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محتوای ارائه شده توسط Noble Ij. تمام محتوای پادکست شامل قسمت‌ها، گرافیک‌ها و توضیحات پادکست مستقیماً توسط Noble Ij یا شریک پلتفرم پادکست آن‌ها آپلود و ارائه می‌شوند. اگر فکر می‌کنید شخصی بدون اجازه شما از اثر دارای حق نسخه‌برداری شما استفاده می‌کند، می‌توانید روندی که در اینجا شرح داده شده است را دنبال کنید.https://fa.player.fm/legal
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Episode 10: What I Wished I Knew: Red Flags And Early Warning Signals. Guest: Khama John

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محتوای ارائه شده توسط Noble Ij. تمام محتوای پادکست شامل قسمت‌ها، گرافیک‌ها و توضیحات پادکست مستقیماً توسط Noble Ij یا شریک پلتفرم پادکست آن‌ها آپلود و ارائه می‌شوند. اگر فکر می‌کنید شخصی بدون اجازه شما از اثر دارای حق نسخه‌برداری شما استفاده می‌کند، می‌توانید روندی که در اینجا شرح داده شده است را دنبال کنید.https://fa.player.fm/legal

In every relationship that failed; there was a red flag that somebody ignored. This could be business relationship, marriage relationship etc.
What are this red flags in relationships? They are certainly too numerous to mention;
At the beginning of a relationship it is almost impossible to tell if the partner would will become abusive. As a matter of fact, many abusers may seem absolutely perfect on the surface as if they are the dream partners; showering you with so much love especially in the early stages of a relationship. Possessive and controlling and manipulative behaviors don’t always appear overnight, but rather emerge and intensify as the relationship grows.

If you’re beginning to feel as if your partner or a loved one’s partner is becoming abusive, there are a few behaviors that you can look out for. Watch out for these red flags and If you are experiencing any/some of these in your dating relationship; then you will see even more of it when it eventually grows into a marriage relationship. Seek help when your partner is:

  • Embarrassing or putting you down
  • Looking at you or acting in ways that scare you
  • Controlling who you see, where you go, or what you do
  • Keeping you or discouraging you from seeing your friends or families
  • Taking your money or refusing to give you money for expenses
  • Preventing you from making your own decisions
  • Telling you that you are a bad parent or threatening to harm or take away your children
  • Preventing you from working or attending school
  • Blaming you for the abuse, or acting like it’s not really happening
  • Destroying your property or threatening to hurt or kill your pets
  • Intimidating you with guns, knives or other weapons
  • Shoving, slapping, choking or hitting you
  • Attempting to stop you from pressing charges
  • Threatening to commit suicide because of something you’ve done
  • Threatening to hurt or kill you
  • Pressuring you to have sex when you don’t want to or do things sexually you’re not comfortable with
  • Pressuring you to use drugs or alcohol
  • Preventing you from using birth control or pressuring you to become pregnant when you’re not ready.

It is sad to state that; most of the time; the perpetrator does many different kinds of things to have more power and control over their partners.
The host (Noble Ij) shared some of the red flags she had ignored while dating her ex-husband and how they became even louder and glaring to her marriage relationship.
The guest Khama John is a relationship coach; he dissected this topic (What I wished I knew: Red flags and early warning signs) in a way that will leave you in awe.
Khama John is an Electrical Engineer and a project researcher. He is also a realtor and a avid child of God. You can contact him via: Social media: @Khama Asebakeoghene John
Join our community @www.instagram.com/thebeautifullybrokenme and/or www.facebook.com/thebeautifullybrokenme
You can also reach us via email at: [email protected]
Resources: Know the Red Flags of Abuse. The Hotline. (n.d.). https://www.thehotline.org/resources/know-the-red-flags-of-abuse/.

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محتوای ارائه شده توسط Noble Ij. تمام محتوای پادکست شامل قسمت‌ها، گرافیک‌ها و توضیحات پادکست مستقیماً توسط Noble Ij یا شریک پلتفرم پادکست آن‌ها آپلود و ارائه می‌شوند. اگر فکر می‌کنید شخصی بدون اجازه شما از اثر دارای حق نسخه‌برداری شما استفاده می‌کند، می‌توانید روندی که در اینجا شرح داده شده است را دنبال کنید.https://fa.player.fm/legal

In every relationship that failed; there was a red flag that somebody ignored. This could be business relationship, marriage relationship etc.
What are this red flags in relationships? They are certainly too numerous to mention;
At the beginning of a relationship it is almost impossible to tell if the partner would will become abusive. As a matter of fact, many abusers may seem absolutely perfect on the surface as if they are the dream partners; showering you with so much love especially in the early stages of a relationship. Possessive and controlling and manipulative behaviors don’t always appear overnight, but rather emerge and intensify as the relationship grows.

If you’re beginning to feel as if your partner or a loved one’s partner is becoming abusive, there are a few behaviors that you can look out for. Watch out for these red flags and If you are experiencing any/some of these in your dating relationship; then you will see even more of it when it eventually grows into a marriage relationship. Seek help when your partner is:

  • Embarrassing or putting you down
  • Looking at you or acting in ways that scare you
  • Controlling who you see, where you go, or what you do
  • Keeping you or discouraging you from seeing your friends or families
  • Taking your money or refusing to give you money for expenses
  • Preventing you from making your own decisions
  • Telling you that you are a bad parent or threatening to harm or take away your children
  • Preventing you from working or attending school
  • Blaming you for the abuse, or acting like it’s not really happening
  • Destroying your property or threatening to hurt or kill your pets
  • Intimidating you with guns, knives or other weapons
  • Shoving, slapping, choking or hitting you
  • Attempting to stop you from pressing charges
  • Threatening to commit suicide because of something you’ve done
  • Threatening to hurt or kill you
  • Pressuring you to have sex when you don’t want to or do things sexually you’re not comfortable with
  • Pressuring you to use drugs or alcohol
  • Preventing you from using birth control or pressuring you to become pregnant when you’re not ready.

It is sad to state that; most of the time; the perpetrator does many different kinds of things to have more power and control over their partners.
The host (Noble Ij) shared some of the red flags she had ignored while dating her ex-husband and how they became even louder and glaring to her marriage relationship.
The guest Khama John is a relationship coach; he dissected this topic (What I wished I knew: Red flags and early warning signs) in a way that will leave you in awe.
Khama John is an Electrical Engineer and a project researcher. He is also a realtor and a avid child of God. You can contact him via: Social media: @Khama Asebakeoghene John
Join our community @www.instagram.com/thebeautifullybrokenme and/or www.facebook.com/thebeautifullybrokenme
You can also reach us via email at: [email protected]
Resources: Know the Red Flags of Abuse. The Hotline. (n.d.). https://www.thehotline.org/resources/know-the-red-flags-of-abuse/.

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