Marital Drift Happens : Preventing Your Marriage from Coming Apart - Episode 25

Slightly off Script with Andy and Bethany Needham

In this episode of Slightly Off Script, the Marriage Show, hosts Bethany and Andy Needham navigate the lighter and more profound aspects of marriage. They humorously discuss a typical day of yard work that led to reflections on communication and mutual understanding. The conversation delves into the serious topic of marital drift, examining its causes, signs, and preventive measures. They emphasize the importance of regular maintenance, setting guardrails, and sometimes seeking emergency help to maintain a healthy and fulfilling marriage. The episode offers insights into recognizing emotional, physical, intellectual, and spiritual indicators of drifting and provides practical advice on how to address and prevent these issues.

Order Slightly Off Script Merch (including the Bethany Needham Band)

00:00 Introduction and Mulching Mishaps

01:31 Mansplaining to Manslaughter

05:28 Marriage Conversations and Divorce

08:26 The Drift in Marriages

10:56 Causes of Drift

22:03 Unhealed Wounds and Therapy

26:10 Understanding Dashboard Indicators in Marriage

28:42 Mind: Intellectual Health in Marriage

34:07 Body: Physical Affection and Intimacy

36:14 Soul: Emotional Health and Vulnerability

39:34 Spirit: Spiritual Health and Connection

41:01 Maintenance, Guardrails, and Emergency Measures

50:33 Final Thoughts and Encouragement