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Divine Union™ is a place that will invite you to deeply connect to life in all the ways: inner union with self, sacred union in relationship, and oneness with the cosmos. From the workplace to the bedroom, the mental to the spiritual, the dark to the light. We will cover topics like sexuality, how to build intimacy, masculine and feminine energies, kink, human relating, passion, polarity, spirituality, human psychology, and more. These conversations are aimed at helping you explore and unloc ...
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For this week, Nicola provides a transmission to help you re-align to your purpose and mission on earth and to bring greater presence to the behaviors that get in your way of leading yourself toward your greatest goals and desires as it relates to your professional development and career growth. Get in a comfortable place where you can sit in medit…
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In this episode of The Divine Union Podcast, Nicola welcomes Jade Chung, a Women's Mentor and Somatic Art Therapist. Jade fuses multiple disciplines into an integrative healing modality she calls somatic artistry to help women process trauma, shift belief systems, and transform their lives in a creative, expansive, playful way. Nicola and Jade dive…
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The Venus principle and Mars principle can often feel like they’re at odds in relationship, although they don’t have to be. It just takes understanding how to bridge the gap. Often the Venus principle can overwhelm Mars when it comes to intimacy. The Mars principle can often overwhelm Venus with primal energy and she years to feel more heart and de…
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In this spicy episode, we dive into the heart of intimacy and passion and explore how to break free from relationship monotony and bring back that fiery connection and deep desire. Nicola shares insights on the value of novelty, the appeal of sovereignty, and how polarity fuels attraction. Whether reigniting passion in the bedroom or bringing new e…
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In today’s episode, Nicola sits down with Alex Terranova to discuss his journey of re-discovering his masculinity, and how you can too if you’re yearning for a deeper sense of fulfillment and purpose. Alex is a successful entrepreneur, Retreat Founder, Business & Leadership Coach, and 3x author whom Yahoo Finance dubbed "The Anti-Excuses Coach." Al…
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When we operate in flow with life, things feel more easeful. The Universe is always guiding us to our highest timeline, and the key is expanding ourselves to receive and be open to the signs. In today's episode, Nicola shares about her travels this past month and her challenges and moments of synchronicity that led her through the darkness back int…
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Mastering your communication is an essential element in cultivating deep intimacy. In today’s episode of Divine Union, Nicola speaks to different aspects of communication and how you can use them to enhance the intimacy in your relationships and for greater fulfillment, authenticity, and joy. 0:00 Intro 1:33 The Intricacies of Communication 5:18 Bu…
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Discover the key reasons why your masculine and feminine energies might be out of sync and how this imbalance affects your relationships, career, and personal growth. In this episode, Nicola dives into the intricacies of balancing these energies to enhance passion, intimacy, and purpose in life. Whether you’re feeling too far in your feminine, stru…
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In this episode, we dive into four key reasons why your relationship might feel out of sync. Discover how the balance of masculine and feminine energies can impact your connection, and learn how to realign for deeper intimacy and harmony. 0:00 Intro 1:52 Something Left to Be Desired 5:00 Feminine Energy And Roommate Dynamics 7:19 Doer Mode, Tension…
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In this episode of the Divine Union podcast, we dive deep into how sovereignty plays a crucial role in reigniting passion and maintaining polarity in relationships. Whether you're looking to deepen intimacy, rediscover the spark, or simply find balance, this episode will guide you through actionable insights. Learn about the importance of sovereign…
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The only constant in life is change, yet being in the unknown is so difficult for humanity. It causes so much angst and anxiety when we meet situations that force us to relinquish control and ultimately trust in the divine order of life. In today’s episode, Nicola breaks down how you can more easily flow in life and love without losing your power, …
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Fear of Rejection is such a common feeling that can stop you from allowing yourself to fully be seen. Conflict and tension can get a bad rap, and you might fear it will diminish the intimacy, when in fact it's the opposite (when navigated with respect, vulnerability, and effective communication). In today’s episode of Divine Union Podcast, we dig i…
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Codependence is the most common phenomenon we experience as humans. We attach our worth and value to so many things outside of ourselves. Our partners, a way of being, our work, body, friends. The list goes on. We are conditioned out of our wholeness, our divinity, our sovereignty which contributes to this longing to become completed by way of unio…
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What is life worth living when we aren't authentic? What is the point of life when we are not true to who we are and giving the world, our lovers, our friends, and our family the gift of our unique expression? In today's episode of Divine Union, Nicola speaks to the power of authenticity for intimacy and relating. Not just with lovers, but with fri…
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When you are balanced with your masculine and feminine energies, you are more easeful in life. You feel more grounded and centered within yourself, you are more connected to the world around you, and your sense of flow and surrender within it. You stop trying to grip onto control of others, and situations outside of yourself, and you start becoming…
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When a relationship has a secure attachment, it impacts the quality of life of both parties significantly. In today’s episode, Nicola builds a bridge between attachment styles and masculine and feminine energies and gives you a new lens to understand this topic, as well as to help you understand why you need to work with your energies to rewire you…
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When a couple is in a space of true collaboration and interdependence, the relationship reaches a new level of depth. Mutual support, mutual admiration, and mutual enamorment take place. The passion is fiery, the intimacy is expansive, and both parties feel secure and supported to thrive in so many areas of their life, aside from the relationship i…
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Passion can often feel like a dirty word to people. We have been conditioned to think passion and intimacy are at odds. That you can either have passion or you have intimacy, and that’s it’s difficult to have both. In fact, for deep intimacy to thrive, it needs passion. Passion fuels desire and without desire, the relationship stagnates and becomes…
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067: The Feminine Distrust of the Masculine and How to Cultivate Safety Within the Relationship
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The feminine distrust of the masculine is an energy that is prevalent in our society. It comes from many external and internal forces that have shaped this perspective and experience, for many women in today’s world. In this week’s Episode of Divine Union, Nicola breaks down this dynamic and speaks to where it comes from, why it happens, and what y…
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The desire to feel seen is something we all crave deeply. It is especially heightened when it comes to romantic relationships, yet this wound sources back to early childhood. When you don’t feel seen by your partner, it can affect your self-esteem, confidence, and fulfillment within relationship. This is why understanding the origins of this wound,…
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Your attachment style is created in early childhood. The way you learn to attach to your early caregivers mirrors how you attach to your romantic partners. Understanding your attachment style is very helpful for your relationship empowerment and satisfaction, because when you understand where you came from, how you’re triggered, and the meaning you…
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The biggest constant in life is change, yet as humans, we suffer as we attach to people, places, and things. We cling to a specific way of being, our beliefs about ourselves, our lovers, and what a “normal” relationship looks like. We forget that as humans on this planet, we are constantly growing and evolving, as are our partners, our relationship…
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If we want to have intimacy, desire, and passion that stand the test of time, understanding the principles behind polarity and magnetic attraction and how to cultivate it, is essential. Oftentimes, in a relationship, we romanticize the light parts while neglecting the darker aspects of relating, that contribute to the polarity and magnetism to begi…
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Our society sexualizes women at a young age and we idealize innocence, agreeableness, and being a “good girl.” Due to our patriarchal system and conditioning, many older women, lose their vibrancy and playful innocence to survive in an environment that favors an unhealthy wounded masculine way of being. This system influences how we view traditiona…
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Today on Divine Union, we explore the Mother Wound, and the historical influences contributing to this wound, as well as some different ways it can manifest when you don’t consciously do work to bring it to the light and heal it within. Nicola speaks to why many women may not feel fully safe to express themselves freely, and why they may feel disco…
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The Father Wound is something many experience as a result of an absent, emotionally unavailable, abusive, or unconscious father. These dynamics are very common, and a product of the system at large - a result of societal conditioning and misrepresentations of what healthy masculine energy looks and feels like. Thus, it is a topic that must be recei…
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Passion and safety often end up at odds. This is due to societal conditioning around the terms and misconceptions as to how to create passion that feels fulfilling and enlivening versus draining. In today’s episode, Nicola shares some insight that will help you cultivate passion in healthy ways, regardless of the length of time you’ve been in a rel…
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Conflict is such a powerful tool for relationships. It can be used to enliven the relationship, and deepen in intimacy, or it can be used to damage it, if not navigated skillfully. In today’s episode, Nicola discusses how you can release the initial charge around your triggers, in order to express them in playful textured ways, likely to enhance th…
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Relationships are our biggest source of growth, and of fulfillment, when we can properly nurture them. How a couple navigates conflict, can make or break the relationship, thus it is important if you want to thrive as a coupledom, to work on the conflict management piece. In today’s episode, Nicola shares her top 3 areas to work on for navigating c…
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In today’s episode of Divine Union, Nicola shares her perspective on what true intimacy really means. She speaks to common misconceptions and provides detailed examples of what it looks like to share authentically and vulnerably with another. To allow yourself to truly be seen by another. She shares her best-kept secret of what is required to actua…
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Communication is so much more than words. Your way of communicating is tied to the frequency you emanate. The words you use, your non verbal cues like tone, speed, pauses, and cadence of voice, as well as your body language and orientation. In today’s episode, Nicola discusses the subtleties of the different kinds of communication we engage in, and…
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How you relate to your pleasure says a lot about how you communicate and relate with others. The more you allow yourself to be in your body with presence and slowness, the greater capacity for sensitivity you will have when it comes to relating with others. This is but one of the many parallels you can find between pleasure and communication. In to…
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Today, Nicola sits down with Binta Rosadore, artist, published author, rose priestess, quantum ceremonialist, bilingual podcast host, founder of le Temple de la Rose Dorée, and last but not least, death doula, to discuss all things death. A topic many shy away from, yet one that is an integral element of our lives, and a fascinating one. They dive …
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Self-pleasure is essential if we want to maintain our connection to ourselves as sensual and sexual beings. Our sexuality and sensuality are tied to our identity as individuals, so having the spaciousness to connect to ourselves, while being in a relationship is important for our sovereignty and our empowerment. Additionally, it brings us back into…
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As humans, we all deeply desire to feel a sense of belonging. So much so as humans our egos create identifiers and groups to create this sense of belonging when in reality the fact that we are breathing and living on this planet should be enough of a reason to “belong”. We have all felt isolated, and have consciously or unconsciously contributed to…
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Codependence is something we all face in some way, and the urge to merge, especially in romantic relationships is very difficult to resist. In today’s episode, Nicola discusses these dynamics, where they come from, how they can manifest, and what you can do to have greater sovereignty when you are in relationship. She speaks to masculine and femini…
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Manifesting abundance is something we all deeply desire, yet an area that many of us have blocks around. In today's episode of Divine Union, I sit down with Autumn Richardson, Manifestation and Energy Coach who empowers women to own their Magick & live a life of wild freedom. Autumn is a living embodiment of her work, after 5X her income in 2023 an…
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In today’s episode of Divine Union, Nicola breaks down some cultural influences on the “Daddy” phenomenon. We discuss why many women seek “Daddy” energy in their partners as a result of not feeling seen, cared for, or tended to by their fathers. We look at the roles the family unit, societal conditioning, and the wounded masculine play in these dyn…
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We all deserve to have all that we desire in life. Our relationships are our biggest sources of fulfillment, of growth, and our biggest teachers, so learning how to get exactly what we want and need is essential for our happiness and health. In today’s episode, Nicola discusses the most essential ingredient to master, so you can get what you want. …
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Working with your energy and your physical body is essential if you want to unlock the full radiance of your being. Our bodies speak with so much more truth than our words do. Radiance is an energy. It's your aura. It has nothing to do with your looks, what you wear, or what you say. In today’s Episode of Divine Union, Nicola discusses what it can …
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The greater awareness and sensitivity you have with your body, the greater your capacity for intimacy and relating you can have. Our bodies are tremendously powerful indicators of our emotional and physical well-being, and level of comfort and discomfort in a given moment, situation, or around certain people. The more in tune we are with our bodies…
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Self-pleasure is such a potent way to liberate your body of stagnant energy. It can heal traumas, help you tap into the subconscious, manifest your dreams, and access deep states of bliss and oneness with the world. In today’s extraordinary episode, Nicola speaks to the power of self-pleasure, and how you can work with your pleasure for healing on …
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If you want to fully thrive in life with vibrancy and aliveness learning how to bring humor and play into your relating is essential. Not only does it help with passion and intimacy but it helps you maintain your confidence and joy and solve challenges in business and other areas of life. In today’s episode, we dig into some tangible ways to levera…
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In today’s society, many men are disconnected from their primal energy. This is due to conditioning and confusion around the wounded masculine versus a man connected to his sensuality. Many men also fear being out of control when they connect to the primal and not being able to control their desire, as well as fear the destructive nature of this en…
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Relationships are our biggest source of fulfillment and growth. Relationships are our biggest source of fulfillment and growth. When they are good, they have the potential to deeply enliven and inspire us. To push us to greatness, to fully thrive in life. When they are toxic or draining, they have the potential to negatively impact our well-being a…
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The difference between ravishment and taking is a very subtle, fine line. It comes down to a difference of intention and energy, and in this episode, Nicola breaks it down so you can understand these subtleties in more tangible terms and learn how to have more fulfilling sex. She also discusses the role societal conditioning plays in sexual dynamic…
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Communication is how we relate to other beings, it's the medium through which we share ourselves with the world, with our friends, family, and lovers. On today’s episode of Divine Union Nicola discusses some key areas to explore and hone, if you want to truly communicate persuasively, and that leaves people feeling inspired and energized. We dive i…
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When you are not tangible and clear about your desires, it makes it difficult for your partner to fulfill them. Being clear on what you want and how you want it is essential for effective communication. In today's episode of Divine Union, Nicola gives you some prompts for reflection and a multitude of examples as to how you can be more concrete wit…
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Dimming your sexual energy and aliveness is something you never want to do. It is tied to your confidence in yourself, and your identity as a husband, wife, or lover. In today’s episode of Divine Union, Nicola Shares some insights as to why many couples fall into this trap of dimming their sexual energy during conflict, and what you can do to shift…
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Humor and playfulness are incredibly potent ways to work through relational challenges and conflict. It takes the heaviness and seriousness out of relating and makes things so much more fun and alive. Your relationships become a playground for wild expression. Now this is not to say never to be serious, there is a time for that. But the gift of thi…
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