This is Part 2 of a 2-part episode. Click here for Part 1. More often than not, when no-contact adult children end their estrangements and return to the relationship, there's an elephant in the room -- at least from the parent's point of view. Parents feel like they're walking on eggshells, trying to avoid whatever it was that created the problem i…

In this episode, Registered Clinical Counselling-Hypnotherapist Kemila Zsange Travels to Canada's Newest National Park in Saskatchewan: Grasslands National Park, and answers this age-old question "Is Hypnosis Mind Control" with:- No. Hypnosis is not mind control, and - Yes. Hypnosis is mind control. And it's a good thing. In addition, Kemila uses a…

TRANSCRIPT: These are uncertain times for those of us who create and freely share content via the Internet. I mentioned on the podcast earlier this year that I needed some time to assess the impact of all the changes happening in the world of digital information, including the widespread, unregulated use of AI. At that time, I removed the show from…

In this episode, Kemila answers the question if "something inherently wrong in my brain that’s just keeping me stuck". Here are some links that are mentioned in the video: That "big, eye-opening session" that Jeny mentioned is a 4-hour hypnosis intensive session: https://kemilahypnosis.com/intensive/ The product of Letting Abundance Flow was made a…

Starting with the very general question, "How does hypnotherapy work?" Kemila uses the analogy of journeys to illustrate how it's about a journey inside. She uses some client examples to explain how the inner journey is a rich, rewarding experience. Kemila still sees private clients. Contact Kemila. Start your inner journey today: https://kemilahyp…

In this Episode, Kemila answers a question on hypnotizability and how a 4-hour hypnotherapy session is about. https://kemilahypnosis.com/intensive/Episode 28, filmed in Cabo San Lucas Mexico, there was some cactus as well: https://youtu.be/mGNpZ8gq9lM?si=1pFhYqv7-xBEaVu3--Support podtube.me continuity as a free service. Become a Patreon or make an …

In this episode made in February, the month of Valentine's, Kemila Zsange answers the question that hypnotherapy CAN work with couple relationships. https://kemilahypnosis.com/relationship-enhancement-through-counselling-and-hypnotherapy/--Support podtube.me continuity as a free service. Become a Patreon or make an one-time donation--Video at Youtu…

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In this episode, Kemila Zsange answered the question from Miranda: Can you work with Spirit release remotely in hypnosis? And many of her follow-up questions. https://kemilahypnosis.com/past-life-regression/spirit-attachment-release/--Support podtube.me continuity as a free service. Become a Patreon or make an one-time donation--Video at Youtube: h…

Starting from a psychologist client's quest for a soul connection through Past Life Regression, Kemila discusses how past life regression can help with this lifetime's choices and decisions and how we can broaden our perspectives through the whole story of the soul's journey. www.kemilahypnosis.comwww.carolslives.com--Support podtube.me continuity …

These things are true about estrangement support on the internet: 1. Many estranged adult children’s forums contain mean-spirited remarks about rejected parents. 2. Many rejected parents’ forums contain mean-spirited remarks about estranged adult children. 3. Mean-spirited remarks don’t heal the pain of estrangement on either side. True support, in…

When your own adult child cuts you off, it can be deeply hurtful. And part of the reason for that pain is what it feels like their estrangement means. Many rejected parents believe it’s their personal flaws that prompted their adult children to create distance. They think that because they’ll never be perfect, there’s nothing they can do to repair …

It’s common for parents to believe that the “punishment” of estrangement is supposed to fit the “crime” – whatever it may be – to which their adult child is holding them accountable by keeping their distance. This idea that the length or perceived severity of estrangement correlates exclusively to an injury or injuries suffered by the adult child i…

In the video, Kemila describes the ins and outs, pros and cons of doing hypnotherapy online. The previous video from Oak Bay Victoria, Episode 18, can be found at this link: https://youtu.be/HiB5KNuzPCI?si=ES4B4D-5EbltJT1Vwww.kemilahypnosis.com--Support podtube.me continuity as a free service. Become a Patreon or make an one-time donation--Video at…

What are parents supposed to do when estranged adult children leave their belongings at home? That’s a tricky question. There isn’t just one right answer that will fit for every family. When you’re storing the belongings of someone who’s not talking to you, you’re in a difficult position – both logistically and emotionally. How do you decide what t…

Estrangement from family is a kind of ambiguous loss. But some of the losses that are often associated with estrangement are definitive. They can be grieved. For parents who are unwillingly estranged from their adult children, there are at least five potential, definitive losses they might sustain during estrangement. Tina walks listeners through t…

In this Episode, Kemila Zsange, a clinic counselling hypnotherapist, answers the questions from Chris: - Can a review of past lives reveal events or patterns that contribute to phobias or unusual obsessions in this life? - If so, can knowing about the causes be helpful in this life?www.kemilahypnosis.comwww.carolslives.com--Support podtube.me conti…

Some parents of estranged adult children beat themselves up for parenting “mistakes” they couldn’t possibly have avoided. Others blame their children for being difficult, ungrateful or too sensitive. What’s missing from these simplistic assignments of blame for estrangement? Context. According to Tina, context is very often overlooked to the detrim…

Some parents experiencing estrangement from their adult children have known estrangement before. Not necessarily from other people, but within themselves. Self-alienation is a kind of internal estrangement that has become almost normal in our culture. With so much information available and so much to do, we're not always fully present. We lose touc…

Estrangement from family, like everything else, takes place against the psychological backdrop of human development. Far from ending in adulthood, development continues throughout the lifespan, and offers hope for change in any given week, month or year of our lives. In this interesting episode, Tina takes listeners on a brief tour of the concept o…

From the South Island of New Zealand, Kemila answered another hypnotherapist's question on the physiological responses after a hypnotherapy session. Episode 20 can be found here: https://youtu.be/9PVJBGjD3xM www.kemilahypnosis.comwww.carolslives.com--Support podtube.me continuity as a free service. Become a Patreon or make an one-time donation--Vid…

If your adult child is not responding to texts, emails or any attempts at contact, at some point you might begin to worry about the time that’s passing during estrangement. This could happen for a couple of reasons… One frightening thought is that the longer adult child(ren) are estranged, the harder it will be to reconnect. That’s an understandabl…

In this special two-part episode of the podcast, Tina reads a letter she received from an estranged adult child whose estrangement story began with childhood enmeshment. You’ll learn about enmeshment’s impacts on children, and why those impacts are sometimes invisible to even loving, conscientious parents. Listeners may gain clarity about their own…

On this special two-part episode of the podcast, Tina reads a letter she received from an estranged adult child whose estrangement story began with childhood enmeshment. You’ll learn about enmeshment’s impacts on children, and why those impacts are sometimes invisible to even loving, conscientious parents. Listeners may gain clarity about their own…

Parents of estranged adult children often carry unhealed emotional wounds from long ago. The pain of those wounds can be reactivated when adult children become estranged, especially if original injuries involved separation, loss, rejection or abandonment. For those parents, the injury of unwanted estrangement brings back the pain of old trauma (wit…

Many parents exhaust themselves trying in vain to reconnect with their estranged adult child or children. While some keep struggling to come up with new things to try, others succumb to despair and begin to believe the situation is hopeless. In both cases, the question may arise: When is the right time to stop trying? This is one of the saddest que…

Breathe through your nose if you can. Make your exhale longer than your inhale. Slow down and deepen your breathing. All of those are simple, accessible ways to calm an upset nervous system. Controlled breathing is one of the oldest and most effective methods to combat stress over time. For parents unwillingly estranged from adult children and gran…

At the beginning of February, the month of Valentine, Kemila answered a question from someone who was heartbroken and wanted to erase his ex-partner from his mind. As mentioned in this episode, here's Kemila's participation interview video at Anne Margaret's Heart Break Recovery: https://youtu.be/v8DtFhweFr8. www.kemilahypnosis.comwww.carolslives.c…

NOTE: In offering a list of stress-reduction practices, Tina refers to both the third and fourth items as "Number Three." Please don't be distracted by the misnumbering; there are five separate items in the list. Many parents of estranged adult children know the pain of a broken heart. But for some, Broken Heart Syndrome becomes a medical crisis. A…

It may feel wrong to use words like “strategy” and “tactics” when talking about personal relationships. But healing from family estrangement, especially for parents unwillingly estranged from their adult children, often requires strategic thinking. Tina points out that “strategy” is simply a word for having a plan. Tactics are the “how” of any stra…

Some parents of estranged adult children may already be familiar with the serenity prayer, popularized by AA and other 12-step groups: "God, grant me the serenity To accept the things I cannot change, Courage to change the things I can, And wisdom to know the difference." Knowing when to take action and when to stand down is helpful in gently movin…

As soon as they realize their adult child or children are estranged, most parents will try to reestablish a connection as quickly as possible. And while it’s only natural to do so, racing to reconnect can lead to wasted time and energy — and sadly, needless extra suffering. In this short but vital episode, Tina explains why the process of genuine r…

In this episode, Kemila describes mechanically and energetically how depression works, with a historic example of Giordano Bruno. www.kemilahypnosis.com--Support podtube.me continuity as a free service. Become a Patreon or make an one-time donation--Video at Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kXlyklVmuN8…

If your adult child has stepped away from your relationship by deciding to become estranged, then in general, it's not a good idea to make requests of him or her. Instead, it may be best to view this time of estrangement as a request from your child, that you examine your relationship and try to understand their decision. That's often the beginning…

The pain of estrangement from an adult child or children is, for many parents, excruciating. Some describe it as the worst they’ve ever felt. It’s overwhelming, and feels unending. But to say that you’re in pain is not the full story. It’s just a disturbing headline with no further information. To deal with pain, we must know its name. What is your…

The pain of estrangement from an adult child or children is, for many parents, excruciating. Some describe it as the worst they’ve ever felt. It’s overwhelming, and feels unending. But to say that you’re in pain is not the full story. It’s just a disturbing headline with no further information. To deal with pain, we must know its name. What is your…

If you’re the parent of an estranged adult child (or any adult child) who identifies as transgender or gender non-conforming, you might be asked to refer to them with pronouns you’re not used to. When your child was growing up, you called her “she” and “her.” Now you’re being asked to use “they” and “them,” “he” and “him,” “ze” and “hir,” or other …

Parents of estranged adult children often worry that what's happening in their families may be part of a growing trend. On the one hand, it's soothing to know you're not alone when you're suffering. But on the other, fascination with "estrangement as a trend" is just one more way to take your eye off the ball when you're seeking to reconnect with y…

In this video, Kemila Zsange answers a question from another hypnotherapist Candice:"This past weekend I did a hypnotherapy session for someone and they said they had a headache for almost 2 days after the session :( Is this something you have heard of happening before? I felt so bad, and I hope it wasn't something I caused. Safe travels!"There is …

“Manipulative.” It’s an intimidating word, especially when other people apply it to us. What do they mean when they say we’re being manipulative? Some parents of estranged adult children are well acquainted with the word and the concept of manipulation. Either they’ve been accused of being manipulative themselves, or they find their adult child(ren…

“Manipulative.” It’s an intimidating word, especially when other people apply it to us. What do they mean when they say we’re being manipulative? Some parents of estranged adult children are well acquainted with the word and the concept of manipulation. Either they’ve been accused of being manipulative themselves, or they find their adult child(ren…

For parents unwillingly estranged from an adult child, it can seem as though forgiveness is the brass ring. If they can attain forgiveness, reconnection will be secured and the nightmare of unwanted estrangement will end. But is that true? In this interesting episode, Tina challenges the notion of adult children’s unwillingness to forgive – likenin…

The more parents learn about how to respond effectively to estrangement by adult children, the more they start to regret what they did (or didn’t do) in the past. Regret is the price of change; when certain changes make sense, we almost always wish we’d made them sooner. But in this episode, Tina assures rejected parents that all is not lost if you…

In this video, Kemila answers Anna's question: I wanted to recall a memory from 30 years ago. Can I bring someone to sit in the hypnotic regression session with me?Kemila addresses having someone observe a session and recording your own regression session. Here's the video link to a full hypnosis regression session (otherworldly encounter) with Kem…

The people who most need self-care are the least likely to focus on it. So if the whole idea of self-care seems boring to you, you might want to force yourself to listen to this episode! It’s stressful to be estranged from your own adult child or children. Maybe there are also grandchildren involved, adding another layer of suffering to the unwante…

If you get an opportunity for family therapy with your estranged adult child, there are things a parent needs to know. Family therapy is not mediation. Nor is it like marital or couples counseling. For it to be successful, family therapy with children of any age is something for which parents must be prepared. In this informative episode, Tina desc…

Who would create a promo video after the book has been published for almost two years? The answer: Me! I had planned ahead, had hired a talented photographer - my book cover designer Silmara Emde to do the work. Then I travelled too much. Then she moved city. Then the pandemic hit. Then I travelled more… Months became years… Finally, my partner Tim…

Parents may be overjoyed at the thought of reconnecting with their estranged adult children, but there’s often a more complicated experience in store for them. Many parents describe a continuing feeling of walking on eggshells. They feel as though there’s a constant danger of backward movement, so they find themselves checking in about absolutely e…

Visiting websites where estranged adult children commiserate with each other... Worrying about influences beyond your control... Focusing exclusively on getting an emotionally distant adult child to communicate with you... These are a few ways parents waste precious time during unwanted estrangement from adult children. It’s understandable to want …

Smart parents are keen not to waste time during estrangement from their adult child(ren). So they set about working on themselves in a good-faith effort to prepare for reconnection. If you have the time, energy and support for personal development, you’re ahead of the pack. But what does “working on yourself” really mean? And who are you doing it f…