Fathering from Forgiveness | Episode 003

The Damn Good Dad Podcast

In this episode, Grant reflects on his relationship with his father and how it has shaped his journey into fatherhood. He discusses the scars left by his father's absence and the impact it has had on his self-confidence and determination. Grant shares his belief that these scars, while reminders of past pain, have also served as guiding lights, showing him the kind of father he wants to be and the pitfalls he wants to avoid. He shares his commitment to breaking generational patterns and creating a different, more present, and involved fatherhood experience for his own child.

Show Notes:

• Introduction:
• Grant introduces the episode's theme of "Fathering and Forgiveness," reflecting on his own experiences growing up without a father figure.
• Discussion on Scars:
• Grant compares his emotional scars to physical scars, acknowledging that while they may never fully heal, they serve as reminders of where he's been and where he's going.
• He shares how his scars have motivated him to be a different kind of father and break the cycle of absenteeism in his family.
• Fatherhood Journey:
• Grant discusses his upcoming journey into fatherhood, expressing excitement and a sense of responsibility to be present and involved.
• He reflects on his own father's absence and the impact it had on his self-confidence and emotional well-being.
• Healing and Forgiveness:
• Grant talks about his journey towards healing and forgiveness, acknowledging that while he may never fully forgive his father, he has learned to understand and accept the past.
• He shares his commitment to not letting his own scars dictate his fatherhood experience and to create a different narrative for his child.
• Conclusion:
• Grant concludes by emphasizing the importance of self-awareness and reflection in breaking generational patterns and becoming the father he wants to be.
• He expresses hope for the future and a desire to create a loving and supportive environment for his child.

Resources Mentioned:

• Avatar: The Last Airbender - Link to Show