The Communication Code with Jeremie Kubicek

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Best-selling author Jeremie Kubicek joins us to discuss his upcoming book "The Communication Code."

Jeremie explains the importance of effective communication in relationships, introducing the concept of a communication code consisting of five words that represent different communication needs.

We need to understand and meet expectations in relationships, and a custom communication code can improve communication, trust, and influence.

Show Outline

The importance of intros and outros (2:28)

Jeremie discusses the significance of intros and outros in influencing others and leaving a positive impression.

The impact of past behavior on present relationships (5:22)

Jeremie emphasizes the importance of addressing past behavior and apologizing for any negative impact it may have had on current relationships.

The disconnect between intent and perception (7:26)

Jeremie explores the mismatch that can occur between a person's intentions and how others perceive their words or actions.

Intentions and Expectations (7:38)

Explain how intentions and expectations are tied together and how missed expectations can lead to relational drama.

Unrealistic Expectations (8:35)

Discuss the need for realistic expectations in relationships and how unmet expectations can lead to resigned expectations.

What is The Communication Code? (10:11)

Introduce the concept of the communication code, which is a tool to help understand and meet the expectations of others in relationships.

Miscommunication with Steve (16:17)

Jeremie shares an experience where he and Steve had a miscommunication about a business deal, leading to an argument, and they realized the need for better communication.

Creating the Communication Code (19:02)

After the argument with Steve, Jeremie and Steve created the Communication Code to clarify expectations and avoid miscommunication in their relationship.

The code words and their meanings (23:09)

Explanation of the five code words: care, celebrate, clarify, collaborate, and critique, and their different meanings and applications in communication.

The importance of care (23:09)

Discussion on the significance of caring in relationships, understanding the needs of others, and providing a safe space for communication.

The process of clarifying and collaborating (24:53)

Explanation of the importance of clarifying information before collaboration and critique and the difference between collaboration and critique in the communication code.

The Importance of Trying Something New (29:41)

Highlighting the need to try something new instead of repeating the same patterns and expecting different results.

How to Interact with the Book and Improve Relationships (30:13)

Jeremie encourages readers to have a book buddy, take notes, and focus on specific chapters based on their relationship needs.

Links from the Show

• Take the Communication Code Assessment
• Buy the Book on Amazon (affiliate link)
• Connect with Jeremie on LinkedIn

Episode 53 - Full Transcript

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