When to forgive and let go
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Hello dear Soul,
In today’s journal entry I talk about when forgiveness means letting go of a relationship.
There are times when others hurt us, but we know that no matter what we say, they won't understand why we’re hurt by their actions. I’ve seen that a lot of hurt can come from being very different from others, and having very different values from others. This can lead to being unintentionally hurt, and continuing to be around them only causes us to be in pain. Therefore we should walk away before we get stuck in victimhood, pain and suffering.
When we get real about what we will lose from walking away we can start to grieve the loss of that person. We can start to reclaim our life energy or psychic energy that is bound up in the relationship and the hurt, and as that energy returns to us we can begin to use it in new and creative ways. We can turn towards new connections, new visions of the future and new hopes and dreams.
Sometimes the most loving thing we can do for ourselves and others is to walk away and allow them to live the life they want to live.
Blessings,
Kate
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