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Spirituality Matters with Rev Karla is a podcast for the spiritual-but-not-religious. Rev Karla is an ordained interfaith minister, a writer, and a spiritual teacher and mentor. She explores topics from healing religious trauma and helping individuals explore, embrace, and expand their spiritual-but-not-religious journeys, while connecting to the Divine through sacred soul work. For more resources and support along your spiritual journey → https://www.revkarla.com
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2023 was a year filled with its share of challenges and surprises. I've titled our last teaching of the year: “Spiritual Reset,” drawing inspiration from some of my past writings and experiences, and I am sharing this teaching on my Podcast. In this teaching, I invite you to join me in reflecting on the significant moments of 2023 and how they've s…
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Rev Karla's new podcast titled: "A Practical Spirituality: Finding Holy in Your Everyday," helps those seeking a deeper connection to their spirituality beyond the confines of traditional religious institutions. Rev Karla begins by sharing her personal experiences and insights on leaving the church and beginning a path of practical spirituality. Sh…
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In this episode, Rev Karla discuss the intricate layers of grief. Grief isn't a one-size-fits-all process; it's a lifelong journey that impacts us all at some point. It's not just about losing a loved one; it can be triggered by various life events, from relationship endings to significant societal shifts. Rev Karla challenges the traditional "five…
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In this special podcast episode we are sharing a Sunday teaching from Rev Karla exploring the sacredness of the holiday season. December holds a multitude of holy days, not just for Christians, but for all of humanity. As we enter this busy season, it's crucial to prioritize self-care and pause to find the sacredness in the small moments. Sundays w…
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Spirituality Matters is a podcast hosted by Rev Karla that explores the intersection of spirituality and humanity. In this episode, titled "Authentic Gratitude | 10 Ways for Gratitude to Meet Us Right Where We Are," she addresses how gratitude has been misused in various contexts, and how many of us have been indoctrinated to see gratitude as a sor…
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Rev Karla Answers Your Questions Part #9 | Diverse Spiritual Paths and Navigating Post-Deconstruction Challenges
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In this special Q&A podcast episode, Rev Karla answers these questions from her audience: As a Gay Christian, it is both a relief and confusing because it’s all I’ve ever know. Do you think Jesus will ever return? And what about a new Earth? Can you do a series about interacting with others post-deconstruction? Like when to discuss and when not to,…
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Whose Land Do You Stand Upon?| 8 Ways to Blend Your Sacred Activism with Your Spirituality and Help Deconstruct Toxic Ideologies
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In this podcast episode titled, "Whose Land Do You Stand Upon? Eight Ways to Blend Your Sacred Activism with Your Spirituality and Help Deconstruct Toxic Ideologies," Rev Karla begins by reflecting on the false narratives and indoctrination prevalent during her upbringing in the 1960s, particularly regarding the Thanksgiving story and the mistreatm…
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In this special podcast episode, enjoy a segment of Sundays with Rev Karla exploring the theme of "Honoring What Was" as we approach the holiday season. Rev Karla discusses All Saints Day, All Souls Day, and what it means to dread the holidays because of grief and sorrow and how you can set boundaries for yourself. She discusses how traditional rel…
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Rev Karla Answers Your Questions Part #8 | Unraveling Fear-Based Theology, Navigating Spiritual Identity, and Finding Community Amidst Deconstructing from Religion
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In our latest Q&A series, Rev Karla answers your questions: 1. "Can you please talk about when people use an event like the wildfires and smoke to claim the scary apocalypse stuff and how do you finally free yourself from that?"2. "How do you free yourself from the concept of hell?"3. "In year four of deconstruction and doing much better, is it wei…
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You Disgust Me | Seven Ways Women Disparage Other Women and Seven Ways to Respond to Their Internalized Misogyny
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In this episode of "Spirituality Matters," Rev Karla addresses the often-unspoken issue of women perpetuating patriarchy and the internalized misogyny that comes with it. Drawing from her personal experiences and observations, she sheds light on how women, at times, unknowingly uphold societal norms that suppress them. From confrontations on social…
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Rev Karla Answers Your Questions Part #7 | Understanding Atheism, the Essence of Forgiveness, and Secular Recovery
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In this special Part #7 Q&A episode, Rev Karla answers your personal questions: How do you feel about atheism? Can you talk about forgiveness? I’ve tried AA so many times but they rely so heavily on trusting a higher power. Any advice for someone struggling with the same question? You can listen to this podcast on all streaming platforms, read the …
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In this episode, Rev Karla discusses the transformative journey of deconstructing and it's role in discovering a more authentic spiritual path. If you've ever questioned your spiritual identity or felt a void without it, this episode is for you. We'll explore the significance of peeling away layers of indoctrination, the challenges of navigating th…
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In this episode, Rev Karla discusses finding gratitude in the grief and sadness of walking someone home at the end of life. Inspired by a moving encounter with an elderly woman, we explore how embracing gratitude can bring greater happiness, interconnectedness, and spiritual growth.She'll share these 5 practical ways to cultivate gratitude, while u…
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Rev Karla Answers Your Questions Part #6 | Exploring Spirituality, LGBTQIA+ Inclusion, and Challenging Toxic Beliefs
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In this special podcast episode, Rev Karla answers these questions from her audience: Question #1: “I have a question for you. Tell me if I am out of line. Do you still believe in God? Jesus? No judgment for me. I am on my own spiritual journey at the moment.”Question #2: “All my life I was taught that homosexuals go to hell. Can you please make a …
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In this new podcast, Rev Karla explores the profound concept of leading with love in every aspect of life. She recently was a guest on Jalon Johnson's podcast, Not Your Ordinary Parts. During their time together, Jalon made this impactful comment, "I just want to lead with love," which is the inspiration for this podcast. Rev Karla discusses quotes…
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In this episode, Rev Karla discusses the destructive nature of toxic positivity and the impact of focusing on salvation and the afterlife rather than being present and addressing real human challenges. Toxic positivity, denies our genuine human emotions, diminishing the richness of our existence. While optimism is invaluable, true growth often emer…
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Spirituality Light? How About Spirituality Done Right?! | 5 Reasons Spiritual but Not Religious is a Sacred Path
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In this episode, Rev Karla discusses the five reasons the spiritual but not religious is a sacred path. We are breaking down misconceptions, sharing personal stories, and celebrating the beauty of diverse paths to the sacred. Rev Karla will expand on the five reasons the spiritual but not religious is a sacred and meaningful path by discussing: 1. …
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In this special episode, Rev Karla answers your personal questions: If hell isn’t real then Satan and demons wouldn’t be real. If that’s the case, why isn’t the world perfect without temptation? What’s god’s view on being gender fluid? I’ve been struggling feeling me being that way. does it line up with the bible? Why are you still a believer? I’m …
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You Are a Life Force to Be Reckoned With | Embracing Exile and Finding Sacredness in Everyday Moments
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In this episode titled "You Are a Life Force to Be Reckoned With," Rev Karla discusses the butterfly effect, chaos theory, and various forms of energy emitted by the human body, both measurable and subtle. Rev Karla reflects on the interconnectedness of life and encourages listeners to embrace the potential to create positive shifts in their lives …
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We are excited to share this special edition podcast: Sundays with Rev Karla. One of the most commonly asked questions Rev Karla receives is how can I reconnect with Sundays and find community while deconstructing? Each week Rev Karla will share new video teachings inside of her private community on Facebook: Rev Karla's Inner Circle. This communit…
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Rev Karla Answers Your Questions | Part #4 Exploring Challenging Questions: Mission Trips, Personal Values, and Beyond
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In Part #4 Q&A episode of the Spirituality Matters Podcast, Rev Karla dives deep into thought-provoking topics and questions shared from our community. Join her as she explores mission trips, personal values, and even the concept of hell. Here's a glimpse of what to expect: → Questioning the Effectiveness of Mission Trips→ The Bastard Child Syndrom…
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In this episode, Rev Karla discusses the big difference a small beach mouse can have on an ecosystem and connects that to these small moments in our spirituality and humanity. Every moment matters and every person matters. You are significant. You can read more on this topic from Rev Karla in this week's blog post and watch the uncut version on You…
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In this special episode, Rev Karla answers your questions: Do you (Rev Karla) believe in Jesus?Why do you seem angry and hurt at the church? Isn't it time to move on? What are your thoughts about how our country got into this mess?Why do so many churches with toxic theology hide behind the modern church theme? You can read the transcript of this ep…
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In this episode, Rev Karla discusses the meaning of the quote, “The road to hell is paved with good intentions” and other proverbs that are rooted in patriarchy, fear-based theology, and are used to control people and protect those in power.You can read more from Rev Karla on this in this week's Spirituality Matters. For a list of full resources fo…
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In this episode, Rev Karla discusses the malleability of gold, ways gold can be incorporated into rituals, and how gold can be made stronger by adding other metals. Discover the purity and significance of 24K gold, its use in sacred objects and jewelry, and how its resilience mirrors our own journey of growth and strength. Rev Karla ends by remindi…
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Rev Karla Answers Your Questions Part #2 | Exploring rituals and integrating spirituality into our daily life.
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In this episode, Rev Karla answers your questions: What is the role of ritual in spirituality? How can someone be spiritual without any beliefs in the supernatural? How can someone integrate their spirituality into their daily? If you would like your question answered on a future episode, email us at spiritualitymatters@revkarla.com.You can watch t…
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Trigger Warning: AbortionIn this episode, Rev Karla discusses what it means to be pro-life, pro-choice, pro-birth and why we need to have this conversation. It might get a little uncomfortable, but it’s an important conversation to have. You can read more about this from Rev Karla in her blog post HERE.…
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In this episode, Rev Karla answers your questions: What is the difference between deconstructing Christianity and completely rejecting it? How does being unchurched affect one's spirituality? Can you be spiritual but not religious and still have a strong moral compass? You can also watch the uncut version of this episode on Rev Karla's YouTube chan…
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In this episode, Rev Karla discusses what it means to release our indoctrinated religious beliefs, as we become more aware at how it has impacted our identity. She shares examples of these indoctrinated beliefs causing conflict in society today and personal stories of deconstructing from these beliefs and how she rediscovered her identity along the…
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In this episode, Rev Karla discusses spiritual contemplative practices to connect with and heal your inner child. She also talks about the anthem of hope and healing, Dear Me by Nichole Nordeman, and how many of her songs touched Rev Karla deeply and helped her during hard times while deconstructing from Christianity. Be sure to read Rev Karla's Yo…
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It Didn’t Have to Be This Way | Understanding the Pain of the World and the Urgency to Take Action Against Patriarchy
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In this episode, Rev Karla discusses where we are as a society and being invited to understand and embrace empathy to make choices in our life. What does it mean to be an empath? Rev Karla talks about how we can learn to be more empathic from the tragedies that have occurred throughout humanity, including examples of Pol Pot, Corrie ten Boom, Emmet…
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In this episode, Rev Karla discusses the long, winding journey of grief and sorrow. There are more than 5 stages, and they are not linear, be gentle with yourself, dear one. Rev Karla talks about the importance of not expecting things in return when we offer to hold space for grief with someone. You can read on this topic from Rev Karla in her blog…
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In this episode, Rev Karla discusses the theories of redemption and atonement within Christianity and how that can be harmful when it carries over into other parts of our society. It can keep us in a cycle of being eternally grateful and bound to religious structures and the patriarchy but it can be liberating to break free from this indoctrination…
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In this episode, Rev Karla received a lovely email and question from a follower named Ginny, who wrote: "Thank you for the many ways we can explore our deconstruction as well as understand the ways Christianity continues to oppress the marginalized. Rev Karla, in your deconstruction, are you still a believer in the Trinity? That Jesus is the way to…
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In this episode, Rev Karla interviews Amir Yass, a queer Muslim unicorn living his best life as he navigates his spiritual journey. They discuss how faith can support you in your authenticity, separating culture from religion, and being out, loud and proud. They also talk about the importance of finding your tribe when your family minimizes your au…
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In this episode, Rev Karla discusses disruptive statements that help to elevate the human condition. Rev Karla talks through ways we can leave the world a better place by hearing, understanding and holding space for another person's pain. Does church support your spiritual values or is it time to leave and embrace other spiritual practices that fee…
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In this episode, Rev Karla discusses lessons learned from her beloved grandmothers. She recalls moments she now realizes was her grandmothers rejecting the patriarchy in different ways throughout their lives. Rev Karla feels connected to her religious heritage when telling these stories. You can read more from Rev Karla in this week's blog post and…
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In this episode, Rev Karla interviews Unconventional Pastor Paul, a mutual from the TikTok deconstructing community. They discuss their interpretations of the Christian Bible, the threat of Christian Nationalism, and the books that helped them open their minds to spirituality outside of organized religion on their deconstructing journeys. Rev Karla…
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In this episode, Rev Karla discusses the difficulties of creating the life you want as a woman living in a patriarchal society. She tells personal stories about the breadcrumbs in her life that lead her to step out of that patriarchal structure and pave her own path to a life she knew she deserves. It’s important to stay true to yourself, trust the…
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In this episode, Rev Karla discusses the grief of leaving church and losing your community on your deconstructing journey. Can you afford to lose that community? Will you ever return? You are not alone on this difficult journey. It’s hard, it’s scary and everything changes, but it is worth it. You can watch the uncut version on YouTube and read mor…
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In this episode, Rev Karla discusses the importance of healing as an individual and as a collective, in community with others. She asks the question, "why did faith hurt in the first place?" Rev Karla dives into different stages and processes of the healing journey and how to create a safe space for your spirituality along the way. You can read mor…
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In this episode, Rev Karla interviews Marlana Glaeser, the owner of Gentle Hands Consulting, a lifestyle consulting business assisting people with their trauma-healing jumpstart. She is a single mother sharing her story of childhood neglect, sexual abuse, and her spiritual journey beginning with growing up in a conservative Christian home. Marlana …
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In this episode, Rev Karla interviews the executive director of Spirituality Network Alejandro Rodriguez. Rodriguez and his organization work to connect people with resources for spiritual growth and depth, regardless of their faith tradition, through educational training, programs and events. They discuss their different spiritual journeys and how…
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In this episode, Rev Karla discusses how to stand up and use your voice as an advocate when it is safe for you to do so. Rev Karla also talks about Andrew Harvey and his definition of sacred activism and the difference between evangelizing and advocating. You can read more from Rev Karla in this week's blog post. You can watch the uncut version of …
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In this episode, Rev Karla discusses 5 practical and simple ways to reclaim your spirituality, heal your religious trauma, and to know what it truly means to be on the spiritual-but-not-religious path. You can read more on this topic from Rev Karla in this week's blog post and watch the uncut version of this episode on her YouTube channel, Spiritua…
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In this episode, Rev Karla discusses what the inner child is and healthy ways to begin the healing process. You can read Rev Karla's blog post for this episode and watch the uncut version on YouTube. Additional recourses for this episode include: What is an Inner Child and What Does It Know?, What is Your Inner Child?, Rev Karla's TikTok, and The S…
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In this last episode of 2022, Rev Karla discusses her goddess hour writings and some of the Christian Nationalist politicians who won their races, that we need to keep our eyes on. Rev Karla also reads a special winter solstice writing that she shares in this week's blog post. You can watch the uncut version of this episode on YouTube. Any New Year…
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In this episode, Rev Karla discusses her experiences of holding space for loved ones as they are taking their last breaths and the spiritual significance of taking care of them in those moments. Trigger warning: this episode discusses the death of humans and animals. You can read more from Rev Karla on this topic in her blog post and watch the uncu…
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In this episode, Rev Karla discusses the difficulty of navigating the loneliness of the spiritual wilderness when you begin deconstructing to heal your religious trauma. Rev Karla leaves you to ask yourself, how are you leaving the world a better place because of your spirituality? You can read Rev Karla's blog post of this episode or watch the unc…
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In this episode, Rev Karla discusses the dangers of Christian Nationalism, the Seven Mountain Mandate, the importance of the midterm elections, and the plan to privatize public education. You can read more from Rev Karla on this in her blog post and be sure to watch the uncut version of her podcast on YouTube. Additional resources include: Vice, Do…
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