Leadership Book Club: The Coaching Habit by Michael Bungay Stanier

Love and Leadership

Kristen and Mike dive into The Coaching Habit by Michael Bungay Stanier, a book that's transforming how leaders approach coaching. They unpack the seven essential questions that can revolutionize your leadership style, making you more effective and less overwhelmed. From learning to tame your "advice monster" to understanding the neuroscience behind great coaching, this episode is packed with practical insights. Whether you're drowning in an over-dependent team or struggling to focus on what really matters, Kristen and Mike offer a fresh perspective on how to lead with curiosity and empower your team. Plus, they share personal anecdotes and challenges in implementing these techniques, making the journey to better leadership both relatable and achievable.

Highlights:

• Introduction to The Coaching Habit and its impact on leadership at all levels
• The importance of asking "What's on your mind?" to start meaningful conversations
• Using "And what else?" to dive deeper and generate more options
• Focusing on "What's the real challenge here for you?" to address core issues
• The power of "What do you want?" in increasing autonomy and trust
• How "How can I help?" can prevent micromanagement and create clarity
• Understanding trade-offs with "If you're saying yes to this, what are you saying no to?"
• The significance of reflection with "What was most useful for you?"
• Discussion on the neuroscience behind effective coaching techniques
• Personal insights from Kristen and Mike on implementing coaching habits in their lives

Links & Resources Mentioned:

• The Coaching Habit by Michael Bungay Stanier
• Box of Crayons (Michael Bungay Stanier's learning and development company)
• Atomic Habits by James Clear
• The Power of Habit by Charles Duhigg
• Make It Stick by Peter C. Brown, Henry L. Roediger, III, and Mark A. McDaniel
• The HeART of Laser-Focused Coaching by Marianne Franklin
• Chill and Prosper by Denise Duffield Thomas

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