Provided via Unsplash We are living in what feels like an unprecedented time. There are genocides galore and the feelings of powerlessness and voicelessness abound— wreaking havoc on our emotions, yes, but also likely giving a pretty heavy dose of vicarious trauma. You can’t watch the aftermath of bombing, see babies beheaded, and simultaneously he…

Recently I had the honor of meeting with Dr. Jess for her podcast, Sex with Dr. Jess and we spoke about sexual compatibility. I don’t think it’s much of a secret that I think folk use the idea of being sexually compatible as a cop out. What I mean is that we often work hard as hell to NOT try but then blame everything on sexual compatibility. We wi…

Some people will have clicked on the link leading to this blog either fully hoping that I will say that Angel Reese, in all her Black girl glory is being arrogant, or that you will click it waiting to lambast me for lambasting her. Well, if you are in the former camp, you will be sorely disappointed, though, if you stick around, you might learn a t…