044: Aimee's First Sex with a Woman!

Desire on Fire

This is Aimee, and I recently had an experience that was exciting, expanding, and full of surprises of all kinds — my first time having sex with another woman.

This felt like a big deal for a number of reasons (which I share in this episode), so I invited my dear friend Kelley Bode back to the podcast to interview me and have a real, no-holds-barred convo about this encounter.

In this episode, you’ll get it all: the draw I couldn’t deny, the ways I felt challenged, how I stayed true to myself, and all the juicy (and oily!) details of the night itself.

This is a pretty vulnerable share for me, but I want to explore it out loud, because my hope is that it can bring some opening for other women who might have been in the same place as I was.

I’m on this journey to honor and listen to ALL of my desire — which includes both my sacred “yes” and my sacred “no.” And part of this work is recognizing when (and why) something that’s been a “no” for a long time might become a “yes” when the person, place, and time are in alignment.

I think you’re gonna love this fun, sexy, playful, electric conversation!

What you’ll learn in this episode:

• My past experiences of desiring women — and how this time was different
• How this woman challenged my Erotic Blueprint in super surprising ways
• Why it’s totally possible to have a desire and not be attached to its immediate fulfillment
• How I used super-clear, up-front communication to make this experience the most fulfilling it could be (and what we miss out on when we don’t say the thing that needs to be said)
• What this “means” about my sexual orientation (probably not what you expect)

----

Join us (and 300+ women!) in person at the Desire on Fire Experience event, October 29-30, in Southern California!

www.desireonfirelive.com

Code: DESIRE for $500 off the regular ticket price!

Explore our website: https://www.desireonfire.com/

Come and join our FB community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/DesireOnFire/

And connect with us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/desireonfire/

Connect with Aimee:

Check out my instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/aimeebatuski/

Connect with Ellie:

Check out my instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/elliemontgomerie

Connect with Kelley Bode:

Check out Kelley’s Instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/kelleymbode

Resources mentioned in this episode:

• Betty Dodson - My Romantic Love Wars https://bookshop.org/books/my-romantic-love-wars-a-sexual-memoir/9781522685142

David Deida: https://deida.info/