162. Pushing buttons for control and Parental Alienation

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Lost Cultures: Living Legacies

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Bermuda: The Crossroads of the Atlantic 51:57

22 روز پیش51:57

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On the Season 2 debut of Lost Cultures: Living Legacies , we travel to Bermuda, an Atlantic island whose history spans centuries and continents. Once uninhabited, Bermuda became a vital stop in transatlantic trade, a maritime stronghold, and a cultural crossroads shaped by African, European, Caribbean, and Native American influences. Guests Dr. Kristy Warren and Dr. Edward Harris trace its transformation from an uninhabited island to a strategic outpost shaped by shipwrecks, colonization, the transatlantic slave trade, and the rise and fall of empires. Plus, former Director of Tourism Gary Phillips shares the story of the Gombey tradition, a vibrant performance art rooted in resistance, migration, and cultural fusion. Together, they reveal how Bermuda’s layered past continues to shape its people, culture, and identity today. You can also find us online at ⁠travelandleisure.com/lostcultures Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices…

۳ سال پیش 1:00:24

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In this show we discuss how a toxic narcissistic ex will use the information they know about you to push your buttons

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Duane discusses how a toxic narcissistic ex will use they information they’ve learned about you to target how to push your buttons and get a reaction from you. It is important to understand what they are doing, why they are doing it, and how to effectively respond and react to it. We then take a caller who is struggling with the fact the ex has married his ex-best-friend and exposed their lies of infidelity. A caller shares how he wants to have a relationship with his adult children ages 21 and 23 that he hasn’t seen for 8 years. Finally we have a caller who shares how they (father) have won an enforcement order for their 17 1/2 year old son to come live with them and how the potentially borderline ex has continually demonstrated a “borderline” pattern of behavior.

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00:00 - Start of Show

03:02 - How they push our buttons for reactions and control

09:04 - Caller - Ex is marrying my best friend and who she cheated with

32:34 - Caller - Hasn't see his children for 8 years

48:42 - Caller - Court ordered 17 1/2 son to follow court order and live with dad

56:44 - Take your time before you start dating again

59:00 - End of show wrap-up

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162. Pushing buttons for control and Parental Alienation

Break the Cycle with DSD

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published ۳ سال پیش

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In this show we discuss how a toxic narcissistic ex will use the information they know about you to push your buttons

Show Notes

Support the Channel

Donate through PayPal

DSD Channel Memberships

Participate in the show!

During the show you can call in live at

1 (424) 373-5483
1 (424) DSD-LIVE
Web Interface - free dialing
You can also leave a voicemail through the DSD website

00:00 - Start of Show

03:02 - How they push our buttons for reactions and control

09:04 - Caller - Ex is marrying my best friend and who she cheated with

32:34 - Caller - Hasn't see his children for 8 years

48:42 - Caller - Court ordered 17 1/2 son to follow court order and live with dad

56:44 - Take your time before you start dating again

59:00 - End of show wrap-up

🔗Links Mentioned During Show

DSD Discord

DSD Channel Memberships

Show Sponsor

This episode was sponsored by Hypnosis Downloads - you can find out more and support the Podcast by visiting http://www.dadsurvivingdivorce.com/hypnosis

Links to find out more!

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218. Should I Tell My Child the Truth About Their Narcissistic/BPD Parent? 30:33

10 روز پیش30:33

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If you’re co-parenting with someone who has narcissistic or BPD traits and you’re in a 50/50 custody situation, this podcast is for you. A listener asked: “My son is 3.5 years old—do I say anything about his mom, or just keep her out of my house entirely?” In this podcast, I dive into: How to talk to a young child about a toxic parent (without causing damage) The mistakes I made early in my divorce—and what I’d do differently When to speak, what not to say, and how to create emotional safety Groundhog Day syndrome and how to stop it Why your home must become your child’s emotional anchor Tips for neutral transitions, boundaries, and avoiding triangulation 💡 Whether you’re just entering family court or are years into the battle, this podcast will give you grounded, field-tested advice to protect your child—without turning them into the battlefield. 👉 Drop your thoughts or questions in the comments—let’s help each other through the chaos.…

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217. Crossing the Finish Line: Life After Family Court Ends | Surviving a High-Conflict Divorce 18:53

17 روز پیش18:53

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After years of surviving family court, toxic co-parenting, and the emotional warfare of dealing with a narcissistic ex, the day finally comes—your child turns 18. The court orders stop. The forced contact ends. You’re finally free. But what happens next? In this video, I reflect on my own journey and what it feels like to finally cross the finish line. I talk about: The countdown to 18 and how fast it really goes What it really means when court oversight ends How to emotionally process your new freedom Tips on creating a clean break from your ex Why letting your children lead matters post-18 Protecting your peace and rebuilding your life How to become a guiding light for others still in the storm Whether you’re just starting this battle or nearing the end, this video offers support, perspective, and hope. 👉 If you’re in the thick of it, know this: you will make it . 📢 If you’ve made it, consider sharing your story below to encourage others. 🔑 Secret word of the day: radio 📻 Drop it in the comments if you made it to the end!…

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216. Blowing the Dust Off: A Test Livestream with Calls and Real Talk About Narcissistic Recovery 1:30:30

19 weeks پیش1:30:30

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In this impromptu test livestream, I dust off the setup, tackle some technical hiccups, and get back into the groove of live streaming! Together, we revisit the heart of this channel: creating a safe space for honest conversations about recovery, relationships, and overcoming narcissistic abuse. I field live calls, including one powerful story of perseverance and healing through a challenging family dynamic. If you’re struggling with toxic relationships, recovering from a divorce, or navigating complex emotions, this is a community for you. We also cover topics like setting boundaries, finding clarity, and learning to advocate for yourself in difficult situations. 📞 Call-In Line: 424-375-5483 📲 Sign Up for SMS Notifications: Text “DSDLive” to 844-598-0002 for updates. If you’re new, check out the Mindset for Narcissistic Abuse Recovery playlist on the main channel page—your starting point for healing and building resilience. 💬 Share your thoughts in the comments or join the live chat next time. Let’s keep the conversation going!…

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215. Can You Find Love After Divorcing a Narcissist? Success Stories and Insights 20:27

21 weeks پیش20:27

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In this podcast, I tackle a powerful viewer question: “Do you know of anyone who, after divorcing a narcissistic spouse, went on to remarry, build a new family, and live a healthy life?” This is such an important topic, and the short answer is: YES, it’s possible—but it takes work. I’ll share key insights into what’s required to break the cycle of toxic relationships, including: ✔️ Doing the inner work to heal and grow. ✔️ Setting and maintaining firm boundaries. ✔️ Learning to trust your gut and recognize red flags. ✔️ How healthy relationships can feel “off” at first due to past trauma. I also share inspiring stories, including insights from Eric Carroll (Dad Talk Today) and my own experiences, to show you that healthy love is attainable after narcissistic abuse. 💬 Have you remarried or entered a healthy relationship after a toxic one? Share your story in the comments to inspire others. And if you made it to the end, type “YETI” in the comments to let me know! 🔗 Resources Mentioned: 🎥 Mindset for Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Playlist – Start your healing journey here. If you enjoyed this video or have more questions you’d like me to cover, let me know in the comments! Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and share this video with someone who needs hope. #HealingAfterNarcissism #HealthyRelationships #NarcissisticAbuseRecovery…

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214. When do you take your ex back to arbitration? 35:02

46 weeks پیش35:02

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Listener asks the question of do I take her to arbitration again on minor stuff or just save my money? Show Notes Duane discusses a question a listener asks about when to go to court and when to fight the battle? He covers the topics of what do you really hope to accomplish? Will this action “move the needle”. You have to take a hard look at the reality of the situation and what is the perception of other people involved. Support the Channel Donate through PayPal DSD Channel Memberships Participate in the show! During the show you can call in live at 1 (424) 373-5483 1 (424) DSD-LIVE Web Interface - free dialing You can also leave a voicemail through the DSD website Table of Contents 🔗Links Mentioned During Show DSD Discord DSD Channel Memberships Show Sponsor This episode was sponsored by Hypnosis Downloads - you can find out more and support the Podcast by visiting http://www.dadsurvivingdivorce.com/hypnosis Links to find out more! DSD YouTube Channel DSD Website Hypnosis Downloads The M.E.A.N Workbook Channel Memberships…

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213. Why are dad’s rejected? How to cope with the pain! 24:33

1 year پیش24:33

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Father’s always seem to be rejected by children, we discuss the reasons and how to cope. Show Notes A common problem people experience in high conflict narcissistic divorces and custody is being rejected by your children. This is a very painful thing to experience and it is very hurtful when you feel your own children “rejecting” you. In this episode Duane discusses the reason this occurs and ways to help you cope with the frustration and disappointment when your children are used as weapons. Support the Channel Donate through PayPal DSD Channel Memberships Participate in the show! During the show you can call in live at 1 (424) 373-5483 1 (424) DSD-LIVE Web Interface - free dialing You can also leave a voicemail through the DSD website Table of Contents 🔗Links Mentioned During Show DSD Discord DSD Channel Memberships Show Sponsor This episode was sponsored by Hypnosis Downloads - you can find out more and support the Podcast by visiting http://www.dadsurvivingdivorce.com/hypnosis Links to find out more! DSD YouTube Channel DSD Website Hypnosis Downloads The M.E.A.N Workbook Channel Memberships…

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212. Slower learner | Take your life back after narcissistic abuse 1:45:00

1 year پیش1:45:00

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Slower learner | Take your life back after narcissistic abuse Show Notes DSD discusses the reality of it taking time to learn how futile it can be struggling to make a different in your life with a narcissistic ex. Duane shares how he continues to see people struggling with this concept. You get stuck in the mode EXPECTING justice and accountability. He shares how he hates to see people only learn this lesson after losing in court and then questioning why they even fought for it. Ultimately you have to take things slow and give yourself time to accept and see the reality of your situation. In the end focusing on your children and the relationship you have, and are building with them, is the key! Support the Channel Donate through PayPal DSD Channel Memberships Participate in the show! During the show you can call in live at 1 (424) 373-5483 1 (424) DSD-LIVE Web Interface - free dialing You can also leave a voicemail through the DSD website Table of Contents 00:00:00 - Start 00:01:49 - New Topic 00:01:58 - New Topic 00:18:46 - New Topic 00:25:18 - New Topic 00:31:19 - New Topic 00:36:13 - New Topic 00:46:15 - New Topic 00:50:19 - NEW CALLER 01:02:07 - CALLER END 01:03:39 - NEW CALLER 01:10:48 - NEW CALLER 01:12:16 - New Topic 01:19:05 - New Topic 🔗Links Mentioned During Show DSD Discord DSD Channel Memberships Show Sponsor This episode was sponsored by Hypnosis Downloads - you can find out more and support the Podcast by visiting http://www.dadsurvivingdivorce.com/hypnosis Links to find out more! DSD YouTube Channel DSD Website Hypnosis Downloads The M.E.A.N Workbook Channel Memberships…

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211. Taking care of yourself | hobbies are important! 1:36:11

1 year پیش1:36:11

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Taking care of yourself | hobbies are important! Show Notes In this episode Duane talks about the importance of having a hobby or something that you enjoy doing. He also talks about the struggles when you are down, depressed, and beaten with ways to push yourself to break yourself out of that downward spiral. He then fields questions from others on silver bullets, narcissists seeking control, being forced to spend time with the ex, and finally an update on his current medical situation. Support the Channel Donate through PayPal DSD Channel Memberships Participate in the show! During the show you can call in live at 1 (424) 373-5483 1 (424) DSD-LIVE Web Interface - free dialing You can also leave a voicemail through the DSD website Table of Contents 00:00 Start 02:55 - Welcome to the livestream 06:04 - Finding some positive to do hobbies 17:19 - Advice on handling message about school 21:20 - Narc fishing for control 29:57 - Supervised visits and lashing out 36:14 - Having to spend time with the ex 37:16 - When drop offs are late 39:54 - Silver bullet - supervised visits 47:02 - Don't respond immediately 52:49 - Worry about kids and narcissism 59:41 - Paranoia and narcissists 01:01:27 - Graduations with ex 01:08:03 - Realizing you have narc friends 01:12:03 - Getting to the other side! 01:13:03 - Our child as abusers? 01:21:48 - Ex should be normal around kids 01:25:31 - Narc mom blaming you? 01:31:32 - Medical update on me 01:35:21 - End of show wrap-up 🔗Links Mentioned During Show DSD Discord DSD Channel Memberships Show Sponsor This episode was sponsored by Hypnosis Downloads - you can find out more and support the Podcast by visiting http://www.dadsurvivingdivorce.com/hypnosis Links to find out more! DSD YouTube Channel DSD Website Hypnosis Downloads The M.E.A.N Workbook Channel Memberships…

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210. You MUST deal with the pain! 1:32:28

1 year پیش1:32:28

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Dealing with the pain is the only way to get through this Show Notes In this episode DSD starts with a clip from Brad Pitt talking about his experience of running from the pain and ultimately how he worked through it to take his like back! Duane has a discussion with the audience about their experiences and ways to approach things Support the Channel Donate through PayPal DSD Channel Memberships Participate in the show! During the show you can call in live at 1 (424) 373-5483 1 (424) DSD-LIVE Web Interface - free dialing You can also leave a voicemail through the DSD website Table of Contents 00:00 Start 03:24 New Topic 11:46 New Topic 28:56 New Topic 38:06 New Topic 43:07 New Topic 01:04:26 New Topic 01:10:17 New Topic 01:14:23 New Topic 01:16:18 New Topic 01:22:34 New Topic 🔗Links Mentioned During Show DSD Discord DSD Channel Memberships Show Sponsor This episode was sponsored by Hypnosis Downloads - you can find out more and support the Podcast by visiting http://www.dadsurvivingdivorce.com/hypnosis Links to find out more! DSD YouTube Channel DSD Website Hypnosis Downloads The M.E.A.N Workbook Channel Memberships…

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209. Letting go and update on civil case 2:02:43

1 year پیش2:02:43

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A deep dive discussion on the struggles of letting go with an update and review of the redacted Order Sustaining Demurrer on my civil case. Show Notes In this episode DSD talks about the struggles and importances of learning to “let go”. We discuss how difficult it is to actually do, being forced to learn the “lesson”, recognizing when you’re being pulled back in, and notice when you are stuck in the rumination cycle. Duane then shares how things really start to change ONCE you accept the situation and allowing yourself to “move on”. He also shares that unfortunately this process takes a LONG time and for some even years. DSD shares that it took him about 2 to 3 years for it to really sink in. Duane then provides an update with a reading on the final Order Sustaining Demurrer that was finally sent and signed by the court. This leads into a discussion on various aspects of court. Support the Channel Donate through PayPal DSD Channel Memberships Participate in the show! During the show you can call in live at 1 (424) 373-5483 1 (424) DSD-LIVE Web Interface - free dialing You can also leave a voicemail through the DSD website Table of Contents 00:00 Start 03:17 - The Struggles of Letting Go 27:20 - Review of comments 50:05 - Order Supporting Demurrer 2:01:25 - End of show wrap-up 🔗Links Mentioned During Show DSD Discord DSD Channel Memberships Show Sponsor This episode was sponsored by Hypnosis Downloads - you can find out more and support the Podcast by visiting http://www.dadsurvivingdivorce.com/hypnosis Links to find out more! DSD YouTube Channel DSD Website Hypnosis Downloads The M.E.A.N Workbook Channel Memberships…

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208. Getting Past Your Past 1:33:21

1 year پیش1:33:21

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A discussion on how difficult it is to let of the past Show Notes The Healing Path: Navigate the path to healing with practical tips and strategies. Discover effective coping mechanisms and self-care practices to nurture your mental and emotional well-being. Support the Channel Donate through PayPal DSD Channel Memberships Participate in the show! During the show you can call in live at 1 (424) 373-5483 1 (424) DSD-LIVE Web Interface - free dialing You can also leave a voicemail through the DSD website Table of Contents 🔗Links Mentioned During Show DSD Discord DSD Channel Memberships Show Sponsor This episode was sponsored by Hypnosis Downloads - you can find out more and support the Podcast by visiting http://www.dadsurvivingdivorce.com/hypnosis Links to find out more! DSD YouTube Channel DSD Website Hypnosis Downloads The M.E.A.N Workbook Channel Memberships…

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207. Alex on the news again & dealing with the stress of family court 1:00:45

1 year پیش1:00:45

1:00:45

Alex on the news again & dealing with the stress of family court Show Notes Support the Channel Donate through PayPal DSD Channel Memberships Participate in the show! During the show you can call in live at 1 (424) 373-5483 1 (424) DSD-LIVE Web Interface - free dialing You can also leave a voicemail through the DSD website Table of Contents 🔗Links Mentioned During Show DSD Discord DSD Channel Memberships Show Sponsor This episode was sponsored by Hypnosis Downloads - you can find out more and support the Podcast by visiting http://www.dadsurvivingdivorce.com/hypnosis Links to find out more! DSD YouTube Channel DSD Website Hypnosis Downloads The M.E.A.N Workbook Channel Memberships…

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206. Anxiety is a slow killer in narcissistic abuse 57:37

1 year پیش57:37

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Anxiety is a slow killer in narcissistic abuse Show Notes In this podcast DSD talks about the effectives of the constant anxiety and stress these situation put you under. He covers different techniques he has used to help him and other in dealing with this reality. Later in the podcast he takes a caller working through severe parental alienation and we discuss techniques on dealing with his minor and adult children. Support the Channel Donate through PayPal DSD Channel Memberships Participate in the show! During the show you can call in live at 1 (424) 373-5483 1 (424) DSD-LIVE Web Interface - free dialing You can also leave a voicemail through the DSD website Table of Contents 🔗Links Mentioned During Show DSD Discord DSD Channel Memberships Show Sponsor This episode was sponsored by Hypnosis Downloads - you can find out more and support the Podcast by visiting http://www.dadsurvivingdivorce.com/hypnosis Links to find out more! DSD YouTube Channel DSD Website Hypnosis Downloads The M.E.A.N Workbook Channel Memberships…

۲ years پیش1:07:00

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A narcissist is always “performing” Show Notes In this show Duane discusses the realities of performances and how they can quickly adapt to changing responses to continue their narrative and illusion. We discuss the underestimated ability to “fake it”, how when corned in a lie they are able to “get out of it”, their abilities to manipulator and control narratives and how important it is to NOT REACT to their drama and not feed into their continued delusions Support the Channel Donate through PayPal DSD Channel Memberships Participate in the show! During the show you can call in live at 1 (424) 373-5483 1 (424) DSD-LIVE Web Interface - free dialing You can also leave a voicemail through the DSD website Table of Contents 🔗Links Mentioned During Show DSD Discord DSD Channel Memberships Show Sponsor This episode was sponsored by Hypnosis Downloads - you can find out more and support the Podcast by visiting http://www.dadsurvivingdivorce.com/hypnosis Links to find out more! DSD YouTube Channel DSD Website Hypnosis Downloads The M.E.A.N Workbook Channel Memberships…

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