Anxious Attachment: Why You Keep Asking the Same Questions & Seeking Reassurance (+ Why it Doesn't Work)

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Struggling with anxious attachment? Always asking “Do you still love me?” or “Are you sure you’re not leaving?” even when you know the answer won’t help for long?

In this episode, Carly Ann unpacks why anxious attachers seek constant reassurance, how it keeps you stuck in a loop, and why your nervous system never quite feels safe.

If you're stuck overthinking, spiralling after silence, or chasing reassurance through asking non-stop questions, this one is for you

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Anxious Attachment: Why You Keep Asking the Same Questions & Seeking Reassurance (+ Why it Doesn't Work)

Lessons in (Anxious) Attachment

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Struggling with anxious attachment? Always asking “Do you still love me?” or “Are you sure you’re not leaving?” even when you know the answer won’t help for long?

In this episode, Carly Ann unpacks why anxious attachers seek constant reassurance, how it keeps you stuck in a loop, and why your nervous system never quite feels safe.

If you're stuck overthinking, spiralling after silence, or chasing reassurance through asking non-stop questions, this one is for you

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TRY THIS: 5 Steps That Will Help You Overcome Your Biggest Fears 17:09

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Send us a text TRY THIS: 5 Steps That Will Help You Overcome Your Biggest Fears Fear can feel like it’s running the show.. keeping you stuck, small, and second-guessing every move. But what if you could face those fears head-on and finally stop letting them control your life? In this episode, I’m sharing five powerful, practical steps that will help you break free, to go from stuck to secure. Whether it’s fear of rejection, failure, abandonment, or the unknown, these 5 steps will stop you standing in your own way - you will gain courage and and confidence if you put this into action. This is your brand new blueprint. Support the show Other useful links: Becoming Secure (Next Course I am running) FREE BREAKING THE CYCLE OF ANXIOUS ATTACHMENT WORKSHOP FREE ANXIOUS ATTACHMENT BUNDLE Follow Carly Ann on Instagram…

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MINI TRAINING Day 6: Feeling Panic, Numb or Physically Overwhelmed? Let's talk about it 10:29

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Send us a text If your body feels like it’s either buzzing with anxiety or completely shut down, you’re not alone. In this mini training, Carly Ann explores how physical sensations like overwhelm, tension, or numbness can keep you stuck in the same painful cycles. You’ll learn why your body reacts the way it does, how these sensations maintain anxious patterns, and one powerful tip you can start using today to find calm quicker. ✨ Stuck to Secure starts 1st August - 21 days to reset and break the cycle: https://carly-ann.mykajabi.com/21-days-course Support the show Other useful links: Becoming Secure (Next Course I am running) FREE BREAKING THE CYCLE OF ANXIOUS ATTACHMENT WORKSHOP FREE ANXIOUS ATTACHMENT BUNDLE Follow Carly Ann on Instagram…

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MINI TRAINING Day 5: Ready to Take Action? This One Question Can Move You Forward 10:13

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Send us a text Did you know your behaviours influence so much of how you feel and what you do? In this training, Carly Ann is sharing one powerful question that can help you shift your actions, align with your values, and become the version of you that you actually desire to be. Whether you’re stuck in old patterns or ready to take that next step forward, this episode will give you a simple but game-changing mindset shift. ✨ Stuck to Secure starts 1st August - 21 days to reset and break the cycle: https://carly-ann.mykajabi.com/21-days-course Support the show Other useful links: Becoming Secure (Next Course I am running) FREE BREAKING THE CYCLE OF ANXIOUS ATTACHMENT WORKSHOP FREE ANXIOUS ATTACHMENT BUNDLE Follow Carly Ann on Instagram…

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MINI TRAINING Day 4: Managing Your Emotions & Not Feeling Good Enough 16:28

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Send us a text In this episode, we explore the power of emotions - how they show up, how they influence what we do, and why managing them matters so much, especially when you don’t feel good enough. You’ll hear insights on how emotions can hijack your thoughts and actions, and simple ways to work with them instead of against them. If you’re ready to get curious about your feelings and stop letting them run the show, this one’s for you. ✨ Stuck to Secure starts 1st August - 21 days to reset and break the cycle: https://carly-ann.mykajabi.com/21-days-course Support the show Other useful links: Becoming Secure (Next Course I am running) FREE BREAKING THE CYCLE OF ANXIOUS ATTACHMENT WORKSHOP FREE ANXIOUS ATTACHMENT BUNDLE Follow Carly Ann on Instagram…

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MINI TRAINING Day 3: NEGATIVE THOUGHTS - This Tool Will Help You Take Back Control of Your Mind 12:01

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Send us a text Welcome to Day 3 of Becoming Unstuck – today is all about your thoughts. If you ever feel owned by your mind, trapped in spirals of overthinking, self-doubt, or fear, this episode is yours. If you know you have negative thoughts that move you away from who you want to be - listen now or save for later! Carly Ann shares a brilliant, practical tool to help you stop being a prisoner of your mind and start becoming its leader. This mini training is a must-listen if you're ready to quiet the noise and reclaim your inner calm. Let’s set you free. 🎧 Want more? Dive deeper in the free workshop I mentioned: https://youtu.be/IE-MJ4OqZ6E ✨ Stuck to Secure starts 1st August - 21 days to reset and break the cycle: https://carly-ann.mykajabi.com/21-days-course Support the show Other useful links: Becoming Secure (Next Course I am running) FREE BREAKING THE CYCLE OF ANXIOUS ATTACHMENT WORKSHOP FREE ANXIOUS ATTACHMENT BUNDLE Follow Carly Ann on Instagram…

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MINI TRAINING Day 2: Your TRIGGERS Are Trying To Tell You Something 10:10

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Send us a text Triggered? Feeling stuck in the same painful loops? Rejected, blamed, out of control? Whether it is a specific person or a song on the radio, your triggers aren’t the enemy.. they’re the message. If you keep spiralling in love or life, this training is part of your RESET! ✨ Stuck to Secure starts 1st August - 21 days to reset and break the cycle: https://carly-ann.mykajabi.com/21-days-course Support the show Other useful links: Becoming Secure (Next Course I am running) FREE BREAKING THE CYCLE OF ANXIOUS ATTACHMENT WORKSHOP FREE ANXIOUS ATTACHMENT BUNDLE Follow Carly Ann on Instagram…

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MINI TRAINING Day 1: THIS One Exercise Helped Me (FINALLY) Stop Chasing and Start Changing & Become Unstuck 9:15

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Send us a text Training 1/6 - Becoming Unstuck Stuck in anxious loops or reacting in ways that don’t feel like you? This powerful exercise will help you take a first step in moving TOWRDS the life and love your desire and how to shift. You’ll learn how to spot the moment you’re at a choice point, and how to move towards the secure, grounded version of you. Join in with the exercise or just listen along, this is how you start becoming who you were always meant to be. 🎧 Want more? Dive deeper in the free workshop I mentioned: https://youtu.be/IE-MJ4OqZ6E Support the show Other useful links: Becoming Secure (Next Course I am running) FREE BREAKING THE CYCLE OF ANXIOUS ATTACHMENT WORKSHOP FREE ANXIOUS ATTACHMENT BUNDLE Follow Carly Ann on Instagram…

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Guided Grounding Meditation for When You Feel Triggered / Worried / Anxious and Need to Calm Down 4:49

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Send us a text FREE WORKSHOP: https://carly-ann.mykajabi.com/free-btc-workshop This meditation is your emergency pause button when you need to soothe and regulate right now. To help with the spiral, the overwhelm, the noise in your head - this 5 minute audio will bring you back . Back into your body. Back into the present. Back into safety. Whether you’re feeling anxious, triggered, heartbroken, or like you’ve left the room entirely, press play. Let these few minutes shift everything MUSIC: Cylinder Nine by Chris Zabriskie is licensed under a Creative Commons Attribution 4.0 license. https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/ Source: http://chriszabriskie.com/cylinders/ Artist: http://chriszabriskie.com/ Support the show Other useful links: Becoming Secure (Next Course I am running) FREE BREAKING THE CYCLE OF ANXIOUS ATTACHMENT WORKSHOP FREE ANXIOUS ATTACHMENT BUNDLE Follow Carly Ann on Instagram…

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This Helped Me Stop Worrying, Obsessing, and Seeking Reassurance...So I Could Finally Relax 21:59

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Send us a text If you’ve ever been stuck in a worry spiral...the kind that hijacks your mind, interrupts your sleep, and makes you question everything (non stop)..this episode is for you. I was in one recently. And while I didn’t fix it overnight, I found something that helped in the middle of it . This isn’t a neat “5 steps to stop overthinking” episode. It’s a real look at what happens when anxiety takes over, and how to unmerge from the panic long enough to find your self. Carly Ann shares exactly what she did to stop spiralling, and then you can do the same for yourself If you overthink, seek reassurance, obsess over decisions, or just want your peace back, listen today Support the show Other useful links: Becoming Secure (Next Course I am running) FREE BREAKING THE CYCLE OF ANXIOUS ATTACHMENT WORKSHOP FREE ANXIOUS ATTACHMENT BUNDLE Follow Carly Ann on Instagram…

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NON-NEGOTIABLES FOR SELF-WORTH & FEELING GOOD ENOUGH 22:01

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Send us a text We all fall into patterns – but some of them silently chip away at our self-worth. In today’s episode, Carly Ann is uncovering the sneaky habits and thought loops that keep you stuck in low self-esteem and anxiety. These are 3 common patterns that damage your self-worth if left ignored. In this episode you will receive practical, powerful tips to start rebuilding your self worth from the inside out. Plus, stay tuned for a self-worth challenge you can start this week to begin showing up as the most confident, secure version of you. Support the show Other useful links: Becoming Secure (Next Course I am running) FREE BREAKING THE CYCLE OF ANXIOUS ATTACHMENT WORKSHOP FREE ANXIOUS ATTACHMENT BUNDLE Follow Carly Ann on Instagram…

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Mid-Year Guided Manifestation: Cut Ties & Call in What You DESIRE 7:57

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Send us a text Ready for a powerful mid-year reset? This guided manifestation meditation is designed to help you get back on track, reconnect with your goals, and start attracting the life you truly desire. It will guide you to cut ties with what does not serve you and call in what you desire Whether you're manifesting love, success, confidence, or a fresh start... this is your chance to pause, reflect, and realign with your highest self. This is the perfect time to raise your vibration and set powerful intentions for the second half of the year. 💫 Manifest your dream life 💫 Mid-year motivation & mindset shift 💫 Get clear on your goals and next steps 💫 Release blocks and build confidence 💫 Step into your most magnetic, secure self Listen now if you're ready to stop holding back and start calling in what’s meant for you. It’s not too late... in fact, this is just the beginning. #GuidedManifestation #MidYearReset #ManifestationMeditation #LawOfAttraction #ManifestingConfidence #AnxiousAttachmentHealing #SelfWorth #MindsetShift #BecomeSecure #ManifestMore Support the show Other useful links: Becoming Secure (Next Course I am running) FREE BREAKING THE CYCLE OF ANXIOUS ATTACHMENT WORKSHOP FREE ANXIOUS ATTACHMENT BUNDLE Follow Carly Ann on Instagram…

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Why You Obsess Over the Good Times (Even If a Relationship Wasn’t Good for You) and What to Do Instead 15:31

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Send us a text Do you you keep going back to the good times with someone who’s no longer in your life? Whether that’s an ex, a situationship, or something that never fully got off the ground. In this episode of Lessons in Attachment , Carly Ann (therapist & coach helping you heal anxious attachment) breaks down the real psychological reasons why we play the positives and stay stuck on a loop feeling bad about it all, wishing it was different. If you’ve ever thought, “Why can’t I stop thinking about them and remembering how good it was?” this episode is for you. I do not want you think think you’re not weak for caring. You’re human for remembering. But you don’t have to stay stuck, so let me help you. Support the show Other useful links: Becoming Secure (Next Course I am running) FREE BREAKING THE CYCLE OF ANXIOUS ATTACHMENT WORKSHOP FREE ANXIOUS ATTACHMENT BUNDLE Follow Carly Ann on Instagram…

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Holding On to the Good Times? Here is a 6 Step Radical Acceptance Practice for Letting Go 5:44

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Send us a text A Radical Acceptance Practice If you have anxious attachment, you may find yourself stuck in the highlight reel of your relationship - that means replaying the good times over and over, wondering what went wrong, and blaming yourself when the present doesn’t match up This gentle, guided exercise is designed to help you practice radical acceptance - to hold space for the memories and accept the reality of what is, without self-rejection or shame. Through six grounding steps, you’ll learn to calm your nervous system and move forward with more Whether you're navigating a breakup, feeling distant in a current relationship, or just struggling with a sense of loss, this can help Support the show Other useful links: Becoming Secure (Next Course I am running) FREE BREAKING THE CYCLE OF ANXIOUS ATTACHMENT WORKSHOP FREE ANXIOUS ATTACHMENT BUNDLE Follow Carly Ann on Instagram…

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BE PREPARED: This Is Where Your Inner Critic Will Attack You the Most + How to Respond 15:14

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Send us a text Your inner critic knows exactly when to strike, and if you can be ready for it - you can stop it in its tracks! In this episode, Carly Ann shares the common moments where self-criticism hits hardest, especially for those with anxious attachment, low self-worth, or a constant fear of not being good enough. Plus stay tuned because you will because you will get so much value - Carly Ann will guide you through simple steps to notice and start responding to your inner critic. If you’re tired of the same old thought loops and want to finally quiet the inner critic that holds you back in relationships, self-love, and everyday life - this one’s for you. Support the show Other useful links: Becoming Secure (Next Course I am running) FREE BREAKING THE CYCLE OF ANXIOUS ATTACHMENT WORKSHOP FREE ANXIOUS ATTACHMENT BUNDLE Follow Carly Ann on Instagram…

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Guided Confidence Boost: Motivational Pep Talk for When You’re Nervous & Overthinking 7:23

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Send us a text A motivational episode - consider it your personal pep talk to manage your inner critic and give you a confidence boost. Carly Ann is here to help if you’ve got something coming up that’s making you nervous. Whether it’s a date, a job interview, a boundary to set, or a tough conversation, this episode will help settle your mind and lift your energy. It’s for those moments when your inner critic gets loud and tries to convince you to stay small, quiet, or hidden. Carly Ann is speaking directly to that inner critic and guiding you back into your body - back into your power. This pep talk helps you reconnect to the present moment with calm, strength, and self-belief. If you’re done playing small and ready to feel grounded and capable, this is the boost you’ve been waiting for. Support the show Other useful links: Becoming Secure (Next Course I am running) FREE BREAKING THE CYCLE OF ANXIOUS ATTACHMENT WORKSHOP FREE ANXIOUS ATTACHMENT BUNDLE Follow Carly Ann on Instagram…

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