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"Your relationship with yourself determines every other relationship in your life." When we create a healthy relationship with ourselves, everything in our lives begins to transform. Join us each week as we discuss topics such as overcoming shame, letting go of limiting beliefs, dealing with imposter syndrome, finding healthy motivators for achievement, transforming trauma, and learning how to practice self-love and self-acceptance. The Permission to Love Podcast is dedicated to helping peop ...
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Send us a text In this episode we explore how Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapy can help high achievers heal their inner wounds, live more authentically, and find balance. I discuss the IFS concept of parts, such as exiles, managers, and firefighters, and how understanding these roles can lead to profound self-compassion and healing. This episo…
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Send us a text In this episode we dive into the exhausting trap of image management—a struggle many high achievers face. We explores why this behavior develops, its detrimental impact on mental, emotional, and relational health, and how it stems from a need for safety and external validation. We also discuss practical steps to release the burden of…
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Send us a text In this episode, we look at the often-hidden and misunderstood struggle of imposter syndrome, a common experience among high achievers. We look at what imposter syndrome is, why high achievers are prone to it, and practical tools to help overcome it. Through compassion, reframing, and celebrating successes, we examine how you can beg…
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Send us a text In this episode, we continue our series on mindfulness practices to help reduce stress, focusing specifically on the power of mindful breathing. We explore how our breath can activate the parasympathetic nervous system, helping us shift from a fight-or-flight state to a state of relaxation. We look at the research-backed benefits of …
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Send us a text In this episode we dive into the deep-seated roots of socially prescribed perfectionism (SPP) and its profound impact on high achievers. Building on the discussion of Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACEs) from the previous episode, we explore how childhood trauma can instill a relentless drive for perfection. This pursuit often leads …
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Send us a text In this episode, I share the benefits of mindful walking and how it can help reduce stress and calm the nervous system. Building on the series about mindfulness practices, We look at how mindful walking, a form of moving meditation, can help release tension and bring us into the present moment. In this episode I provide practical tip…
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Send us a text In this episode we dive deep into the often unseen connection between childhood trauma and the drive to achieve. High achievers may find their identity wrapped in accomplishments, but those achievements often stem from adverse childhood experiences (ACEs). Together we explore how trauma shapes high achievers and how the pursuit of pe…
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Send us a text In today’s episode, I kick off a series on how mindfulness can help reduce stress and create more calm in our lives. We examine how mindfulness works as a tool to counteract the stress response and look at practical techniques to bring more mindfulness into your daily life. We also look at the science behind mindfulness, its effect o…
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Send us a text In this episode, I continue the series on becoming a healthy high achiever by discussing how you can start to rewrite your personal story. Many high achievers are driven by toxic narratives rooted in childhood wounds or past experiences, which can lead to burnout, anxiety, and unhealthy coping mechanisms. In this epidote we explore t…
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Send us a text In this episode of the Permission to Love podcast, I walkyou through a powerful exercise to challenge the limiting belief that you need to meet certain criteria to be worthy of love. As a part of the episode I guides you through four reflective questions that will help you uncover where these beliefs come from, how they affect you, a…
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Send us a text In this episode, we continue our series on "How to Be a Healthy High Achiever," and as we discuss the critical role that your inner narrative plays in shaping your life, especially as a high achiever. I share insights into how your core beliefs, formed by past experiences and the stories you've carried, are driving your behaviors, ca…
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Send us a text In this episode I dive into the crucial topic of empathy—how you can cultivate it and use it to deepen your connections and improve your mindset. Many people struggle to express empathy, but the truth is, empathy is a skill you can develop with intentional practice. In this episode, we explore five actionable steps you can take to be…
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Send us a text In this first episode of a brand-new series, I share how the powerful motivators that drive many high achievers, often leading to burnout, imposter syndrome, perfectionism, and workaholism. Learn how to embrace self-compassion, disconnect your self-worth from your achievements, and create a sustainable path to success. This episode s…
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Send us a text In this episode I share insights into one of the toughest challenges for high achievers: letting go of control. Many of us feel the need to control every outcome, situation, and person in our lives, which leads to exhaustion, anxiety, and burnout. Join me as I share how letting go of control can bring peace and allow space for creati…
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Send us a text In this episode I dive into a critical but often overlooked aspect of healing: intentional rest. While many of us push ourselves to constantly grow, improve, and heal, we rarely allow ourselves the time to rest and integrate those lessons. In this episode I share why rest is not only necessary but a key component of self-improvement …
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Send us a text In this episode we explore the power of positive affirmations. Do they really work? Yes, they do and in this episode I break down how affirmations can transform your mindset, beliefs, and life—if you apply the right techniques. I also share actionable steps to help you shift from negative self-talk to positive, self-empowering belief…
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Send us a text Episode Description: In today’s episode of the Permission to Love podcast, I dive into the transformative power of giving yourself permission to heal. If you’ve ever felt stuck, overwhelmed by shame, guilt, or an unhealed identity, this episode is for you. In this episode I explores the reasons why we often resist healing, how to ove…
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Send us a text Are you afraid of making changes in your life, even though you know they're necessary? In this episode I share how fear of change can keep you stuck in old patterns and how to move forward. Learn to shift your energy from fear to faith, visualize your success, and take small actionable steps to achieve the life you want. If you're re…
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Send us a text In this episode we dive into a topic that many of us struggle with: coping mechanisms. We all have different ways of managing our pain—whether it’s stress, difficult emotions, or past trauma. The problem is, sometimes the coping mechanisms we use to protect ourselves can end up causing even more pain in the long run. In this episode …
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Send us a text In this episode I’m sharing one of the most life-changing insights I’ve ever learned: You are not your thoughts. If you’ve ever felt trapped by negative self-talk, constantly worrying about the future, or ruminating on your past, I want you to know those thoughts don’t define you. For years, I believed my thoughts were true reflectio…
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Send us a text In this episode we explore the crucial role of resilience in enhancing our happiness and well-being. Delving into scientific research and practical strategies, we examine how resilience can be developed and how mindfulness practices and self-compassion play a key role in building it. Discover actionable tips to strengthen your resili…
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Send us a text Henry Ford said, “Whether you think you can or you think you can't, you're right.” In this episode, we dive into the foundational concept of mindset, exploring why it’s crucial for your personal growth and how it influences every aspect of your life. 🚀 We discuss the power of mindset and why a positive, growth-oriented mindset can tr…
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Send us a text In this episode, I explore how we can escape from the comparison trap and how it affects our overall well-being and happiness. If you find yourself constantly comparing your life, achievements, or self-worth to others, this episode is designed to help you break free from that cycle. We'll explore the essence of comparison, why it’s s…
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Send us a text In this episode, we look at the art of self-motivation and how to keep making progress toward the life you want. If you’ve ever struggled with maintaining motivation or felt stuck in your goals, this episode is for you! In This Episode: Understanding self-motivation and its importance in achieving your goals. How to overcome common b…
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Send us a text In this episode we explore the challenging topic of rumination—its definition, impact, and practical strategies for overcoming it. What You'll Learn: Understanding Rumination: Definition of rumination and its characteristics. How rumination differs from productive problem-solving. Psychological theories behind why we ruminate. Impact…
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Send us a text In this episode we dive into the transformative journey from a fixed to a growth mindset. Drawing from Carol Dweck's pioneering research, we explores how embracing challenges and learning from criticism can drastically enhance your personal and professional life. Key Insights: - Understand the defining features of fixed and growth mi…
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Send us a text In this episode of the Permission to Love podcast, we dive into the powerful link between practicing acts of kindness and overall happiness and well-being. Discover how simple acts of kindness can lead to profound changes in your life, reducing stress, anxiety, and even physical pain. In this episode I share compelling research, real…
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Send us a text Are you holding back from pursuing your dreams because you’re afraid you might fail or not be good enough? In this episode we dive into the fear of sucking at something new and how it stops you from living the life you truly want. Learn how to reframe failure, develop a growth mindset, and take actionable steps toward your goals. Whe…
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Send us a text In this episode we’re exploring the profound impact that gratitude can have on your overall happiness and well-being. Did you know that practicing gratitude can significantly boost your mood, help you cope with stress, and even improve your self-esteem? Learn how gratitude can shift your perspective, help you savor life's moments, an…
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Send us a text In this episode, we explore the powerful connection between our mind, emotions, and body, and how you can instantly boost your mood by changing your physiology. Whether you’re feeling unmotivated, down, or just in need of a quick pick-me-up, these three simple tips can help you shift into a better state of well-being. Discover how yo…
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Send us a text In this episode, we tackle the growing epidemic of negative thinking and how we can train ourselves to be more optimistic. If you’ve ever struggled with self-sabotage, imposter syndrome, or negative thinking patterns, this episode is for you. We’ll dive deep into the concept of learned optimism and explore practical steps you can tak…
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Send us a text In this episode we discuss the power of anchoring - a simple tool that you can use at any time to shift your emotional state and create positive emotions. Are you tired at being at the mercy of your emotions? Have you ever wished you could capture a joyful moment and relive it whenever you want? Anchoring can help you do just that. L…
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Send us a text In this episode we are diving deep into the topic of burnout and how to recover from it. If you're feeling overwhelmed, exhausted, and unsure if you'll ever get back to your normal self, this episode is for you. In this episode, I share my personal journey through burnout and how I've created a more fulfilling and balanced life on th…
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Send us a text What if one of the keys to transforming your life lies in the way you speak to yourself? Welcome to this Friday episode of the Permission to Love podcast, where we’re rolling out a concise and powerful format to transform your mindset and motivation for the weekend. Today, we dissect the compelling five-to-one ratio, uncovering how i…
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Send us a text In this episode we kick off an important series on burnout. We look at the signs and causes of burnout and discuss actionable steps to avoid it. We also look at the role that self-acceptance and prioritizing oneself has on preventing burnout, especially in our high-achieving, success-driven culture. Key Takeaways: Recognizing Burnout…
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Send us a text Are you carrying limiting beliefs that you feel like you will never be able to get rid of? Do you feel like you have tried everything to heal your limiting beliefs, but you keep having them pop up? Are you a high achiever, and are your limiting beliefs getting in the way of the life you truly want? If so, then this episode can help y…
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Send us a text Do you struggle to set meaningful boundaries in your life? Are you experiencing boundary fatigue? Do you feel like your nervous system is fighting you when you try to enforce your boundaries? Were you never taught how to set healthy boundaries. If you answered yes to these questions, you are not alone. Many of us struggle with settin…
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Send us a text Are we looking for happiness in the wrong places? What makes for a genuine and sustainable life of happiness. In this episode, we discuss the pursuit of happiness, the impact of trauma on happiness, and practical ways to enhance your happiness. We look at a number of research studies that have looked at the factors that increase happ…
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Send us a text Getting stuck on the healing journey is more common than you might think. It happens to all of us. So why do we get stuck and how do we get unstuck? In this episode of the Permission to Love Podcast we take a look at those questions as well as diving into the common experience of feeling stuck in the healing journey. We explore the i…
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Send us a text In this episode of the Permission to Love podcast, we dive deep into understanding and overcoming negative and intrusive thoughts. Discover how to transform your mind from being your master into being your servant and learn the practical tools to reprogram your thinking for a healthier and more fulfilling life. Key Topics: The functi…
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Send us a text Have you ever been confused about what love is? Do you struggle with being consistent with loving yourself and others. Have you always thought that love is simple a feeling? In this episode we also look at some of the misconceptions that we have about love, what love truly is, and how we can access our true nature of love. I hope in …
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Send us a text If you have been struggling to build self-confidence or wondering how to build self-confidence then this episode is for you. In this episode of the Permission to Love podcast we explode the concept of self-confidence, particularly for those who have experienced trauma. My hope is that you will find insights and practical steps on how…
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Send us a text In this episode, we dive into how to reprogram our limiting beliefs with the power of positive affirmations. Have you tried positive affirmations in the past and they haven’t seemed to work for you? Do you feel like it’s been impossible to let go of your limiting beliefs? In this episode, we discussed those questions and more. Discov…
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Send us a text Can radical self kindness be the key to your healing journey and if so, how do we practice it? In this episode, we celebrate one year of the Permission to Love podcast as well as discuss the practice of radical self-kindness, exploring why it's crucial for healing and self-love. Thank you for being a part of this podcast for the last…
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Send us a text Do I have to forgive someone in order to heal? I get that question a lot. In this episode I hope to provide some answers to that question as well as others. When we understand that forgiving someone is about us and not about the other person our entire perspective on the subject of forgiveness will dramatically shift. Forgiveness is …
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Send us a text Have you ever stood in the shadow of your own unmet potential, feeling the weight of the person you might have been if ltrauma hadn't left its mark? This is a reality many face, and in our latest podcast episode, we journey into the process of grieving what trauma stole from us as a way to journey into deeper healing. Together, we co…
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Send us a text In this episode we discuss how to discover the transformative power of the present moment to heal your relationship with yourself and how being present can help heal your nervous system. Whether you struggle with being present, feel overwhelmed by life's demands, or seek escape through distractions, this episode is tailored to guide …
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Send us a text There is a place where you can fully accept yourself and have your self-development/self-improvement come from the place of self-acceptance. Self-acceptance is a much more healthy and powerful energy to come from as we work to improve ourselves. Have you ever struggled with being on a never ending treadmill of self-development. Would…
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Send us a text Do you always feel like you need to fix yourself? Do you feel like there is something wrong with you, and if you just keep working on yourself, then you will finally feel "normal" and be able to accept yourself? The feeling that we need to fix ourselves is often a response to trauma and something we developed as a way to stay safe. I…
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Send us a text Have you ever felt like you are chasing after trying to be normal? Do you carry a nagging feeling that there is something wrong with you? Are you always looking for something in your life that needs to be fixed? I carried that feeling for over 40 years, and in this episode, I share how I got rid of those thoughts and feelings. This e…
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