005: Relationships and Work: How I Learned Some Were Not For Me

Candid and Cringe

I like to think of myself as someone with a healthy amount of self-confidence but of course there are times I have faltered and times that it has not been as high as it is now. I used to subconsciously place my worth in the hands of how many people wanted to date me and how much I’m producing (spoiler: burned out). Learn to spot changes in your behaviour, ask yourself the right questions, and apply learnings to avoid situations that are not a fit.

Host

Thuy Doan

Note

I accidentally said, “It’s easier to marry myself to the company because I’ve started doing things just for me,” but I meant to say, “It’s easier to not marry myself to the company…”

Topics Covered

• Changes in behaviour when you like someone you’re not a fit with
• Changes in behaviour when you are no longer a fit at work
• What to ask yourself when you notice changes in your behaviour
• How to take your observations and apply them to future relationships and orgs

Show Notes

• Podcast edited by Chris Enns at Lemon Productions
• The Five Whys
• Slang: Get The Bag (used it to describe successfully getting into a relationship)
• Slang: Sunday Scaries
• Slang: Shill
• Slang: Cheesed

Keep it candid,

Thuy