The Art of the Hand Job: Pleasuring Your Wife

The Generous Husband

When you hear the words “hand job” you probably think of that thing you begrudgingly accept when you really need sex and her hand is all your wife is willing to give you. But women can also receive hand jobs, and your wife may be all about you giving her one.

Even if your wife can orgasm during intercourse, there will be times she’s not up for that. But she might be willing to let you have fun after you take care of her by hand. A hand job will also give her pleasure when you can’t have intercourse for some reason. It’s a sex skill every husband should have.

Before you get handy, you need to know a few things. The head of her clitoris has as many nerves as the head of your penis, but in a much smaller package. That makes it far more sensitive. It’s easy to overstimulate her, and that’s not enjoyable. So go easy, and if she squirms or moves way from your hand, back off a bit.

I’m sure you’d like to sit between her legs for the view, but lying next to her is better. If she has body issues, or is self-conscious, being beside her will help. You can also kiss her, or use your mouth on one of her breasts.

Start with a finger near but not on her clit. Or spread your index and middle finger and put one on either side. Press and move more than you stroke. A bit of lube will make it better, be that her natural wetness or something from a bottle. If you use the side of your thumb to stimulate her clitoris, you can penetrate her with your middle finger. She will probably want stronger stimulation as she gets close to coming, but increase in small increments.

Every woman is different, so use what I’ve said as a starting place.

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