Skill Snippet - Acceptance vs. agreement with your child's choices

Beyond The Class: From Knowledge To Action

All of us struggle with acceptance. Often our need to agree gets in the way of connecting. This can be especially true as our child or teen grows and we realize that they are not simply a smaller version of ourselves. It can be difficult to see that our child or teen has different values and beliefs than us. Take a few moments to listen to this short snippet How can we show our children acceptance when we disagree with their behavior or ideas? Listen in for specific strategies that you can use with children or teens and why acceptance is so important! After listening, think about these three questions. •What is a specific situation where I deeply disagree with my child or teen?•Are there mutual goals that we can both use as a starting point?•How can I show my child or teen that I can accept them even when I disagree or do not accept their behavior?