053: Transforming Disruptive Behaviors into Positive Change

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Workplace conflict is inevitable, but it doesn’t always have to be negative. When employees struggle to get along, should you step in as a leader, give them space, or let them navigate the issue themselves? Grab your pen and paper, and learn how to transform disruptive behaviors into opportunities for growth and positive change.

1. Sometimes, the best thing you can do is let your employees resolve conflicts on their own. By doing so, you foster their growth both professionally and personally. Rather than jumping in to mediate, provide them with the tools they need to manage the issue themselves. In doing this, you empower them to solve problems, even when you’re not there.

2. The “Negative Nellies” who find fault in everything can wear down team collaboration and morale. Though you may hesitate to confront negativity, it’s crucial to do so. If left unchecked, this behavior signals to other employees that you, as a leader, are unwilling to address problems, which can lead to a toxic environment that stifles creativity and positivity. Often, these individuals challenge you as a leader to see if you’ll step up. To maintain peace and balance, it’s essential to address the issue directly and lead by example.

3. Silent saboteurs are those employees who appear agreeable during meetings but then undermine plans by missing deadlines, ignoring feedback, or submitting half-finished projects. They may quietly challenge your authority, but your team notices the disruption. Confronting passive resistance can be tough, but clarity is key. Ensure that these employees know their deadlines, check in regularly on their progress, and when they accuse you of micromanaging, calmly point out their recent behavior and its impact on the team.

4. Overtalkers dominate conversations, steering discussions toward their own agendas and preventing others from sharing their ideas. This can cause the rest of the team to withdraw and stop contributing. To manage this, speak up and remind the overtalker that everyone’s voice matters. Some employees may need more time to process before sharing their thoughts, and it’s important to create space for those diverse perspectives. Without this balance, collaboration falters.

5. Cliquish collaborators form exclusive groups that gossip, create division, and foster a toxic workplace. As a leader, you might avoid addressing this behavior because you want to be liked, but that shouldn’t be your goal. Instead, prioritize fostering an inclusive and healthy team dynamic. Be direct in addressing the cliques and the disruptive behaviors they create, ensuring everyone feels included and valued.

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