The Side Jawn - Yesterday's Wife is Not Today's Wife

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Season 2 Episode 6: Yesterday's Wife is not Todays Wife Welcome to The Side Jawn, I am your host Dennis the Ingnoranthinkerspodcast Holmes. I'm here with my co-host Sharon the Chocolate Girrrrrrrrrrrrrrrl! Today we have a quest on the show Len Sturdivant The Relationship Coach Dennis, Sharon and talk about their week What kind of Relationship Coach are you?? How did you get started?? Do you have group sessions?? Where are u located??? Communication is one of the things I need help with how could u improve that??? Dear Side Jawn Help me out I’m the General Manager at my job. I recently hired an former female classmate from high school. She’s engaged to a guy that grew up with me and was one of my big brothers best friends. She’s been with the company for 5 months now. Well, last week her fiancé deleted me off of every social media (we been friends over 10yrs on social media)! A few days later he requested to follow me again. Right, I said WTH, what kind of high school games he’s playing too... He stopped coming in the job and would meet her outside. So I approached him the other day and asked what the hell going on! He said “aww man I been going through a lot and had to go to the doctor to get medicine to keep me from going off the deep end!” So I’m puzzled bc that still isn’t a legitimate reason to be so petty on social media. Well, after that conversation we shook hands and kept it moving. Well, guess who shows up at the job today and came in, right him! The vibe was weird so as he left I asked the female what was the real reason for him doing what he did. So she says I’ll tell you but you can’t tell him I told you bc he asked me not to tell you... WTF really? So I’m really confused now, so she proceeded to say that he think we have something going on! (Mind blown like WTF)! I wouldn’t mix business with pleasure and besides I’m happily married! Now my question is do I tell my wife? I know if I do she is going to start wondering what the hell also. She knows him well also bc we all went to school together and she is going to ask both of them what’s going on! I’m puzzled about the whole situation. What should I Do???? Dear Side Jawn My husband loves me... we have an unbreakable friendship & family but he doesn't "want me" he's definitely not cheating but he claims he doesn't want "it" at all. He pleases himself, and wasn't like this in the beginning. He swears up & down it's not me & I have nothing to change. I can't lose my soul mate, and our family but I'm about to emotionally die without the intimacy he's depriving me of. After several times communicating about this he does not understand the emotion of where I'm coming from at all and will demean the intimacy I crave as just "f**king" Any advice? Dennis asks everyone for final thoughts and gives his, thanks the people and closes the show. Thank you for Listening make sure you go like and subscribe to all podcast platforms. We are also on YouTube, Instagram, Facebook and Twitter on @Ignoranthinkerspodcast click the link in bio --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/dennis-holmes/support