ERP 451: How Our Early Relationship Injuries Can Get Mapped Onto Our Most Significant Adult Relationships (Using a Somatic Approach) — An Interview with Jennifer Mann and Karden Rabin

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Emotional wounds from early relationships often cast long shadows over our adult lives, manifesting in unexpected ways. Whether it's feeling an inexplicable sense of burnout not tied to work, struggling with co-dependency, or recognizing recurring patterns of avoidance and anxiety in relationships, these issues are all too familiar but profoundly challenging. However, the road to healing and understanding these ingrained patterns doesn't have to be walked alone.

In this episode, we delve deep into how early family dynamics and childhood experiences shape our emotional and physical well-being as adults. You'll learn how unaddressed attachment issues can trigger stress responses and lead to health problems, the importance of setting boundaries, and the power of emotional attunement in fostering healthier relationships. Additionally, through real-life stories and professional insights, you'll discover strategies to overcome these deep-rooted challenges, nurture personal growth, and ultimately, build more resilient and fulfilling relationships.

Jen and Karden are seasoned mind-body practitioners who have experienced chronic pain and fatigue. Jen is an expert in the field of treating psychophysiological disorders and Karden specializes in somatic trauma therapies. Together, they co-founded the esteemed healing collective SOMIA where they have helped thousands of individuals regulate their nervous systems and heal.

Check out the transcript of this episode on Dr. Jessica Higgin's website. In this episode

6:54 Exploring the impact of relational dynamics on healing and nervous system regulation.

18:54 Navigating attachment styles and emotional triggers in collaborative healing.

34:43 Embracing accountability: How self-awareness and validation promote relational healing.

43:02 The importance of setting healthy boundaries within oneself as a means of emotional regulation, particularly in the context of parenting.

49:53 How awareness with others impacts relationships and friendships.

52:49 How subtle childhood experiences can shape adult triggers and unmet needs in relationships.

58:15 The Secret Language of the Body.

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