What's really happening when you're being judgmental??

The Steph & Craig Show

Are you the type of person who often finds yourself being judgmental of your partner? Or perhaps overly critical of the world around you?

In today’s episode, Steph and Craig delve into the difference between healthy discernment and judgment. They explore how your responses often come from an activated place when you're judging or criticizing and you're usually guilty of the same things you're judging.

Steph shares a recent, eye-opening experience where she realized she was guilty of the very behavior she was judging in others. Together, they examine the roles of shame, avoidance, and deflection in your behaviors, and discuss the importance of taking responsibility for your actions and sitting with the discomfort of your mistakes.

The conversation highlights the necessity of addressing judgment in relationships and its impact on personal growth. Steph and Craig touch on the influence of childhood experiences and how shame shapes behavior.

Ultimately, they emphasize the importance of self-awareness and the willingness to confront and heal from judgment and shame.

Tune in to gain valuable insights into managing criticism, fostering healthier relationships, and enhancing your personal growth journey.

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Disclaimer:

We’re just sharing our journey with you. We’re not licensed therapists, and this podcast is NOT intended as a substitute for the advice of a physician, professional coach, psychotherapist, or other qualified professional. Cool? Good deal. We’ll see you soon.

In this episode:

00:00 The Dance of Judgment in Relationships

03:28 Differentiating Between Judgment and Discernment

08:01 Recognizing the Reflection in External Judgment

13:15 The Role of Fear and Shame in Judgment

37:06 Exploring the Manifestations of Judgment

38:00 Taking Responsibility and Confronting Mistakes

41:43 Addressing Judgment in Relationships

44:23 The Influence of Childhood Experiences

50:15 The Importance of Self-Awareness and Healing

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