #gettingiton #sexuality #pairbonding #relationshipsex #boner
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LX2 Codependency Coaching

#fear #PCOS #complexcyst #tumors #gratitude #pivot #resiliency #health #infertility #septatesurgery #gynecologic #keto #checkyourfacts #controlyourfearnow
#selfsoothing #emotionalregulation #helenfisher #CBT #coping #biology #evolutionofthehuman
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LX2 Codependency Coaching

#jealous #envy #evolutionarypsych #HelenFisher #CoD #Maslow #evolve
#defensemechanisms #childhoodtrauma #peaceinself #happiness #bringdownthewalls #healing #growth
#unsubscribe #compartmentalization #happiness #multitasking #onethingatatime #emotions #work #change #growth #yougotthis
#bipolar #medication #genuine #suicidalideation #bipolar1 #bipolar2 #journay
#attachment #nonmonogamy #relationshipeducation #poly #society #culture #narritives
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