EP 20: RUN FAST AND AWAY FROM FLYING MONKEYS

The Zainab Kanu Show

FLYING MONKEY: A narc tools for the smear campaign. A flying monkey is someone who does the narcissist’s bidding to inflict additional torment to the narcissist’s victim. Such behaviors include but are not limited to: spreading gossip, threatening, painting the narc as a victim, and the target as a perpetrator.

Some of the flying monkeys are family members, friends, etc

• SO this is why mothers separate the kids! She does not want them to form an alliance against her. She does not want them to develop strength. She had to separate them. Using kids against other kids.
• THE GOLDEN CHILD (is favored or held in high esteem by others) VS SCAPE GOAT (a person who is blamed for the wrong things) in the bible, a scapegoat is an animal that is ritually burden with the sins of others and then driven away)
• Did you know the flying monkey term came from the wizard of oz. when the witch will send the monkeys to do her evil work. Who knew.
• A flying monkey is preselected, they same way you were selected as a victim.
• Narc are experts in reading people and they know who will make an easy target and a puppet.
• Some flying monkeys are narcs that are lesser narc, or sometimes people who are just too gullible, easily influenced, low self-esteem.
• Be aware of a flying monkey
• They can ruin you twice as fast
• Protect yourself. Put yourself on guard!
• Cut them off! They are everywhere and very dangerous!
• Flying monkeys are everywhere
• You will have them at work, church, in a group of friends, social gathering etc. an example will be, you are working someone, you criticize how someone works, instead them taking ownership, they start to talk about you to other co-workers making you feel bad, because the co-workers then become flying monkeys and passively or indirectly start to do their bidding for them.

When you stand up:

• Be prepared to hear all sorts of statements of defense and denial. Keep in mind that the narc does not allow input. They have made up their mind and they have their own sense of reality
• Make sure you are willing to pay the price. It could be very high. Possible rejection, disbar,
• Make sure you are willing to be consistently assertive. Not in a rude way. Not in a rude way, nasty way, or aggressively angry. Its being loyal to your values with respect and firmness.
• Make sure you have a high commitment to your own authenticity. Meaning know who you are, and where you are trying to go. Commit to being authentic internally and externally. This will lead you to your freedom. You get to be you and think for yourself.

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