Dreams, Dragonflies, and Destiny: How Fern Lehmann Overcame Grief

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Welcome to another episode of Resilience Reborn. In today's episode, Angie reconnects with Fern Lehmann, who shares her profound and emotional journey through a series of heart-wrenching losses. Over the last 18 months, Fern faced the passing of three loved ones, including her husband, who battled brain cancer, and her mother, who passed away under hospice care. Fern opens up about the incredible support system that helped her through these turbulent times, including her family, close friends, and hospice services. She recounts significant moments, like a memorable 10-day vacation at Chesapeake Bay with her husband and the comforting dreams that reassured her of his peaceful journey after death. Fern also delves into the challenges of moving and selling the family home, the strains on familial relationships, and the eventual peace she finds in her new environment.

Key Takeaways:

• Fern’s personal losses
• A memorable vacation before her husbands passing
• Dreams and spiritual experiences
• The journey of grief and transition
• Reflections on strength and faith
• Friendship and support networks

Episode Timestamps:

00:00 Premonition prepared widow for husband's passing.

04:39 Pinched nerve led to cancer discovery.

09:34 Rediscovered faith and mutual respect recently.

11:45 Divine intervention led to profitable house flip.

13:22 He struggled communicating plans and emotions unexpectedly.

19:08 Final, meaningful vacation with loved ones.

20:32 Giving hope and diverse perspectives to listeners.

25:31 Family tensions arose during house completion project.

29:39 Ben struggles post-move; husband spiritually present.

30:31 Dragonflies symbolize father's presence and connection.

34:08 Knitting while he assessed room repairs progress.

39:37 I moved on, struggled to grieve properly.

41:35 Few people stayed with me through everything.

44:10 Faith helps navigate life's challenges and losses.

47:11 Podcasts offer personalized, valuable listening experiences.

Quote of the Episode:

"I believe God gave me the premonition to prepare me for what was to come because I think had I not known, I would have fallen apart and I had a minor child to take care of." - Fern Lehmann