If You Don't Have Nothing Nice To Say.... feat. Carla Wilmaris | Bonus Episode

Selective Ignorance with Mandii B

In this bonus episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B is joined by friend of the show Carla Wilmaris for a raw and thought-provoking conversation about abortion, parenting, relationships, and the cultural pressures that shape these decisions. The episode opens with [00:00] an introduction and book promotion, before shifting to [01:51] current events and personal opinions that set the stage for a deeper dive.

The hosts candidly address [04:57] abortion views and personal experiences, unpacking the stigma, complexities, and emotional realities of reproductive choices. From there, the discussion moves into [11:31] conversations around unprotected sex, highlighting the societal double standards and consequences that follow.

Celebrity culture enters the spotlight at [18:35] as Mandii and Carla react to Cardi B’s pregnancy controversy, examining how fame magnifies judgment and public opinion. This naturally leads to [26:23] judgment and parenting decisions, exploring how money, career, and outside scrutiny impact motherhood. The conversation then pivots to [29:05] the balancing act of motherhood and career, reflecting on how women navigate personal growth and societal expectations.

By [31:29], the dialogue shifts to relationships and their role in shaping personal growth, followed by [33:27] navigating time and life decisions that often come with compromise and sacrifice. The tension between [36:47] judgment vs. support in friendships takes center stage, where both hosts explore how empathy, communication, and honesty can either build or break trust.

The episode doesn’t shy away from the consequences of choices, unpacking [39:37] the fallout of poor decisions and [42:54] the power of empathy in communication. At [47:11], they expand the conversation to judgment in public life, connecting personal stories to the broader cultural dialogue. Finally, the episode closes at [57:39] with thoughts on growth, understanding, and self-reflection, leaving listeners with the encouragement to reconsider how judgment, support, and experience shape their own views.

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